diff --git "a/mapped.json" "b/mapped.json" new file mode 100644--- /dev/null +++ "b/mapped.json" @@ -0,0 +1,12827 @@ +[ + { + "id": 1, + "context": "", + "response": [ + "Yeah, what's your deepest darkest secret?", + "Kidding, but should I be scared to be in a car with you while driving?", + "haha so you just never got caught, got it. My deepest darkest secret is that I secretly find black girls named (Mishal) really attractive, don't judge me;) hbu?" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " No kids, no tattoos, ran into many curbs, never been to prison LOL." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Any more questions?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yeah, what's your deepest darkest secret?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Kidding, but should I be scared to be in a car with you while driving?", + "coach_comment": " These messages break up the usual boring get to know you conversations that usually happen on dating apps and make it more interesting and fun." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Noo" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019ve never got a ticket haha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What\u2019s your deepest darkest secret?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "haha so you just never got caught, got it. My deepest darkest secret is that I secretly find black girls named (Mishal) really attractive, don't judge me;) hbu?", + "coach_comment": " This message is a more fun/ interesting way to pay the girl a compliment instead of just saying that he finds her attractive." + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 2, + "context": "This is his new official girlfriend which he has been officially dating for 1 month. ", + "response": [ + "We can go sometime babe \ud83d\ude18, this one\u2019s for the boys" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " How\u2019s your day going ?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Just woke up from a nap, got stories scheduled for next week" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That\u2019s good babe. Any plans for the rest of the night or just relaxing " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Just relaxing, prob watch some baseball. Trying to plan this trip with my friends to go to florida at the end of the month" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Not going with me ?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We can go sometime babe \ud83d\ude18, this one\u2019s for the boys", + "coach_comment": " This message does well to set a boundary, which is important especially early in a relationship." + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 3, + "context": "This student has been messaging random girls on instagram in his area who he thinks is cute. They have never met nor do they know each other. In this particular conversation the student was saying things that were very bad so the coach had to get context as to why he called her a raver. The student told the coach that there was a rave called day tripping at the queen mary that weekend, so the coach had to pivot and try to save the conversation so it didn\u2019t keep going downhill, getting negative responses from the woman. Also, during this conversation, the coach was asking the student if he drank wine and the student thought he was supposed to send this message to the girl. It was to soon to try and escalate the conversation to a wine date so the coach had to once again pivot and slow the conversation down to not look needy. ", + "response": [ + "Anyway, had to slide into the DM\u2019s to see what that fun bubbly vibe ws all about", + "So far so good.. Might have to see in person before giving you the final verdict", + "Shoot me your number and we\u2019ll iron out the details", + "Just making sure. My buddy sent me a bottle of Caymus, SO good.", + "Anyway, make sure you saved the number ;)", + "Lol perfect.. I\u2019ll email you this weekend", + "I might be able to save a little for you" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Long Beach?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " yes I'm out here" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Ahh you seem like a Long Beach girl." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Now what does that mean?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " You like the beach, driving boats, and raving. That screams LB chick!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I don't know girls out here that like to rave, they're all in the IE!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Anyway, had to slide into the DM\u2019s to see what that fun bubbly vibe ws all about", + "coach_comment": " This message provides a reason for him messaging her in the first place without coming across as weird or creepy." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " And what\u2019s the verdict?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "So far so good.. Might have to see in person before giving you the final verdict", + "coach_comment": " This message seeds the idea of an in-person meet up." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hmm okay" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Let\u2019s see when that\u2019ll happen" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Shoot me your number and we\u2019ll iron out the details", + "coach_comment": " It is good to get the girl\u2019s number and move the conversation off the social media app as this requires a certain level of ivestment from the girl." + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey Lesli, it\u2019s Javier the cute raver" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " hey hey what\u2019s up" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Do you drink wine ?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes I do" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Just making sure. My buddy sent me a bottle of Caymus, SO good." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Anyway, make sure you saved the number ;)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019ve actually never tried that wine" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " hmm I did save it but your texts are sending through your email lmao" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Lol perfect.. I\u2019ll email you this weekend" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I might be able to save a little for you" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hope you do" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 4, + "context": "The student has met this girl in person one time and they are texting back and forth. She is following up with him after he didn\u2019t respond to a text about meeting up ", + "response": [ + "It\u2019s ok if you can\u2019t control yourself around me", + "You just have to be good until Saturday ;)", + "Don\u2019t get too excited, coming from the chick that double text me haha ;). But, you\u2019re cute so it\u2019s all good" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " u truly suck at texting" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " What do you mean lol? I was busy, but anyway i\u2019m thinking mini golf and a drive in movie" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " hahahah it\u2019s fine I am too so I have no room to talk. I am usually not this persistent at texting" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " but I like that" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "It\u2019s ok if you can\u2019t control yourself around me", + "coach_comment": " " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You just have to be good until Saturday ;)", + "coach_comment": " These messages do well to put the student in the buyers frame, implying she can\u2019t wait to meet up with him again. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " BAHAHAHAH STOP" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " you wish \ud83d\ude06" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " i have seen you a singular time don\u2019t get too excited" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Don\u2019t get too excited, coming from the chick that double text me haha ;). But, you\u2019re cute so it\u2019s all good", + "coach_comment": " This is a good method of flirting as it suggests that she is the one who is excited which she might see as negative but ends in a compliment." + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 5, + "context": "The student matched with a girl on Hinge. He liked her photo, but she was the first to message him. In his profile he talked about how he is excellent at psychoanalyzing woman ", + "response": [ + "Analysis: Cute but will slash your tires if upset", + "How\u2019d I do" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I 100% want a psychoanalysis" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Analysis: Cute but will slash your tires if upset", + "coach_comment": "This message is broad and could apply to millions of girls. " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "How\u2019d I do" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019ve never slashed anyone\u2019s tires, but i\u2019m not going to say that I wouldn\u2019t \ud83d\ude02" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 6, + "context": "He met this girl on Hinge. She liked his photo first and he got her number. They discussed the best types of wine and the girl mentioned it would only be weird if he loved Ros\u00e9. Voice messages were recommended during the Hinge interaction as they build a more intimate vibe, making you seem more real than just letters on a screen. The aim of the whatsapp conversation was to vibe, tell her about himself and find out things about her while moving towards the in-person meet up.", + "response": [ + "maybe voice notes would be better then so we don\u2019t have a breakdown in communication. Then we might never get to our first date. Wouldn\u2019t that be tragic.", + "I was thinking you, me, a bottle of wine, laughs, teases, neck kisses, that sort of thing. Vibing and building chemistry", + "I am a red wine drinker, you know me so well already lol", + "You\u2019ll find out soon enough ;)", + "a doctor? You out here saving lives", + "Depends, what\u2019s your schedule like?", + "You\u2019ll have to tell me more about that on our date", + "Potentially?", + "Ever been to (name of venue)?", + "I\u2019m full of surprises \ud83d\ude09", + "Hey (her name) last night was fun", + "Not sure I had to persuade you \ud83d\ude09 we should get together again sometime soon", + "Let\u2019s do it, is there a day that works best for you?", + "I was going to say town again or is there somewhere you\u2019re dying to show me in Stalybridge? \ud83d\ude09", + "That is a dream, I could be your muse", + "I\u2019ll expect my first portrait on our date" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey Anna I like your style \ud83d\udc4c" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hey, I like yours too \ud83d\udc4d and nice hair!" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Thanks, I wonder how well our styles would mix" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " It could work" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " You don\u2019t sound confident" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That\u2019s the problem with messages, can\u2019t tell how something is meant to come across" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "maybe voice notes would be better then so we don\u2019t have a breakdown in communication. Then we might never get to our first date. Wouldn\u2019t that be tragic.", + "coach_comment": " This message is a good excuse to send a voice message. Voice messages are useful because they can humanize you. It is likely the girl is getting a lot of messages on dating apps and other messages but sending voice messages can set you apart from the crowd by doing something most men don\u2019t and by making you more real, not just words on a screen. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (Sent as a voice message) So I\u2019m not a fan of voice notes but I guess I led myself into that. What were you thinking for the first date?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I was thinking you, me, a bottle of wine, laughs, teases, neck kisses, that sort of thing. Vibing and building chemistry", + "coach_comment": " This message is good to use when talking about what will happen on the date. It shows the girl that you are emotionally mature as you want to vibe and build chemistry before anything happens but there is a sexual undertone and there is no ambiguity about it being a date when you mention teases and neck kisses." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds like a lovely evening " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I could get on board with that" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Shoot me your number and we\u2019ll organize it " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Wait, are you a red or white girl first?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That cannot be a dealbreaker" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Unless you drink rose" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (Gives her phone number)" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Messaged" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey Anna, it\u2019s Alfie from the thing" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Don\u2019t worry, not a ros\u00e8 drinker" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " oh that thing" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I didn\u2019t think you would be, I bet you\u2019re a red wine drinker though" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " How\u2019s your day been?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I am a red wine drinker, you know me so well already lol", + "coach_comment": " This message implies a level of familiarity and closeness between the girl and the student." + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Day has been great, been at uni, then gym, currently making dinner, you?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " lol Classy" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That\u2019s very positive for a Tuesday. What do you do at uni?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Just been working, going to to the gym soon" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019m a classy guy haha" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Getting my teaching qualification. What do you do?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m sure you are \ud83d\udc40" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ooh okay, when will you finish? I\u2019m a doctor. Wish I was still at uni \ud83d\ude22" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You\u2019ll find out soon enough ;)", + "coach_comment": " This message seeds the date again after setting it up on Hinge." + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " finish in july. It\u2019s been a stressful few weeks, can\u2019t wait for the easter holidays lol " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "a doctor? You out here saving lives", + "coach_comment": " This message is a slight exaggeration but pays her a compliment in a more lighthearted way." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " When will that be then? \ud83d\ude09 why has it been stressful have you had deadlines? Easter holidays lol I remember those \ud83d\ude2d do you get two weeks off? Haha yes, except when we\u2019re on strike" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Depends, what\u2019s your schedule like?", + "coach_comment": " This is a very simple message that begins arranging the date. " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Deadlines, placement, kids attacking me, yanno the usual stuff. Yeah a couple of weeks but it\u2019s going to be full of essay writing." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You\u2019ll have to tell me more about that on our date", + "coach_comment": " This message seeds the date. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Potentially free this weekend, then I have quite a bit of free time next thursday onwards, what about you? Sounds fun, how old are the kids, are they putting you in your place\u2026 ah, well i have an exam coming up, maybe we could have a productive time together" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Potentially?", + "coach_comment": " This message calls out the fact that the girl is being unclear with her intentions. If this kind of thing is called out, you may find a genuine reason for her apprehension in meeting up or just a scheduling issue that can be overcome. " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Kids are year 3-6. They try lol but it\u2019s always the small ones you can lift with one finger that act all hard" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Woman of mystery. When are you free? Well I hope you\u2019re not lifting kids when you\u2019re on placement lol" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Free maybe saturday & sunday eve this weekend. No lol not about to start wrestling kids " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Okay, Thursday is probably best for me but that might be too long for you to wait\u2026 I could be tempted by this weekend, busy Friday night and Saturday day currently" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " We could do saturday night" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Where would you fancy going?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Ever been to (name of venue)?", + "coach_comment": " This message baby steps towards the close. You should allow the girl to say yes to each step individually to minimize flaking." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah, only sat outside for drinks though" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " it\u2019s nice there, good wine" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds good to me, could go there or anywhere in town. Do you live in the center? I\u2019m busy until about 6, could probably make it into town for 7" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Sounds good, shall we say 7:30? Living in Prestwich atm. You?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah should be ok! Staylybridge if you know where that is lol" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Great" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I know the name, think i played football there a few times" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I didn\u2019t think you looked like the type to play football \ud83d\ude05" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You doing anything today?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m full of surprises \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": " This sort of message can imply that there is more to you than meets the eye. It can make her more excited to meet you in person." + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Got to the gym this morning but just having a chill day before some very intense essay writing starting monday. You?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ahah, better make the most of this weekend then\u2026 so I\u2019m currently at the theater lol it\u2019s on for longer than I expected, can we meet at 8 instead?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Nice, you\u2019ll have to tell me about it later. 8 works for me" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " cool, I\u2019ll be getting the train to town, gets in at 7:55, wanna meet somewhere near there?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " That\u2019s fine, can meet at the station and walk over to the venue" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " see ya soon" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " see you soon" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " off the train now where shall I walk to?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Uber dropping me off outside the station in 5 mins" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " okay I\u2019ll wait inside" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hey (her name) last night was fun", + "coach_comment": " This is a good message to send to the girl the day after a date to reopen, start conversation and move towards the next date. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hey (student\u2019s name) yeah i really enjoyed it, even if you did persuade me to let you come back to mine" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Not sure I had to persuade you \ud83d\ude09 we should get together again sometime soon", + "coach_comment": " This message contains some callback humor to the date and suggests meeting up for a second date." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Well I tried to play it cool \ud83d\udc40 we should, maybe over the weekend?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Let\u2019s do it, is there a day that works best for you?", + "coach_comment": " This message moves into the logistics of setting up the date." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Not the saturday night but pretty much free otherwise, when\u2019s good for you? You said you might be seeing family?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Actually I could do the saturday so yeah any time really from thursday onwards" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Yeah I don\u2019t think I\u2019m going to see family, need to focus on work so don\u2019t want to take 3 days off that. Shall we do friday?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah 3 days is a lot to commit lol. Friday is good with me \ud83d\ude0a have you got anything in mind?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Great, shall we go for some food" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes please, town again or? Prestwich? Stayleybridge?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I was going to say town again or is there somewhere you\u2019re dying to show me in Stalybridge? \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": " This message is a slight tease, implying that she wants to impress the student on their next date. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Well there are many hidden gems, maybe one day \ud83d\ude09 let\u2019s do town" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " How was day one of productivity?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019ll hold you to that \ud83d\ude09 I\u2019ll show you some gems in Prestwich in return. Let\u2019s do town this time then" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " So tell me, are you actually a doctor?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019m in school studying to be one.. Soon enough" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Is that you\u2019re dream job?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " It is, what about you\u2019re dream job ?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " To be a painter in Italy, but that will probably never happen so i\u2019m looking for a graphic design job haha" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "That is a dream, I could be your muse", + "coach_comment": " " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " hahaha sure you can" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019ll expect my first portrait on our date" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " hahah and when is our first date?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " When are you typically free?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Saturday should work" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Great, shoot me your number and we\u2019ll sort it out." + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 7, + "context": "He matched with this girl on Bumble, she was the first to message him ", + "response": [ + "I bet you use that line on all the cute guys ;)", + "Always wanted to travel to italy. Been to parts of Europe, a lot of mexico, want to skydive, and maybe add drinks with a cute brunette called (her name), you?", + "We could make perfect travel buddies", + " Sounds like the best of both world to me \ud83d\ude0f", + "We should do Thailand together. We\u2019ll plan it on our first date", + "Oh (her name), maybe this won\u2019t work after all lol. What\u2019s your go to drink?" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What\u2019s something on your bucket list?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I bet you use that line on all the cute guys ;)", + "coach_comment": " This is a good message to use if the girl messages first and is particularly good when used on Bumble. It challenges her while also framing you as a cute guy." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " A make or break answer really \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Always wanted to travel to italy. Been to parts of Europe, a lot of mexico, want to skydive, and maybe add drinks with a cute brunette called (her name), you?", + "coach_comment": " Adding her to your bucket list is just a fun way of saying you\u2019re attracted to her and shows intent." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That\u2019s the exact same as me!! I want to skydive but i\u2019m scared haha. I would love to go to italy one day too" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " She is half blonde I'm afraid. Might want to change that on the bucket list" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We could make perfect travel buddies", + "coach_comment": " This message implies future projection of potential activities but the \u2018could\u2019 means she still has to win you over." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": " Sounds like the best of both world to me \ud83d\ude0f", + "coach_comment": " This message passes her slight shit test by staying calm and turning it into a compliment. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ideal plan right there" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What are the top 3 places you want to visit?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Kenya, Thailand, California, Bali. You ?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Thailand, Mykonos, Greece, New York, and Australia. Definitely others, but these are my main ones. " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We should do Thailand together. We\u2019ll plan it on our first date", + "coach_comment": " This message begins to seed the idea of a first date. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Don\u2019t have to ask me twice to go on vacation haha. So, whens the date?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " You free friday ?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes, what do you have in mind?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I know a good wine bar near downtown" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You\u2019re gonna hate me" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m not a big wine girl lol" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Oh (her name), maybe this won\u2019t work after all lol. What\u2019s your go to drink?", + "coach_comment": " This message is challenging and puts the student in the buyers frame." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " ahahahaha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I apologize" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I like vodka, rum, gin" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019m sure we can find a way through this lol, we should get drinks then" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Let's do it, here\u2019s my number" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 8, + "context": "The student had a prompt in his hinge profile that is a shower thought I recently had, and his answer is you don\u2019t even wanna know with a devil emoji. The girl commented on this prompt. Her comment is listed as the first line below.", + "response": [ + "Well that all depends. Are you the sexually open minded type of girl?", + "Only if you say please", + "Me bending (her name) over my bed, grabbing a fistful of her hair and.." + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I really want to know. The devil emoji is enticing. Is it a dirty thought or something about going to hell, I need to know" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Well that all depends. Are you the sexually open minded type of girl?", + "coach_comment": " This message gets consent from the girl about moving forward with sexualising the conversation. It asks in a challenging way if she is open to talking about sex on the dating app." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I would say so.. Are you the sexually open minded type of guy ?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Mhm, glad you\u2019re as well ;)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " So am I hearing the shower thought?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Only if you say please", + "coach_comment": " This message gets consent from the girl about moving forward with sexualising the conversation but it also establishes a dominant frame. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Fucks sake, this better be good" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Please \ud83d\udc9c" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Me bending (her name) over my bed, grabbing a fistful of her hair and..", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to give her just enough of the sexual fantasy for her to imagine me doing these things to her but also allows her to fill in the blanks if she wants to. It also prompts her to ask for more, allowing you to go deeper into the sexualisation. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You gonna smack her ass while its bent over?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hard" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Just realized I didn\u2019t say please" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sorry" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Ohh, you\u2019re a bad girl, you\u2019ll be punished on our date now" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That sounds good, when am I getting spanked then (students name)" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " What\u2019s your schedule like ?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m free tomorrow, here is my number" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 9, + "context": "Context:The student met this girl out while at the bars. He got her number and text her a few days later", + "response": [ + "Sounds like you could use some stress relief\u201d This message is a good segway into asking for the date. Can usually be followed up with \u201cI hear drinks with a handsome, (something else about their physical appearance, hobbies, job) man does wonders for stress", + "I\u2019m great, just got home from my brothers birthday, but still managed to get a workout in this morning, looking nice and sharp for our date", + "I\u2019m a sucker for girls with lots of tattoos. The more the merrier. No flaws here btw haha", + "Absolutely. I could maybe do with a few more tattoos if we are being picky", + "Cute, we\u2019ll see when you\u2019re handcuffed to the bed", + "i\u2019ll be sure to add handcuffing to tomorrow nights agenda", + "You, me, a bottle of wine, laughs, teases, neck kisses. That sort of thing. Vibe and build chemistry", + "We can swap out the bottle of wine. That and pulling you close and letting our lips touch, but not kiss", + "Think you can handle all that?", + "Not cocky, just confident. We will have some fun" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey (her name)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hey (student name)" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " How\u2019s your Thursday been treating you ?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Not bad, just got home from work, exhausted" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What about you ?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Shit.. what do you do ?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Sounds like you could use some stress relief\u201d This message is a good segway into asking for the date. Can usually be followed up with \u201cI hear drinks with a handsome, (something else about their physical appearance, hobbies, job) man does wonders for stress", + "coach_comment": " This message is a good segway into asking for the date. Can usually be followed up with \u201cI hear drinks with a handsome, (something else about their physical appearance, hobbies, job) man does wonders for stress" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m great, just got home from my brothers birthday, but still managed to get a workout in this morning, looking nice and sharp for our date", + "coach_comment": " This message dhv\u2019s while also bringing up the idea for the date." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m a nurse." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " The only stress relief tonight is vodka and bed haha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Where is home ? Pumping the guns for the bid day ? I assure you i will not be doing the same haha" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Orange county is home. As long as you pick a cute outfit you should be okay" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " hahaha should be ok ??" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " It\u2019s all good then" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " So tell me a bit about yourself (her name). Any weird tattoos? Kids? Fun Kinks? Crazy hobbies?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " hmm I always feel like I\u2019m boring answering these types of questions. I work a lot and let loose a little on the weekend. Lots of little tattoos but all of them mean nothing to me" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Kinks is a great question but definitely one for real life chat" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What about you ? Musically inclined I see" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I like tattoos, are you at the point where you stopped counting ? I have 6." + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " That\u2019s fair, we can discuss kinks on Wednesday. Ya, I play guitar, love reading, writing, and exercising. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I think 9-10 but stopped counting. People like you make me feel guilty, creative, healthy, and all. What are your flaws?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m a sucker for girls with lots of tattoos. The more the merrier. No flaws here btw haha", + "coach_comment": " This message gives the girl some validation while being curt and succinct. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ya, lots of random doodles, forget I have them honestly. Completely flawless and perfect huh?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Absolutely. I could maybe do with a few more tattoos if we are being picky", + "coach_comment": " This message is slightly sarcastic but works because it gives false modesty. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " A few more for yourself or a few more on a girl?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Just re-read, and got it" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I meant me, but don\u2019t let that stop you from getting more haha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh trust me, you couldn\u2019t stop me from doing anything" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Cute, we\u2019ll see when you\u2019re handcuffed to the bed", + "coach_comment": " This message is bold but establishes a sexual frame and asserts dominance." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Cute, haha fuck off you\u2019re 24. You\u2019re cute" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " But ya, handcuffing sounds right up my alley" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "i\u2019ll be sure to add handcuffing to tomorrow nights agenda" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh what else is on the agenda?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You, me, a bottle of wine, laughs, teases, neck kisses. That sort of thing. Vibe and build chemistry", + "coach_comment": " This is a good message to send whenever a girl asks what you will be doing on the date. It shows the girl that you are emotionally mature as you want to vibe and build chemistry before anything happens but there is a sexual undertone and there is no ambiguity about it being a date when you mention teases and neck kisses." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That sounds very nice" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Tell me a bit more" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh and I don\u2019t drink wine or whisky, anything else is fine" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We can swap out the bottle of wine. That and pulling you close and letting our lips touch, but not kiss", + "coach_comment": " This message builds the sexual tension." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Gave me butterflies in my stomach. Can\u2019t wait to see what else you\u2019ve got" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Think you can handle all that?", + "coach_comment": " Slightly challenging towards the girl but also gets consent from her." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I enjoy your cockiness" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " How do you know you can handle me ?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Not cocky, just confident. We will have some fun", + "coach_comment": " This message is short and succinct and gets across the student\u2019s level of confidence. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " haha i\u2019m sure we will, but I actually like cocky so keep that in mind" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019ll keep that in mind for tomorrow, say 7:00?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds good to me" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 10, + "context": "They both met on Bumble, the girl texted first. Recipes were inconsistent and, on two occasions, she didn\u2019t reply for long periods of time so the student had to prompt her to reply. The student needed to be persistent without being needy so he mirrored her interest level.", + "response": [ + "How do you think my hair got so curly", + "Hmm, maybe you\u2019re a medical marvel", + "I\u2019m sure we can carry out some of that research on our date", + "Of course, I don\u2019t want to see any funny stuff from you", + "Seems we\u2019ve found our perfect matches", + "Can\u2019t believe you forget your plants names, bet they feel super neglected lol", + "You like wine btw?", + "What\u2019s your go to?", + "That\u2019s okay, I\u2019m not a big drinker either. We can still laugh, flirt and build chemistry while being sober", + "No worries, I\u2019ve been good. Busy but that\u2019s how I like it", + "How have you been?", + "Sounds like you could use some stress relief\u201d This message is a good way to move towards a date. Women usually agree with this statement so a good follow up to this would be \u201cI hear drinks with a handsome, (something else about their physical appearance, hobbies, job) man does wonders for stress", + "I hear drinks with a handsome curly-haired man does wonders for stress\u201d This message is a good reply to \u201csounds like you could use some stress relief", + "Researched, peer reviewed and widely accepted by the scientific community", + "We should split a bottle sometime soon\u201d This message moves forward with the idea of a date and meeting up in person. The phrase \u2018sometime soon\u2019 is good to use as it is ambiguous and open to interpretation. It is usually better than suggesting a specific day to meet up as that particular day may not work for her. The phrase \u2018sometime soon\u2019 allows for you to open the dialogue of when the date will happen and should often precede the message \u201cWhat\u2019s your schedule like?", + "No worries, I\u2019m sure our potential romance can stand the test of time", + "Shoot me your number and we\u2019ll sort it", + "Potential romance*", + "Messaged" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do you eat the crust on the pizza?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "How do you think my hair got so curly", + "coach_comment": " This is a lighthearted response. It\u2019s a common story that eating the crusts gives you curly hair and the student had curly hair. He could have answered the question more logically but this was more fun and opened up another route of conversation as she also had curly hair." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You have a point, however my hair isn\u2019t curly and I rarely eat crust" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hmm, maybe you\u2019re a medical marvel", + "coach_comment": " This is a funny exaggeration of the joke because everyone knows that eating the crusts doesn\u2019t make your hair curly but this message goes along with the joke that was established in the previous message." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " In that I survived so long while being this dumb, absolutely! But we definitely need more research on the crust curl situation" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m sure we can carry out some of that research on our date", + "coach_comment": " It is good to briefly mention the idea of a date when talking to a girl on a dating app as it is the only reason to be on there but so many men have conversations that are too long and lead nowhere." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Strictly for data gathering purposes, correct?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Of course, I don\u2019t want to see any funny stuff from you", + "coach_comment": " This message turns around the idea that it is usually the man who wants to have sex as soon as possible and puts the girl into that frame instead, implying that she just wants to have sex. It can also be powerful, as the man, to deny sex up front as it is usually the girl who will do this." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I can promise to put on my most serious face" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " The issue is the thought of that cracks me up" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Data gathering or going on a date" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Me being serious" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Glad you don\u2019t take yourself too seriously" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " appreciating the utter silliness of everything makes everything a lil better, for sure" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Couldn\u2019t avoid it anyway tbh" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Couldn\u2019t agree more" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " So give me the basics. Any kids? Tattoos? Fun kinks? Crazy hobbies?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " No kids, no tattoos although I do wish I could be cannot, kinks are pretty chill as far as kinks go, and unluckily enough I could say the same about my hobbies!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Not really selling myself here, I can see that \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Also very sorry, I\u2019m at work so reply times may be random, I apologise" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " But do give me your breakdown" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " What\u2019s stopping you getting tattoos?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " No kids, 6 tatts, kinks the usual spanking, hair pulling, choking etc, and I play guitar, read, write, gym and run" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I studied acting and still somehow not given up on the idea, so it\u2019s more or less for employability. We\u2019ll see." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What\u2019s the direction those go though?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " The kinks, that is \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I respect you keeping the dream alive, I\u2019m in a similar boat with music" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " They\u2019re interchangeable, did you have a preference?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " May they come true" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I mean, you know, I\u2019m as much of a switch as the next guy but that\u2019s cause we\u2019re adults, however I do prefer the other person or people to lead ngl" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I don\u2019t mind switching from time to time but I definitely prefer taking the lead" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh lucky us" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Seems we\u2019ve found our perfect matches", + "coach_comment": " This message can be good when you find something you have in common with a girl and imply that you are perfect for each other. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " If only it were that easy huh" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Had a good day?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Great thanks, had a mock interview in uni, went for a run, repotted a couple of plants and cooked dinner, you?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds fab! Oddly enough, I\u2019ve also repotted some plants because I had the day off, but chilled most of it" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Sounds good, always enjoy meeting people who also like plants. How many you got?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Never actually counted them" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Atm I\u2019m struggling to not have them pass out cause of the cold" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " but wbu, how many leafy bois" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " It\u2019s a hard but rewarding life being a plant parent. I\u2019ve got 10 atm just got a Venus fly trap for my birthday last weekend " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Omg did you name it" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Do you name all your plants?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " My friends and flatmate name them for me but we immediately forget the names \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " There\u2019s a little chopstick that says Felix, that\u2019s the only reliable one, and that chopstick is half buried in the soil of one of the pots. The issue is the pot has two plants in it, no one knows who tf Felix is" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Can\u2019t believe you forget your plants names, bet they feel super neglected lol", + "coach_comment": " The conversation felt like it was getting too nice/ bland/ boring so this tease creates a small negative spike in her emotions, making the conversation a little more interesting." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You like wine btw?", + "coach_comment": " The conversation had been going on for a while at this point and, generally, you want to move the girl over to texting/ Whatsapp/ iMessage as soon as possible. This message is a good start to the process leading up to ask her on a date. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83d\ude22" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Not my go to but I don\u2019t dislike it" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What\u2019s your go to?", + "coach_comment": " When you get this response to the wine close it is simpler to ask her what her favorite drink is. Don\u2019t try to force wine on her and don\u2019t overcomplicate things. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ruuuuuum" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I don\u2019t really drink all that much though " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "That\u2019s okay, I\u2019m not a big drinker either. We can still laugh, flirt and build chemistry while being sober", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to establish the idea of a date and create a man-to-woman frame. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sorry for falling off the face of the earth, went home and it was mad" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I hope you\u2019ve been ok though" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "No worries, I\u2019ve been good. Busy but that\u2019s how I like it", + "coach_comment": " Since the girl hadn\u2019t responded in a while, the aim of this message is to show that you are unaffected by her absence with a slight display of higher value that you have other things going on in your life." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "How have you been?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m very glad" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I wanna say I rested a bit while at home but that\u2019s a big ol lie" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I feel alright though, and got a few days off this week so I\u2019m not being thrown straight back into the deep end of insanity and work and all" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What have you been up to?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Fair enough lol where\u2019s home? I\u2019ve had a couple of gigs, started my 2nd placement at uni so that\u2019s been pretty full on and still managed to have a social life as well" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Home is Bucharest, in Romania. Sounds like you\u2019ve been doing super well! I\u2019m glad" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " wow how come you\u2019re in manchester?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Yeah, I\u2019ll tell you in more detail over drinks" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Thinking hard about that I see" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " It\u2019s been absolutely hysterical, sorry" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " good hysterical?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Busy and too much kinda hysterical" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Sounds like you could use some stress relief\u201d This message is a good way to move towards a date. Women usually agree with this statement so a good follow up to this would be \u201cI hear drinks with a handsome, (something else about their physical appearance, hobbies, job) man does wonders for stress", + "coach_comment": " This message is a good way to move towards a date. Women usually agree with this statement so a good follow up to this would be \u201cI hear drinks with a handsome, (something else about their physical appearance, hobbies, job) man does wonders for stress" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You\u2019re not wrong" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I hear drinks with a handsome curly-haired man does wonders for stress\u201d This message is a good reply to \u201csounds like you could use some stress relief", + "coach_comment": " This message is a good reply to \u201csounds like you could use some stress relief" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " is this method peer-reviewed" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Academia approved" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Rated on tripadvisor?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Researched, peer reviewed and widely accepted by the scientific community", + "coach_comment": " This message continues her joke." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019ll have to take your word for it, i suppose" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " You\u2019re a rum girl if I remember correctly?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Am indeed" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We should split a bottle sometime soon\u201d This message moves forward with the idea of a date and meeting up in person. The phrase \u2018sometime soon\u2019 is good to use as it is ambiguous and open to interpretation. It is usually better than suggesting a specific day to meet up as that particular day may not work for her. The phrase \u2018sometime soon\u2019 allows for you to open the dialogue of when the date will happen and should often precede the message \u201cWhat\u2019s your schedule like?", + "coach_comment": " This message moves forward with the idea of a date and meeting up in person. The phrase \u2018sometime soon\u2019 is good to use as it is ambiguous and open to interpretation. It is usually better than suggesting a specific day to meet up as that particular day may not work for her. The phrase \u2018sometime soon\u2019 allows for you to open the dialogue of when the date will happen and should often precede the message \u201cWhat\u2019s your schedule like?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Most definitely, the only issue is I\u2019m ont free for the next week or so" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "No worries, I\u2019m sure our potential romance can stand the test of time", + "coach_comment": " This message can come across as corny but is funny most of the time. It shows the girl that you aren\u2019t overly eager to meet up and you have patience. " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Shoot me your number and we\u2019ll sort it", + "coach_comment": " It is usually best to move a girl off the dating app and get her number." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Romance HAH" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Potential romance*", + "coach_comment": " This message shows that you are cool, collected and not sold on her yet by drawing attention to the fact that your previous message talked about potential romance, not romance." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Awful \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Messaged", + "coach_comment": " It can be useful to send this message on the dating app after messaging her number. Sometimes texts don\u2019t go through, get lost among others or she exclusively uses WhatsApp when you sent her an iMessage. This message just lets her know you are still interested and that you have followed up after her giving you her number." + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 11, + "context": "The student matched with her on Tinder.", + "response": [ + "I\u2019ve given you a follow but I\u2019m not on there much. Shoot me your number as well" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " You look like my future ex wife \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You look like you know how to show a woman a good time " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " As an artist, it\u2019s always seemed right that I marry a musician \ud83e\udd14 you can be my muse" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Until we have an expensive divorce and there\u2019s fights over who gets to keep the nicely glazed ceramic plant pots" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " But until that time comes, how\u2019s it going (student\u2019s name)?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I definitely enjoy showing women a good time. Love the idea of us being each others muses, it was meant to be" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019m great heading to the gym then got some last minute christmas prep to do before I go away tomorrow. You?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Got to appreciate a man of musical talent I\u2019m fantastic with a pencil or a paintbrush but the most I could ever play on a guitar was smoke on the water" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ooh nice, where are you going away? And good thank you been adding some finishing touches to the ceramics I\u2019ve made for Xmas prezzies, going out for a festive meal with the pals tonight which should be nice" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I can teach you a little more on our date haha got an air bnb in Rhosneiger til boxing day. Sounds fun, what colour did you paint mine? \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds good to me, I\u2019ll trade you in life drawing classes, ah nice I was in an Airbnb in Aberystwyth last weekend was a yurt with a woodfire hot tub was class, haha you don\u2019t strike me as the kind of man who would want a ceramic fairy house incense burner but maybe I\u2019m wrong" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Isn\u2019t life drawing the one where you pose nude? \ud83d\ude09 Don\u2019t be so quick to judge Sammy " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " It certainly is. I\u2019m intrigued, what's the name of your band? Feel I should check out your sound " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Sounds like a great first date idea" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " We\u2019re called (name of student\u2019s band)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Are you on spotify?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " We are" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Where can I see your work since you\u2019re having a nosy at mine?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I don\u2019t think you can add photos on here but can add my insta will send some - (her insta)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019ve given you a follow but I\u2019m not on there much. Shoot me your number as well" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sure do you have WhatsApp? (Girl give number)" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Messaged" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 12, + "context": "They have been on their first date. They went bowling and he beat her in the game. The coach advised he reopen the following day using callback humor relating to the date as this is often the best way to reopen, spark conversation and lead to a second date. Even though they have met in person and you don\u2019t have to put as much work into the lead as before the first date, the student had to keep the lead warm until date number two. This is where the \u201cyou picked a cute outfit for our date yet? \ud83d\ude09\u201d works well to reopen the day of the date to check in with her.", + "response": [ + "hey (girl\u2019s name), you recovered from your crushing defeat yet \ud83d\ude09", + "We could find out but I was thinking drinks for our next date", + "What\u2019s your schedule look like this week?", + "Let\u2019s do 7:24 then", + "Awesome, 7:24 at (name of venue) then", + "Hey (her name), you picked a cute outfit for our date? \ud83d\ude09", + "Need help choosing or you gonna surprise me?", + "Keeping the mystery alive \ud83d\ude0f" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "hey (girl\u2019s name), you recovered from your crushing defeat yet \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": " This message works as it connects you two in a shared experience. It is also good because it is teasing her about her loss without being too harsh or rude." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019ve recovered from losing, but throwing the ball behind me\u2026 still recovering from that one \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " They say three times is the charm for a reason, the odds are on your side\u2026" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Are you saying the next time I play, I\u2019m going to win???" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We could find out but I was thinking drinks for our next date", + "coach_comment": " This message works here as, to keep things interesting, it\u2019s usually best to vary the type of dates you take a girl on. It would have been a little weird if they had gone bowling again. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " As much as I enjoyed losing to you in bowling, drinks would be a good second date \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What\u2019s your schedule look like this week?", + "coach_comment": " The first date went very well so there is no need to do lots of talking/ courting between the first and second date. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Depending on my work schedule, I generally am free most weekdays after 6:30" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What about you?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I could work with Tuesday around 8pm, how\u2019s that?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You wanna do 8pm again? Haha" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " You got a point, we would be missing the end of happy hour" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Right haha so maybe a little earlier" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Let\u2019s do 7:24 then", + "coach_comment": " This message is so specific when arranging the time to be a lighthearted tease. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Very particular, but works for me \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Awesome, 7:24 at (name of venue) then", + "coach_comment": " This message establishes the overall plan for the date." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " See you then haha" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hey (her name), you picked a cute outfit for our date? \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": " You don\u2019t want to set up the date, even a second date, and then not talk the the girl at all before you meet. You need to keep the lead warm. A good way to do this is ask if she picked a cute outfit for their date. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I definitely have a couple of options \u263a\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Need help choosing or you gonna surprise me?", + "coach_comment": " This message creates the idea that she wants/ is trying to impress him by what she wears. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I think I\u2019m gonna go with surprise" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Keeping the mystery alive \ud83d\ude0f", + "coach_comment": " This message creates a flirty tone like she is hiding something explicit from him. It also creates the role play of them being a long married couple who are trying to keep the mystery alive." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh definitely \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019ll be there in twenty to get a table, lmk when you arrive." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Okay! I got off work a little late so I might be a couple minutes behind, but I\u2019m on my way" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 13, + "context": "The student matched with the girl on Hinge. She liked his photo of him working out in the gym.", + "response": [ + "I\u2019m sure we can make Iowa more fun \ud83d\ude0f", + "alright I\u2019ll give that to you.. But this is what I\u2019m thinking.. You, me, a bottle of wine, laughs, teases, neck kisses, vibing and building chemistry", + "You don\u2019t seem like the type who\u2019s attracted to shy guys", + "You seem like a confident girl in general. You have a nice smile btw. You probably intimidate a lot of guys because of your looks which I imagine gets frustrating because deep down you\u2019re actually quite submissive but only for the right guy", + "You like wine?\u201d This message is great to use when the vibe in the conversation is good and it is time to move towards setting up the date. Girls usually like wine and, if they don\u2019t you can follow up with \u201cwhat\u2019s your preferred drink?\u201d. This message should usually come before saying \u201cwe should split a bottle sometime soon\u201d. This message can be edited to use something other than wine depending on what fits the conversation. For example, \u201cyou like bowling?\u201d, \u201cyou like vodka?\u201d or \u201cyou like ice cream?", + "How\u2019s moscato, white wine?", + "We should split a bottle sometime soon\u201d This message moves forward with the idea of a date and meeting up in person. The phrase \u2018sometime soon\u2019 is good to use as it is ambiguous and open to interpretation. It is usually better than suggesting a specific day to meet up as that particular day may not work for her. The phrase \u2018sometime soon\u2019 allows for you to open the dialogue of when the date will happen and should often precede the message \u201cWhat\u2019s your schedule like?", + "I\u2019m sure we\u2019ll make up for that on our date \ud83d\ude09 I\u2019m free Sunday or Monday , you?", + "What would you like to know?", + "It\u2019s the most efficient way to move through the water, get your mind out of the gutter \ud83d\ude09", + "That doesn\u2019t worry me \ud83d\ude09" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do you happen to need a new gym partner? \ud83d\ude05 \ud83e\udee3" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Idk\u2026 do you think you can keep up?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Possibly \ud83d\ude2c \ud83d\ude2c" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Before I let you spot me give me the basics. Any kids? Tattoos? Fun kinks? Crazy Hobbies?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " No kids, but I have a dog who is basically my child. Yes tattoos, w another one scheduled in a couple of weeks. And all i do is work bc Iowa is boring \ud83d\ude43 hbu?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m sure we can make Iowa more fun \ud83d\ude0f", + "coach_comment": " This message works here because she liked his photo and sent the opening message so there is already some sexual attraction from the girl. However, the message is ambiguous and can be perceived as sexual from the girl or related to some kind of activity. This is a good message to use to hint at the idea of a date. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " you think so?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " got any ideas?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " was wondering why I ain\u2019t see you anymore \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " wait\u2026 hold up.. You\u2019ve seen me at the gym and didn\u2019t come talk to me" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeaaa i been seen you \ud83d\ude02 1. I get too nervous 2. I ain\u2019t wanna bother you 3. I ain\u2019t know if you single or what so i just assume" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "alright I\u2019ll give that to you.. But this is what I\u2019m thinking.. You, me, a bottle of wine, laughs, teases, neck kisses, vibing and building chemistry", + "coach_comment": " This message is good to use when talking about what will happen on the date. It shows the girl that you are emotionally mature as you want to vibe and build chemistry before anything happens but there is a sexual undertone and there is no ambiguity about it being a date when you mention teases and neck kisses." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I mean that doesn\u2019t sound too bad \ud83e\udee3 \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey it\u2019s (student\u2019s name) the cute light skin \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " oh he\u2019s confident too huhhh" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You don\u2019t seem like the type who\u2019s attracted to shy guys" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " i mean you probably aren\u2019t wrong \ud83e\udd37\ud83c\udffb\u200d\u2640\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " what kind of girl do you think i am tho" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You seem like a confident girl in general. You have a nice smile btw. You probably intimidate a lot of guys because of your looks which I imagine gets frustrating because deep down you\u2019re actually quite submissive but only for the right guy" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " ok you\u2019re pretty good, i\u2019ll give it to you" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You like wine?\u201d This message is great to use when the vibe in the conversation is good and it is time to move towards setting up the date. Girls usually like wine and, if they don\u2019t you can follow up with \u201cwhat\u2019s your preferred drink?\u201d. This message should usually come before saying \u201cwe should split a bottle sometime soon\u201d. This message can be edited to use something other than wine depending on what fits the conversation. For example, \u201cyou like bowling?\u201d, \u201cyou like vodka?\u201d or \u201cyou like ice cream?", + "coach_comment": " This message is great to use when the vibe in the conversation is good and it is time to move towards setting up the date. Girls usually like wine and, if they don\u2019t you can follow up with \u201cwhat\u2019s your preferred drink?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " depends on the kind" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "How\u2019s moscato, white wine?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " not bad. Is that your favorite?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Yes ma\u2019am\u2026 risata moscato.. The blue bottle" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " yea that ain\u2019t bad" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " i usually drink stella rose" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We should split a bottle sometime soon\u201d This message moves forward with the idea of a date and meeting up in person. The phrase \u2018sometime soon\u2019 is good to use as it is ambiguous and open to interpretation. It is usually better than suggesting a specific day to meet up as that particular day may not work for her. The phrase \u2018sometime soon\u2019 allows for you to open the dialogue of when the date will happen and should often precede the message \u201cWhat\u2019s your schedule like?", + "coach_comment": " This message moves forward with the idea of a date and meeting up in person. The phrase \u2018sometime soon\u2019 is good to use as it is ambiguous and open to interpretation. It is usually better than suggesting a specific day to meet up as that particular day may not work for her. The phrase \u2018sometime soon\u2019 allows for you to open the dialogue of when the date will happen and should often precede the message \u201cWhat\u2019s your schedule like?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m down \ud83d\ude0c" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What\u2019s your schedule like" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " except i am a lil salty i noticed you at the gym but you ain\u2019t notice me sooo" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m sure we\u2019ll make up for that on our date \ud83d\ude09 I\u2019m free Sunday or Monday , you?", + "coach_comment": " This message brings up the idea of their impending date. This is often a good message to use when something small but negative has happened such as not noticing her in the gym. The implication is that they will make up for the missed conversation they could have had in the gym during their date. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " whatever you sayyy and i work this weekend but might be able to make monday work " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Alright Monday.. You..me.. And a bottle of wine" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " sounds fun \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " tell me about you tho" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What would you like to know?", + "coach_comment": " This briefly puts the burden of leading conversation on her which is okay to do sometimes " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " everything" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Of course.. For you I\u2019d even be willing to give you private lessons \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " oooo really \ud83d\ude07" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " we can practice in my pool" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Sounds like a plan.. Ima teach you all the strokes.. My favorite is breaststroke " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Interestinggg why\u2019s that" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "It\u2019s the most efficient way to move through the water, get your mind out of the gutter \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": " This message takes the idea that he is thinking about sex with his breaststroke message and frames the girl as the one who is thinking about sex, stealing the frame in the student\u2019s favor. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " My mind wasn\u2019t in the gutter i ain\u2019t got no breasts to stroke anyways \ud83d\ude02 \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "That doesn\u2019t worry me \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": " Her previous message about having no breasts could be an insecurity she has so this message lets her know, in a way that is calm, cool and succinct." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " good \ud83e\udee3" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 14, + "context": "The student matched with the girl on Hinge. He liked her photo and she sent the first message. ", + "response": [ + "well I\u2019m sure you\u2019re still cute ;) but with all these hair changes I hope you\u2019re not going through some kind of mental breakdown haha", + "I\u2019ll be sure to add beach picnic to our dates agenda", + "You have exceptional taste, shoot me your number for romance arrangement purposes" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " hiii" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Cute, dyed hair, and nose piercings, what\u2019s the catch?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I just chopped my hair super short like 2 hours ago and it looks really bad lol, that\u2019s the catch " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "well I\u2019m sure you\u2019re still cute ;) but with all these hair changes I hope you\u2019re not going through some kind of mental breakdown haha", + "coach_comment": " This message works as it is a joke/ tease based on the idea that women change their hair when they are going through a tough time. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " nah it\u2019s just fun lol" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " i get bored of how it looks n do something else" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " What would you say is your favorite scene in cars?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " sally and lightening cruise, tractor tipping, the peterbilt moment, when sh-boom by the chords plays, doc whipping around willy\u2019s butte, and when lightning pushes the king to the finish line" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " the scene i can remember is when lightning did a pitstop, guido did it really fast and chick hick crew drop their grills. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " thats a great scene too" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " so tell me what do you think makes your chicken tender and mozzarella spot the best? " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " it\u2019s just simply delicious. Plus it\u2019s on the beach and it\u2019s the only yorktown pub on this planet" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " getting food and having a beach picnic is always a great first date " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " absolutely" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019ll be sure to add beach picnic to our dates agenda", + "coach_comment": " This message is a good way to seed the date if you and the girl are talking about things you both like." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " although beach picnic right now doesn\u2019t sound very fun, tooooo cold" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " that\u2019s not a worry jackets exist, or sit in the car with the heater on, music playing, people watching and the ocean right in front of us" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " THAT\u2019S MY FAVORITE" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " eating in the car from the beachfront parking lot" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " what music do you prefer whilst sitting in the car?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Depends on the mood" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " 80% of the time want $uicideboy$ playing" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I have a 22 hour playlist mainly $uicideboy$, night lovell and pouya " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " but other times I want rock, indie, alt, my party playlist, 2010 pop songs, or country " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " ok marry me then " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Bruh" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " We share the exact same music" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " it\u2019s meant to be, plus you\u2019re in the navy, favorite branch by far" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You have exceptional taste, shoot me your number for romance arrangement purposes", + "coach_comment": " At this point in the interaction there is enough positive back and forth between the girl and the student that he can go for the number close without getting rejected. Also saying she has exceptional taste when talking about the student himself shows a good level of cocky humor. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds good to me" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 15, + "context": "The student matched with this girl on Tinder. This messaging sequence uses a role play involving the girl and the student being a divorced couple. The girl does ghost part way through so the student has to reopen the conversation. The interaction ends with the student getting the girl\u2019s phone number and moving the conversation off the app.", + "response": [ + "You look like my future ex wife \ud83d\ude0f", + "We\u2019re getting a prenup and I\u2019m keeping the dog", + "He\u2019s a labrador, how on earth would he have fit in the microwave?? This is why it never worked between us (her name)", + "If you play your cards right I might let you touch the hair on our date \ud83d\ude09", + "Let\u2019s start with wine, laughs, teases, neck kisses, vibing, building chemistry and go from there \ud83d\ude09", + "Only if there\u2019s chemistry, I\u2019m not that easy \ud83d\ude09", + "I know a couple of good wine places in town if you\u2019re down", + "Mic check..1..2" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You look like my future ex wife \ud83d\ude0f", + "coach_comment": " This is a playful way to start conversation. It can also lead into fun role plays about you and the girl being married, getting divorced and the reasons behind the divorce. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " hahahahahah oh cute" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Can\u2019t wait to get divorced \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We\u2019re getting a prenup and I\u2019m keeping the dog", + "coach_comment": " This message continues the joke from the opener while teasing her by implying that the student will win the breakup." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Nooooo I want the dog \ud83e\udd7a" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Can we have shared custody of it" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " No, I\u2019ve seen you kick him after a tough day at work. I won\u2019t allow it" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That was only 1 time \ud83d\ude41" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Saw you try and put him in the microwave once " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "He\u2019s a labrador, how on earth would he have fit in the microwave?? This is why it never worked between us (her name)", + "coach_comment": " This message works as a continuation of the joke while also framing the student as the one who initiated the break up, putting him in the position of power." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahahahaha i don\u2019t know you\u2019re the one trying to fit him in there!!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " yeah I\u2019m glad we got divorced" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You look cool" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I enjoy your hair" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Probably doesn't make up for the fact that you kick dogs but it\u2019s still cool" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019m going to read between the lines and take the compliment there lol" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "If you play your cards right I might let you touch the hair on our date \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": " This message is a great way to move the interaction forward/ transition the conversation to setting up the date." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " hahahahahha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah there\u2019s a compliment in there somewhere" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " and ooooo how exciting" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " How do I play my cards right \ud83e\udd7a \ud83e\udd7a" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Let\u2019s start with wine, laughs, teases, neck kisses, vibing, building chemistry and go from there \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": " This message works well to paint a picture of what her experience on the date will be like. You appear emotionally mature, confident and fun." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahahahahahaha oh cute" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Where should we go for wine xxxx" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " So we go for wine and have a laugh, tease each other, kiss each other\u2019s necks, vibe, build chemistry" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " and THEN I can touch your hair ?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds like a good deal to me xxxx" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Where are you based?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Only if there\u2019s chemistry, I\u2019m not that easy \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": " This message comes off high value as you are showing that you are selective with women and it gives her the chance to qualify herself." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I live in (location)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Where do you live?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " And omg yeah don\u2019t worry I\u2019ll bring my tes tube x" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I know a couple of good wine places in town if you\u2019re down", + "coach_comment": " This message is a nice way to baby step towards the close. It\u2019s not specific and chilled." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh cute !!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah I\u2019m always down for some wine" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Where\u2019s your favourite \ud83e\udd7a" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " There\u2019s (venue) in (location) and (venue) that\u2019s good" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh cool (venue) is cute I like it in there" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019ve never been to the other place though!!" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Let\u2019s do (venue) this time and (venue) next. Shoot me your number and we\u2019ll get it sorted" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Mic check..1..2", + "coach_comment": " This is a good message to use if the girl ghosts or hasn\u2019t replied for a couple of days. It is a humorous way to get her attention without seeming needy." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Omg cute sounds like a plan" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m in" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sorry I\u2019m so bad on here - (phone number) here\u2019s my number x" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " messaged " + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 16, + "context": "The student matched with this girl on Hinge. This messaging sequence uses a role play involving the girl and the student being a divorced couple. The girl does ghost part way through so the student has to reopen the conversation. The student then has to sexualise the conversation. The interaction ends with the student getting the girl\u2019s phone number and moving the conversation off the app.", + "response": [ + "You look like my future ex wife \ud83d\ude0f", + "You know the kids won\u2019t leave the dog behind. This is why it never worked between us", + "Shame, the make up sex would have been phenomenal", + "Unless you disagree", + "You don\u2019t remember the time I dragged you across the bed by your ankles and kissed you passionately, sucking on your nipples nice and slow, until you became nice and wet. You begged me to shove it in but instead I mercilessly teased you with my cock. Finally, when you couldn\u2019t take it anymore, I slid inside you. Your back arched, my hand pulling your hair, your legs collapsed shaking from pleasure", + "That depends on how persuasive you are over wine. Shoot me your number and we\u2019ll sort it out" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You look like my future ex wife \ud83d\ude0f", + "coach_comment": " This is a playful way to start conversation. It can also lead into fun role plays about you and the girl being married, getting divorced and the reasons behind the divorce. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ahhh I thought I recognised you \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " We\u2019re getting a prenup and I\u2019m keeping the dog though" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " No you can have full custody of the kids that you begged me for, I\u2019m keeping the dog and the waffle maker" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You know the kids won\u2019t leave the dog behind. This is why it never worked between us", + "coach_comment": " This message works as a continuation of the joke while also framing the student as the one who initiated the break up, putting him in the position of power." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " It never worked between us because I caught you flirting with that McDonald\u2019s waitress. I will see you in court if you don\u2019t give up the dog" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": "I told you there was nothing between us, I kept going back to that particular McDonald\u2019s because they do the best big macs" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I saw you! You can have her anyway, the dog and I have left the country. You\u2019ll never find us" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Shame, the make up sex would have been phenomenal", + "coach_comment": " This message works here as it continues the joke but opens up a sexual dialogue." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Unless you disagree", + "coach_comment": " This is a good message to send if you have proposed something and the girl hasn\u2019t responded. The message implies you\u2019re entitled and expecting a response from her without getting needy or butthurt." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Not at all but you\u2019ll have to remind me how good the sex was before" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You don\u2019t remember the time I dragged you across the bed by your ankles and kissed you passionately, sucking on your nipples nice and slow, until you became nice and wet. You begged me to shove it in but instead I mercilessly teased you with my cock. Finally, when you couldn\u2019t take it anymore, I slid inside you. Your back arched, my hand pulling your hair, your legs collapsed shaking from pleasure", + "coach_comment": " This message works well here because it shows that you understand sex from the female perspective. The descriptive nature of the message shows that you understand that women are turned on by having their mind stimulated rather than their eyes. That it is the build up and teasing, not just putting your dick in and thrusting hard and fast. This will set you apart from most guys on dating apps." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You never fucked me like that! Must have been one of your many side things" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " We need to sort this out " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Well then fuck me like that and we won\u2019t need to go through this divorce! Think of the children" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Gladly \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Remind me, you like wine?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do you even know me? I love wine" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Good, we should split a bottle sometime soon" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I think we should too, do I still get the dog" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "That depends on how persuasive you are over wine. Shoot me your number and we\u2019ll sort it out", + "coach_comment": " This message works here because it implies that he is still not sold on her and she has to qualify herself on the date but it still moves the interaction forward. Once the girl is compliant and it\u2019s clear she likes you, there is no need for more messaging, just go for the number or organize a date." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh you should know I\u2019m very persuasive over wine. I always get you to do what I want " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number)" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " messaged" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 17, + "context": "The girl initiated a prompt on Bumble. The prompt was \u2018What would you do on a rainy Sunday?\u2019.", + "response": [ + "Read my mind, sounds like a great first date", + "Definitely some beautiful spots I can show you here", + "Yeah been there a few times, beautiful place. Maybe that can be our second date", + "We should probably organize the first one before that though", + "Do you like wine?" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Whiskey tim" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Film, blanket, cup of tea" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Whiskey wouldn\u2019t hurt either " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What about cup of tea in the afternoon, whiskey at night?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Read my mind, sounds like a great first date", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to seed the date. It is too early in the interaction to go for the close but it\u2019s good to seed the date." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Let\u2019s check when it will be rain haha" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " in the meantime give me the basics. Any kids? Tattoos? Fun kinks? Crazy hobbies?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m new to the area, just arrived for a month. I\u2019m a long distance trail runner before I moved here. I don\u2019t have any crazy hobbies, but I love to have a crazy life" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What about you? Any interesting stories about you?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " What\u2019s a long journey trail runner?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " no kids, 6 tatts, and i play guitar in a band, read, write, gym and run too" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I usually train for the long journey trail race, above 50km" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Nice profile" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " That\u2019s pretty impressive. How\u2019d you get into that?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I tried some shorter races and joined some running clubs, then found that I love long distance, so I started to find some races to practice with my coach back home. But now I can only practice by myself, still finding the way back to training too." + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I definitely prefer the longer distances but I\u2019ve only gone as far as a half marathon so far. I\u2019ve been meaning to join a running club too actually" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I love long distance. Put myself totally in the nature from sunrise to sunset. That\u2019s incredible!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Wondering if I could try this here" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Definitely some beautiful spots I can show you here", + "coach_comment": " This message works well as the girl and student have connected on a hobby but it is now time to start moving towards closing and suggesting they do that hobby together is a great way to do that." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I just found the Peak District is not far from the city. Have you been there?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yeah been there a few times, beautiful place. Maybe that can be our second date", + "coach_comment": " This message works well here as it shows a sense of cocky humor that you are already assuming there will be a second date before you\u2019ve had the first. It uses callback humor because they have already talked about the first date to remind her that is an unfinished thread but also to seed the idea of a second date." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I would be very happy about that" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We should probably organize the first one before that though", + "coach_comment": " This message brings the conversation back on track to organizing the first date." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Do you like wine?", + "coach_comment": " This is a great way to start the closing sequence and you can set up the date from here." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes, and black coffee without sugar and milk" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You? Coffee or tea?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " yea. We can have a wine and you can tell me more about any of your favorite wine too" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Sounds good. Shoot me your number and we\u2019ll organize it." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 18, + "context": "The student comments on the girl\u2019s photo on Hinge saying \u201cYou look like my future ex wife \ud83d\ude0f\u201d. They find some common ground before moving towards the date.", + "response": [ + "That is the dream, I can be your muse", + "You can do my portrait on our date", + "When are you typically free?" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " You look like my future ex wife \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I will be if you don\u2019t grow your hair long like your pic " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " You\u2019ve nothing to worry about there" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " How\u2019s your Sunday treating you?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh that\u2019s good" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m currently sat in a retail park cause I forgot Aldi doesn\u2019t open till 11" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " This may be rock bottom" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " How about you?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " That\u2019s pretty devastating, I can\u2019t imagine the pain that must have caused you" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019m just on my way to the gym" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": "Ah nice I went this morning, first time in a new gym was so scary \ud83d\ude2d" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I joined pure gym, spent 12 mins in there. Walked out and signed up to JD gym straight after" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Wow why was that?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Just so cramped and busy, I could touch the ceilings if I jumped and that freaks me out" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Sounds a little claustrophobic, I take it JD is like a warehouse then lol" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " JD is huge" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " How was your day?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " It\u2019s been pretty chill, gym this morning, then did some uni work and just watched a film. You?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Pretty much the same but instead of uni work been applying for jobs" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What do you do for uni?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " What\u2019s the dream job? I\u2019m doing a PGCE in primary with special needs" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ideally would be a painter living in Italy but don\u2019t think that will ever happen, i\u2019m looking for a graphic design job but there\u2019s so many applicants per job it\u2019s impossible" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " And that\u2019s so cool! My brother is special needs" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "That is the dream, I can be your muse", + "coach_comment": " So far the conversation has been platonic with very little flirting or intent shown. This message adds a more playful vibe to the interaction that has been missing until now. It also implies that the student is someone who would inspire art. That is open to interpretation by the girl but usually means he is very physically attractive." + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Oh right, how old is he?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahahah sure you can" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " He\u2019s 15 and has cerebral palsy" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Funniest person ever, has no filter" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You can do my portrait on our date", + "coach_comment": " This message is great for moving the interaction forward. It prevents the risk of the conversation going nowhere. Using something they have talked about on the dating app and they should explore it together on their date is a very easy way to get onto the topic of the in-person meet up." + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " He\u2019s a little older than I work with but I definitely know a few like him \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83d\ude02 When should our date be?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahaha yeah he really is something, he once told a woman she stank in the shop and I immediately had to remove him. I was mortified " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "When are you typically free?", + "coach_comment": " This works well as he is asking her when she is free instead of suggesting days on which they can meet up. This reduces the risk of her flaking on the date." + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I know that feeling lol sometimes it\u2019s the hardest thing in the world to keep a straight face" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sorry i fell asleep so early last night, I am typically free any evening, so whenever suits you" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " You free Saturday? It is usually better to suggest two different days to meet up but this student could only do saturday." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah should be!" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Great shoot me your number and we\u2019ll get it sorted" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Cool it\u2019s (phone number)" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " messaged " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey (her name) it\u2019s (student\u2019s name) from the thing" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " From the thing \ud83d\ude2d \ud83d\ude2d \ud83d\ude2d" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " lol how\u2019s 8pm saturday?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah good with me, where should we go? Are you in the city?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Ever heard of (venue)?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah it\u2019s cool there" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Let\u2019s meet there at 8 and see where the night takes us" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Stunning \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey (her name), all good for tonight? This is an important message because it is always necessary to check in with the girl before the date. If you set up the date a few days before it is supposed to happen, don\u2019t talk too much to the point where you are constantly texting but it is important to check in with her so she doesn\u2019t assume you are ghosting or flaking on her." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hey, yeah all good \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Great, let me know when you\u2019re on your way" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I will, shall I meet you outside" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Yeah sounds good" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 19, + "context": "The girl liked the student's photo of him running in a race on Hinge and he opened her. ", + "response": [ + "Nice, I like a girl who looks after her physical health. Where are you from originally?", + "Ah so you have that sexy Spanish accent then \ud83d\ude0f", + "A flower on your ass, I like that lol you\u2019ll gave to teach me more Spanish on our romantic date", + "Hey, it (student\u2019s name) from the thing", + "Last night was fun\u201d It is important, if you want to see the girl again, that you check in with her and get a second date set up as soon as possible. Another option for this message is \u201cLast night was \ud83d\udd25\u201d or \u201cI had a good time last night" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey, another runner? Love that" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " 5k personal record?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I only chat to athletes" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " hope u understand" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " 19:44 you?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Omggggg" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That\u2019s impressive" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " 24:35" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Thanks haha yours isn\u2019t a bad time either. Done anything further than 5k?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Gracias gracias" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Every now and then I\u2019d do a 10k" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Nice, I like a girl who looks after her physical health. Where are you from originally?", + "coach_comment": " This message is a very simple way to switch up the conversation if one thread is going dry. It works well on girls who look ethnically diverse or ambiguous. It works on this girl as she had a Spanish flag in her bio and she spoke Spanish during the interaction. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh yeh :) I\u2019m always active" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m from Barcelona" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Moved here 4 years ago" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Wbu? Where is your name from?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Ah so you have that sexy Spanish accent then \ud83d\ude0f", + "coach_comment": " This message works well on almost anyone. It can be used to compliment someone on their accent or can be used to tease someone who has a typically unsexy accent. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha I\u2019m not going to say no to that" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Glad to hear that ;) so give me the basics. Any kids? Tattoos? Fun kinks? Crazy hobbies?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " No kids that I know of, neither tattoos" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019ve been tempted to get one tattoo on my bum though" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " In Spanish we\u2019ve got a saying \u2018tener una flor en el culo\u2019 to say someone is very lucky. It means \u2018you\u2019ve got a flower on the ass\u2019 and I consider myself a very lucky person" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ermm dancing most of the time, running a bit too, going climbing every now and then and gym when possible. I can\u2019t stand still" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " And as a hobby I\u2019ll say that I love people watching, I get too involved hahaha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Wbu?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "A flower on your ass, I like that lol you\u2019ll gave to teach me more Spanish on our romantic date" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha happy to teach you Spanish. Do you know the basics?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Did it for a couple of years in high school and downloaded an app in lockdown lol" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Do you like wine btw?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sure, I\u2019m free tomorrow evening if you wanna go for wine" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Tomorrow works for me. Shoot me your number and we\u2019ll sort it out" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number)" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Texted" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hey, it (student\u2019s name) from the thing", + "coach_comment": " This is a good first message to send someone if you got their number from a dating app. It is funny and a good way to start conversation." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hey, 7pm at (venue)? It\u2019s a new wine bar I\u2019ve been wanting to try \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Sounds good to me. Are we okay to push back to 8:300?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yep all good" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Great see you then" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Last night was fun\u201d It is important, if you want to see the girl again, that you check in with her and get a second date set up as soon as possible. Another option for this message is \u201cLast night was \ud83d\udd25\u201d or \u201cI had a good time last night", + "coach_comment": " It is important, if you want to see the girl again, that you check in with her and get a second date set up as soon as possible. Another option for this message is \u201cLast night was \ud83d\udd25" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Agreed x" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " We should get together again sometime soon" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Si, did you have anything in mind?" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 20, + "context": "They met on Hinge. The student commented on her photo and she started the interaction by replying to his comment. The conversation takes place over two days but the student closed and met her on the same day.", + "response": [ + "We must have similarly bad taste", + "Had the same thing happen to me last week. Our date will be better though", + "Positive. Define silly", + "I definitely don\u2019t take things too seriously, hoping you don\u2019t either", + "We should test this out in person" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " You look like my future ex wife \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " How strange I was thinking you look like my next future mistake \ud83d\udc40" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We must have similarly bad taste", + "coach_comment": " This message works here as it builds on the joke from the previous messages. It also uses the \u2018we frame\u2019 which allows the girl to imagine them together or having something in common." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Great minds think alike and all of that" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Exactly, how\u2019s your Friday treating you?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Well Alfred I\u2019ve not long got in from a couple of drinks, I\u2019ve had worse fridays, what about yourself? " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Alfred? Getting familiar fast \ud83d\ude0f my Friday was great, went out with some friends for St Patrick\u2019s. Was that the end of your night?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Absolutely, do you like Alfred? Hahaha I like calling people different versions of their name. Oooo nice where did you all go? Are you feeling fragile today then? it was, well I actually went on a date but we didn\u2019t vibe so it lasted an hour and a half \ud83d\udc40" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " No one calls me Alfred but I don\u2019t hate it. Not too bad tbh, I\u2019m one of those annoying people that doesn\u2019t get hungover." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Had the same thing happen to me last week. Our date will be better though", + "coach_comment": " This message does a few things. First, it shows that you date women regularly and are selective with whom you pursue. Second, it shows that you are unaffected by the fact that she goes on dates with other men and not the jealous/ butthurt type. Third, it seeds the idea of a date and the two of you meeting up in person. The vibe has been good, there has been some light teasing and she is sending long paragraphs which shows her level of investment is high so it was a good time to begin seeding the date." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I like it, what time did you get in last night? Was it late? Oh god yep I don\u2019t know how you people exist, do you drink loads as well?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Nightmare, yes was a bit awkward. I was just waffling on to make it less so \ud83e\udd23 will it now? Are you sure about that?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Are you a little bit silly or no?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Positive. Define silly", + "coach_comment": " This message works here as she asked too many questions to answer and the conversation still be easy to follow. This message cuts out a lot of the sidetracks it would be easy to go down. It is short, succinct and communicates confidence as he is \u2018positive\u2019 their date will go well. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You know like funny, a bit weird don\u2019t take things too seriously kind of thing? I\u2019ve said it and it\u2019s hard to define but I know what I mean \ud83d\udc40 \ud83d\ude44" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I definitely don\u2019t take things too seriously, hoping you don\u2019t either", + "coach_comment": " This message indicates that you are selective in who you spend time with, which is a high value trait." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That\u2019s good news, no i don\u2019t either" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We should test this out in person", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to begin moving towards the number close. The vibe has been good so far, there has been some light flirting, she has qualified herself and she has been sending long messages which shows she is invested so it is time to begin babystepping towards the close." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " We should indeed. Why waste time" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Exactly. You free tonight?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hmmm that\u2019s very tempting, what time?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019m seeing a friend\u2019s band tonight but could meet after, say 9/9:30?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What and go for a few drinks? I\u2019m thinking about it I\u2019m tempted hahaha need to go in the shower and get ready\u2026 \ud83d\ude44" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Yeah we\u2019ll go for a few drinks in town" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You know why not ok, you\u2019ve twisted my arm" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Shoot me your number and we\u2019ll sort it" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number)" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " texted" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 21, + "context": "They met on Hinge. The girl liked a photo in his profile. He opened her. ", + "response": [ + "Smooth (her name) \ud83d\ude09 I guess there\u2019s only one way to find out", + "Sounds good, what do you do for work? I\u2019m on day 2 of an intense couple of weeks of essay writing. Managed to get to the gym this morning though", + "I\u2019ll be the judge of that \ud83d\ude09 you like wine?", + "Oh maybe this won\u2019t work after all (her name) \ud83d\ude09" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey I like your style (her name) \ud83d\udc4c" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hey! Thank you, I like yours too!" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I wonder how well our styles would mix" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I think they\u2019d mix quite well together ;)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Smooth (her name) \ud83d\ude09 I guess there\u2019s only one way to find out", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to hint at the in-person meet up without explicitly talking about it. It would be too early in the interaction for that. They need to get to know each other a little more first." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What can I say \ud83d\udc81\ud83c\udffc\u200d\u2640\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I guess there is" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " How\u2019s your Tuesday treating you?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Fairly chilled so far! Heading to work soon though :( how about you?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Sounds good, what do you do for work? I\u2019m on day 2 of an intense couple of weeks of essay writing. Managed to get to the gym this morning though", + "coach_comment": " When a girl asks about your day or what you have been doing, it is always good to throw some DHV\u2019s in there. This can be anything from working hard, exercising, doing a hobby that sounds cool or you enjoy." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I work in a clinic and then also do photography part time. Oh nice, are you at uni?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Productive morning by the sounds of it" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Was going to say you looked too arty to only work in a clinic. What\u2019s your favorite thing to take photos of? I am at uni" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha why thank you! I do a lot of fashion photography or weddings" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oo nice what do you study? Are you in your final year?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " That makes sense, I\u2019m definitely getting fashionista vibes from you" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Doing a teaching qualification specializing in special needs" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I do try hahaha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh wow. That\u2019s amazing!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Are you enjoying it?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I am, it\u2019s challenging and the kids can be little shits sometimes but they often end up being your favorite lol" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " So give me the basics. Any kids? Tattoos? Fun kinks? Crazy hobbies?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh I can imagine! Must be so rewarding though, it\u2019s the same with the clinic. It\u2019s challenging but it\u2019s always worth it" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahaha no children, I have a few tattoos" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I play guitar and piano poorly" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " How about you?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Exactly, what do you do at the clinic?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " You play guitar? That\u2019s a green flag lol We should have a jam sometime soon This is a very simple method of seeding the date. The concept is to find something you have in common with the girl and suggest that you do it together." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I manage mainly but it\u2019s a lot of sitting in scan rooms and filling out reports, going through what\u2019s seen on the scan" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I do hahaha but I\u2019m not the best hahaha We should!! That would be fun" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019ll be the judge of that \ud83d\ude09 you like wine?", + "coach_comment": " This message puts the student into a position of dominance as he is confidently better at something than she is so he will judge her on the day of the date. This forces the girl to qualify herself. This also begins the closing sequence that leads to getting the girl\u2019s number. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahaha that\u2019s fair enough ;) and I do yet!" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " We should split a bottle sometime soon" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What kind of wine are we talking" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Depends, you a red or white kind of girl?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " White for sure hahaha" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Oh maybe this won\u2019t work after all (her name) \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": " This is a great way to flirt. By pushing her away a little you make her want to chase you. It is usually a technique that women use on men but it is very effective the other way around." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Don\u2019t break my heart \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019m sure we can find a way to make it work \ud83d\ude09 you got WhatsApp?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I hope so \ud83d\ude09 and yeah, my number is (her number)" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Messaged" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 22, + "context": "They matched on Hinge. He opened her. The girl ghosted after a few messages.", + "response": [ + "What\u2019s that?\u201d. With his two messages he's pedestalize her by complimenting her twice. It\u2019s okay to compliment a girl and it was good to say \u201cyou seem like", + "Careful, compliments like that might get yo a romantic date \ud83d\ude09", + "a white girl who doesn\u2019t like coffee? You\u2019re full of surprises\u201d or \u201cA physics major who doesn\u2019t like coffee? You do surprise me", + "cute/ handsome. Tomato/ tomato \ud83d\ude09 How\u2019s your weekend?" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey soo.. I guess we\u2019re dating now..?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I don\u2019t think that\u2019s how it works lol \ud83d\ude05" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I should probably figure out if you\u2019re crazy or trouble or something first right?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m not crazy or trouble, I\u2019m nice \ud83d\ude0a" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " But you know what I think \ud83e\udd14" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " In that case looks like we might get along after all " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What\u2019s that?\u201d. With his two messages he's pedestalize her by complimenting her twice. It\u2019s okay to compliment a girl and it was good to say \u201cyou seem like", + "coach_comment": ". With his two messages he's pedestalize her by complimenting her twice. It\u2019s okay to compliment a girl and it was good to say \u201cyou seem like" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You damn right I am \ud83d\ude05\ud83d\ude05but I think you cute" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Careful, compliments like that might get yo a romantic date \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": " This way you get to seed the date without her having to commit to anything. After all, the purpose of being on a dating app is to meet up with the people you match with. This is important to keep in mind when texting." + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " You look like a girl who loves coffee" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Nope \ud83d\udc4e" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2026sir\u2026dislike coffee very much" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " And who said you were handsome \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83d\ude05\ud83d\ude05" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "a white girl who doesn\u2019t like coffee? You\u2019re full of surprises\u201d or \u201cA physics major who doesn\u2019t like coffee? You do surprise me", + "coach_comment": " or \u201cA physics major who doesn\u2019t like coffee? You do surprise me" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "cute/ handsome. Tomato/ tomato \ud83d\ude09 How\u2019s your weekend?" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 23, + "context": "They met in person. The student got her number after conversation and seeding the date. ", + "response": [ + "You seem like a gym rat", + "no ice cream, no alcohol. Training for the olympics or something", + "Gotta make sure you\u2019re not crazy or something before i give you my number \ud83d\ude09" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey, Ronald Regan of Long Beach" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hey" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You seem like a gym rat", + "coach_comment": " as it is shorter and matches her energy and investment level more accurately. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Give me till next year" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "no ice cream, no alcohol. Training for the olympics or something", + "coach_comment": " as it gets the same point across but in half the number of words." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " No lol I'm doing this for myself" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " What are you doing Friday? This attempt at closing came much too soon and was too abrupt. Even if you meet in person and get the number, it is still best to have a small amount of banter over text before closing on the date." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I work Friday night at 8pm" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I can do Sunday evening but if you can't do it then I have next" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " My off days are Tuesday" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Yikes. I'm busy during the week." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ok well if you want to get to know me you'll make time if not that's fine" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I get out of class early on Tuesday but I have to study for a little bit because I have exams coming up. I'm free after 8:00 PM." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do you know that you are texting me from your email address" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Gotta make sure you\u2019re not crazy or something before i give you my number \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": " to inject so flirting into the conversation. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh ok" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That works for me" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Next Tuesday, I've decided that I want to go bowling with you at Round 1 in Lakewood. The one next to 24 hour fitness. It is better to soft close before hard closing. Instead of expecting her to agree to the day, time and activity all at once, a better sequence would have been:" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " We should go for that game of bowling sometime soon\u201d" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sure, when were you thinking" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " When are you typically free? " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " my days off are Tuesday and Wednesday\u201d" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Let\u2019s do Tuesday, say 8pm\u201d" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds good" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds good" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 24, + "context": "They matched on Tinder. She then admitted to being a virgin. Then the student number closed.", + "response": [ + "We should change that", + "That doesn\u2019t worry me. I know what I\u2019m doing. You\u2019re in good safe hands" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Someone\u2019s adorable af" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " thank you ;)" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019m curious about something" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " ?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019ll share but first I need to ask if you\u2019re open minded" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " yes i am" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Do men realize that you\u2019re quite submissive to the right kind of dominant man?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I think so" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Ever been with one?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " No" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We should change that", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to begin seeding the idea of a future meet up. The implication is that the student is dominant and she should meet up with him." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " ;)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m a virgin by the way" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "That doesn\u2019t worry me. I know what I\u2019m doing. You\u2019re in good safe hands", + "coach_comment": " This message is effective in making the student come across as confident and experienced in the bedroom. The purpose of this is to make her feel more at ease with the concept of having sex with him. It is deliberately short and to the point. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ok, nice" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Do you like wine btw?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " yes!" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " We should split a bottle sometime soon" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I agree" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Perfect. Shoot me your number for romance arrangement purposes" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number)" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Texted " + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 25, + "context": "They matched on Bumble so the girl had to message first. ", + "response": [ + "I bet you use that line on all the cute guys \ud83d\ude09", + "Smooth \ud83d\ude0f\u201d This message is a good follow up to most things girls will respond to the \u201cI bet you use that line on all the cute guys \ud83d\ude09", + "That good huh?\u201d This is a good message to send if you ask a girl something, ask her how her day is or about an event she attended because it implies that she was having so much fun at the event that she forgot to text you, not that she ghosted or couldn't be bothered replying. Another good message to send here would be \u201clooks like you forgot to press send lol\u201d or \u201cmic check..1..2", + "Hella dull? That's going to be your name in my contacts lol", + "It\u2019s good, I can ease you back into it", + "You don\u2019t sound confident" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Well you\u2019re hella cute ain\u2019t ya" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I bet you use that line on all the cute guys \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": " This is a good line to use if the girl messages you first. It was in response to pretty much anything but it is most effective when she compliments you." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ye I do actually" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Smooth \ud83d\ude0f\u201d This message is a good follow up to most things girls will respond to the \u201cI bet you use that line on all the cute guys \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": " This message is a good follow up to most things girls will respond to the \u201cI bet you use that line on all the cute guys \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " How\u2019s your new years day treating you?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "That good huh?\u201d This is a good message to send if you ask a girl something, ask her how her day is or about an event she attended because it implies that she was having so much fun at the event that she forgot to text you, not that she ghosted or couldn't be bothered replying. Another good message to send here would be \u201clooks like you forgot to press send lol\u201d or \u201cmic check..1..2", + "coach_comment": " This is a good message to send if you ask a girl something, ask her how her day is or about an event she attended because it implies that she was having so much fun at the event that she forgot to text you, not that she ghosted or couldn't be bothered replying. Another good message to send here would be \u201clooks like you forgot to press send lol" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ye was good thanks sorry it\u2019s been a busy start to the year" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Did you celebrate well?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Nw. I did, New Year\u2019s Day was spent on the couch watching films with all me christmas chocolate lol" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds delightful and sounds like my day today tbh" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Sounds great" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " So tell me what do you do for fun? " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I run, play hockey, paint and crochet. Other than that I\u2019m hella dull" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hella dull? That's going to be your name in my contacts lol", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to tease a little but also to seed the idea of a future meet up by suggesting that she will give him her number without directly asking for it because the vibe is not right to do so yet. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " It\u2019s a good name don\u2019t ya think? " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Suits you lol you run? I\u2019ve been looking for a running partner" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ye a little, broke my wrist a few weeks ago and I know it was my wrist but I\u2019ve not done a lot recently so trying to get back into it all." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "It\u2019s good, I can ease you back into it", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to subtly seed the idea of a future meet up and get her used to the idea of spending time with him. It also implies you are good at taking the leadership role and are better than her at something she wants to be good at." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Why how far do you normally go? You look super speedy" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I tend to do 20-30K a week, you?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Omg nowhere near that much" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " It has been a while tho, I\u2019ll take new year new me very seriously this year" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Oh yeah, what are your resolutions this year?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Also, you like wine btw?This is a good way to begin number closing the girl once the vibe in the conversation is good. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Well get fit obvs and errr not get black out drunk" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What are yours" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes I do, red is my fav tho" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I want to get back into writing. Used to write short stories but have let it slip this past year" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Good choice, we should split a bottle sometime soon" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oooo what about?!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Maybe we should \ud83e\udd74" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " All sorts, most recent on was about a homeless man I got chatting to at the train stop" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You don\u2019t sound confident", + "coach_comment": ". Any time a girl gives a flaky answer or uses the word \u2018maybe\u2019 when you\u2019re organizing plans, it is better to get a clear answer and find out if there is a reason she might flake on the date. Sometimes it means nothing, other times you uncover a problem that you must overcome to get her on the date." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Awh cute" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That\u2019s the face I pull after my half of the bottle" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Lol shoot me your number and we\u2019ll sort it " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 26, + "context": "They matched on Hinge. She sent the first message which is a good sign because it shows interest and investment from the girl right from the start of the interaction.", + "response": [ + "Thank u, but can you promise me not to steal it when we hang out and you get cold?", + "We\u2019ll see how persuasive you can be on our date ;)\u201d or \u201cdepends how cute you are on our date, maybe I won\u2019t be able to say no to you ;)", + "Mm interesting, so can I propose something?", + "We should chill and vibe out to some music sometime" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Nice fur lol" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Thank u, but can you promise me not to steal it when we hang out and you get cold?", + "coach_comment": " This message does well to seed the date in a playful way without requiring any commitment from the girl. It is a playful role play that allows her to imagine herself spending time with the student in person. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Absolutely not, ur dealing with a full kleptomaniac here" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We\u2019ll see how persuasive you can be on our date ;)\u201d or \u201cdepends how cute you are on our date, maybe I won\u2019t be able to say no to you ;)", + "coach_comment": " or \u201cdepends how cute you are on our date, maybe I won\u2019t be able to say no to you ;)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ugh well if ur gonna let me steal it that takes all the fun away. I\u2019ll just wear it when I\u2019m cold and wanna feel fabulous " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Well just have to fight over it, u got hands?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Def not lol u would pin me down \ud83d\ude43" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " U sound like my type of girl ;) are u submissive? The idea of this message is to play with the sexual undertones of her last message and take it down a more sexual route. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Mm maybe a lil bit ;)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Mm interesting, so can I propose something?", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to make her intrigued and think about potential dates with you." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Let\u2019s hear it " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We should chill and vibe out to some music sometime", + "coach_comment": " Here the student is proposing a very simple date idea. It is better to keep the first date as simple as possible. Keep it to drinks, coffee, hanging out at your place or a walk." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I think that\u2019s a great idea" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Ok for sure, btw what are you looking for on here?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Nothing serious, I mean if something turns into something naturally sure maybe. Wbu?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Sam, just looking for something casual now and going with the flow, so what\u2019s your plans for this week and tonight?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Tonight I\u2019m going to a friends and I might be hanging out with a friend this weekend but I\u2019m not totally sure when lol if you wanna hang tho I\u2019m definitely down" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Ok lol I do wanna hang, how about tomorrow?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Or tonight after you leave your friend either one works" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Oh btw u stay with family right?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Tomorrow probably works better, I don\u2019t know how late u stay up but I get off at 10:30-11 so I probably won\u2019t be leaving there until late lol" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " And nope I got an apartment, no roommates \ud83d\ude0b" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Ok I stay up hella late and I don\u2019t get off until 11:30 either lol so I\u2019d be down to swing by tomorrow, so how bout I text u tomorrow round 11 and see what you\u2019re doing?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds fun, we can grab a drink or something if you want too" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " For sure, we can do that or I can just buy a bottle of wine and come over and we can split it, what kind u like? The aim of this message is to get a straight to the house date instead of meeting out. It\u2019s always better to ask. If she says no then you can always go out for drinks and there is usually no harm done. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Uhhh the kind that\u2019s clear and taste like gin and is also called gin \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Lol I don\u2019t like wine it gives me a headache and an upset stomach" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Also I have plenty of liquor so u don\u2019t have to buy anything unless you want to" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Ah ok I see uuu, u stacked up haha ok sounds like a vibe, what\u2019s your number?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 27, + "context": "The student got the girl\u2019s number while in a nightclub. There was vibing and flirting and they were close to kissing but didn\u2019t. ", + "response": [], + "exchange": [] + }, + { + "id": 28, + "context": "", + "response": [ + "hey (her name) I couldn\u2019t forget the cute, curvy teacher I vibed so well with", + "The drink was great, we should have another sometime where it\u2019s not super loud lol", + "No worries, what time works for you? Btw I know you live 3 hours away so we can meet in the middle", + "Ok bet, but we should have a quick call sometime this week before we hang out, down with that?" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hellp Amor lol not you naming yourself that in my phone lol. Its (her name) your fellow Leo, unless you forgot haha have a goodnight and get to sleep safely!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "hey (her name) I couldn\u2019t forget the cute, curvy teacher I vibed so well with", + "coach_comment": " just to make it more succinct and flow better." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Honestly we did vibe! Lol" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " How did the rest of your night go? " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I practiced my dance moves with friends I made earlier and drank water to sober up from helping you drink but still made it home in one piece." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Aww how fun! Did you like the drink? And glad you made it home safe!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "The drink was great, we should have another sometime where it\u2019s not super loud lol", + "coach_comment": " So far the vibe has been good and it has been established that she remembers him very well from the previous night and had a good time. Now it makes sense to move towards the close while the vibe is good and she is invested." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019d love that actually! And yeah, it was super loud in there. I could barely hear you lol" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " When are you typically free?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m usually always free on weekends \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Let\u2019s do Friday, say 6:30 pm?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I don't live in (location) so I won\u2019t be able to do 6:30 lol" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "No worries, what time works for you? Btw I know you live 3 hours away so we can meet in the middle", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to establish logistics to make it easier to set up the date." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m soooo sorry. I forgot Friday is my mom\u2019s birthday! Can you do any other day on the weekend?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " No worries, family first. No, I\u2019m booked up for the rest of the weekend. Maybe we can set something up for next weekend." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes! I\u2019m completely free next weekend \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Ok bet, but we should have a quick call sometime this week before we hang out, down with that?", + "coach_comment": " It can be helpful to set up a phone call with a girl before your date. Phone calls can be great for building comfort and connection with the girl. You can also vibe and flirt using your voice in ways that cannot be done over text. " + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 29, + "context": "They matched on a dating app. He sent the first message.", + "response": [ + "That\u2019s cool, but please don\u2019t tell me we have to do the matching pajamas too" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " So I guess we\u2019re dating now?... Not sure how this works" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes that\u2019s how it is. Think you can meet my parents in November, and we\u2019ll get engaged in December! " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "That\u2019s cool, but please don\u2019t tell me we have to do the matching pajamas too", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to begin a fun role play in which they are already in a long term relationship. The purpose of this is to get her to imagine this scenario in her head, therefore, getting her used to the idea of spending time with him in real life, making a date more likely. It can also be good to set up fun role plays in your messaging because it sets you apart from the other boring questions and \u2018get to know you\u2019 talk that happens on most dating apps." + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 30, + "context": "Matched on a dating app. The student messaged the girl first.", + "response": [ + "No worries, you can make it up to me on our date \ud83d\ude09" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " It\u2019s always the discrete ones that are the most fun ;)" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " how\u2019s it going?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Very well thank you \u263a\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Are you fun? You\u2019re not discrete \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Only one way to find out \ud83d\ude0f This message works to seed the date without the girl having to directly commit to it yet. It is a good way to get the girl to imagine spending time with you in person. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hm which way would that be? \ud83d\ude33" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " an adventurous night of flirting and drinks to see how fun we make each other feel. And perhaps other exciting things if the vibe is right This is a great message to send when she asks what will happen on the date. In this case it is how she will find out if he is fun. It paints a picture of a classy date with sexual undertones, with a confident man." + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Don\u2019t like the plan? This message is a good way to be persistent without being needy. It assumes that it isn\u2019t him she doesn\u2019t like, it was the plan she didn\u2019t like. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That\u2019s a great plan \u263a\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Great. What area are you in btw? I\u2019m in (location)." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (Location)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Is it dangerous there?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Ah not too far. It\u2019s very safe, there\u2019s a lot of kids walking around." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hmm idk" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I was aggressed there once" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do you live alone or with roommates?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Oh wow, I\u2019m sorry that happened. I have roommates, It\u2019s a really nice space" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh that\u2019s unfortunate" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Why unfortunate? It\u2019s a very big space and I still have a lot of privacy." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I live alone and got used to privacy\u2026" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Idk frankly speaking I can\u2019t imagine being private with roommates \ud83d\ude02 and I want to be private lol" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Haha I understand that. Once you see my place you\u2019ll understand what I mean. It\u2019s 7 floors, I don\u2019t see my roommates often at all lol This is a good message to allay her fears about a lack of privacy. She needs to feel safer and more secure in the knowledge that they won\u2019t be heard or interrupted during their date. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " ok then" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You can invite me on a date \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Lol great. Do you like wine? This message is a great way to start a closing sequence. Most women enjoy wine and, once she says \u2018yes\u2019 it\u2019s an easy transition from there to invite her to split a bottle together." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I do" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I like all good things " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Great then you\u2019ll like me a lot \ud83d\ude09 This message is a good amount of cocky humor, implying that he is good and that she\u2019ll like him since she mentions in her previous message that she likes good things." + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019d like to take you to my favorite wine bar. We can have a drink there, flirt, and see where the night takes us. This continues the message from earlier as it maintains the idea of a classy date with sexual undertones, with a confident man." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Wait just to make sure" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " lol sorry I\u2019m not coherent" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What\u2019s your favorite wine bar?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " It\u2019s called (venue)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ok I\u2019d like to go there" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hey what do you do?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Like for work? I\u2019m an engineering lead at a tech company. Wbu?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m an analyst" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ok lol I\u2019m sorry I got dramatized by your neighborhood \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "No worries, you can make it up to me on our date \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": "." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Well actually I\u2019m free tomorrow as my plans got canceled" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Would you like to save me from boredom? " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Absolutely, We\u2019ll make it an unforgettable night then. Free around 730" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " It\u2019s a question right?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Oh yes that was supposed to be a question mark lol" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Nice" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " It\u2019s good for me. 7:30 it is " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Okay great, looking forward to it. Send me your number, and let\u2019s get off this app" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ok \u263a\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (Phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 31, + "context": "They matched on Hinge. He commented on her photo. She mentioned in her profile that she is British. ", + "response": [ + "Is the British accent fact or cap?" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Is the British accent fact or cap?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Fact \ud83e\udd23" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Babygirl" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019m gonna have to be careful around you because that\u2019s my weakness" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " 10/10 rizz \ud83d\ude0c" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " if my rizz was that good we\u2019d be splitting a bottle of wine by now" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Smooth \ud83e\udd23" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I don\u2019t drink wine but you can buy me a cocktail" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " shoot me your number already lucy" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 32, + "context": "Context:They matched on Hinge. She mentioned in her profile that she was a PHD student so he commented on that first. ", + "response": [], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " PHD student and fun is a pretty rare combo" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019m not sold (her name)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahaha I promise we exist" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You\u2019ll have to trust me on that" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I like your tattoos btw" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Aha I\u2019ll believe it when I see it \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Thanks do I see a couple small ones on you too?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah I have 4" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " My most recent one is the tree on my arm" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019m glad our tattoo tour won\u2019t be one sided" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " ooo I\u2019d love to get the tour" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Maybe we can do a quick vibe check sometime" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes absolutely \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " cool :) What's your availability like?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m free Sunday afternoon/night or most days next week after 5" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Okk perfect! I have a pending business dinner on Sunday but if that happens we can do next week" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Do you have a phone number? I have notifications off here" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds good \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes you can text me (her number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 33, + "context": "They matched on Hinge. She liked his photo. He messaged her first.", + "response": [ + "Careful, cute compliments like that might just land you a date ;)", + "& you obviously have a few of my weaknesses", + "Cute & curvy, with a bit of a wild side. A sexy feminine energy which tells me there\u2019s a fun submissive side to you for the right man \ud83d\ude09", + "Mhm, I even have a plan", + "Me & you splitting a bottle of wine. Talk about our passions while making deep eye contact.. If things get spicy I bend you over, grab a fistful of your hair, &...", + "Oh yea? Are you a wine drinker ;)", + "I smoke once in a blue moon but I\u2019m down. We should smoke sometime soon", + "\ud83d\udc4c Shoot me your number" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey trouble" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hey handsome" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Careful, cute compliments like that might just land you a date ;)", + "coach_comment": " This message works to seed the date and set intention early in the conversation. It also sets the frame that she is chasing him as she is the one giving compliments." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m just stating the obvious haha" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "& you obviously have a few of my weaknesses", + "coach_comment": " This message baits the girl into asking more and continuing the conversation. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh yeah \ud83d\ude0f and what would those be?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Cute & curvy, with a bit of a wild side. A sexy feminine energy which tells me there\u2019s a fun submissive side to you for the right man \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": " This message is complimentary towards the girl. It is vague so it could apply to anyone. When you send a vague message like this, you reduce the risk of her responding negatively to the message. It also implies that he is the right man to bring out her submissive side. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Lol guess we\u2019ll have to find out " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Mhm, I even have a plan", + "coach_comment": " This message baits the girl into asking more and continuing the conversation. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do tell" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Say please \ud83d\ude0fThis message requires the girl to give consent. It also has sexual undertones and is effective because of the sexual vibe set up in the previous messages. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Plzzz" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Me & you splitting a bottle of wine. Talk about our passions while making deep eye contact.. If things get spicy I bend you over, grab a fistful of your hair, &...", + "coach_comment": " This message is effective as it shows that he is confident when on a date. It could also be taken to mean he is looking for a ONS but also implies he is looking for a connection with her. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds very intriguing" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Oh yea? Are you a wine drinker ;)", + "coach_comment": " This message begins the closing sequence" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m not much of a drinker lol I rather smoke but if I do drink just don\u2019t mind my funny faces lmao" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I smoke once in a blue moon but I\u2019m down. We should smoke sometime soon", + "coach_comment": " It is important that he says \u2018sometime soon\u2019 in this message as it could be inferred as meeting anytime from right now, later that day or next week. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hell yea, we should plan something out \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Where do you live? Lol" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " (location) You?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m in (location)" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Not too far. What evenings are you free coming up this week, cutie" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Technically I got all evenings free haha I work early mornings and most days I\u2019m out by 230pm" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I do be going to be around 9 tho" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Let\u2019s do Monday evening, say 7 pm. Sound good?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " that might be a little too late for me since I need to be up by 3am Tuesday. Can we meet a bit earlier?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hm. Well what\u2019s a night where you don\u2019t have work early the following morning ;)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Friday and Saturdays haha" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Perfect. Friday evening, say 7 pm then. Deal? " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Alright yes, that sounds good " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Great & is your place an option" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Definitely not lmao. I just moved back to my parents house" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " And yours? " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " It is, we just can\u2019t smoke :/ maybe in my car \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That\u2019s fine by me \ud83d\ude1c" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "\ud83d\udc4c Shoot me your number", + "coach_comment": " This message is important as the risk of flaking is reduced if she gives her phone number." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number) " + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 34, + "context": "They matched on Bumble so she has to message him first. ", + "response": [ + "Gym, planning, reading, meal prepping, hang out with friends. Just missing a little bit of (her name) \ud83d\ude09", + "Originally from the Philippines, moved to TX when I was 7-8, now I\u2019m here for our romance", + "You\u2019ll be whispering Gujarati on our date, I hope \ud83d\ude0f", + "Adventurous I see. I\u2019m just looking to meet a cool girl I have chemistry with. Great/ kinky sex & cuddles are a bonus. Open to more with the right girl. I\u2019ve found things go better organically that way." + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What\u2019s up, buttercup? \ud83d\udc95" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Sup sexy starburst, how\u2019s your Friday?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Omg you\u2019re cuuute. Starburst, I like this " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What\u2019s good for your weekend?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Gym, planning, reading, meal prepping, hang out with friends. Just missing a little bit of (her name) \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": " This message provides a lot of subtle DHV\u2019s: that he works out/ exercises, has hobbies, is educated, can cook and is social." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What are ya reading these days?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83e\udd2d \ud83d\udc95 okiii casanova" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Been reading Becoming Supernatural, about to starts The Alchemist" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Are you from here originally?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ooooooo love both" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeahhh.. Hbu" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do you have audible? The narrators voice on alchemist is beautiful" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I bet" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Originally from the Philippines, moved to TX when I was 7-8, now I\u2019m here for our romance", + "coach_comment": " This is a good message to send if you have moved recently. Suggesting that you moved so you could pursue her is a playful way to express interest in her." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " How dreammmmy" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Can you speak any other languages?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Tagalog. Learning Spanish rn. You?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Fun! Gujarati, a smattering of Spanish and learning Italian" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You\u2019ll be whispering Gujarati on our date, I hope \ud83d\ude0f", + "coach_comment": " This message works if the girl can speak different languages or has a different accent. It also seeds the date. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Only if you speak tagalog as we pretend to understand each other & confuse people watchers lmfao" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I like what I\u2019m hearing. Sounds like we\u2019re in for a good time" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83d\udc9c \ud83d\udc95" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " ;) so what are you looking for on here, cutie" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Fun dates, whiskey lounges, tater tots. You?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Adventurous I see. I\u2019m just looking to meet a cool girl I have chemistry with. Great/ kinky sex & cuddles are a bonus. Open to more with the right girl. I\u2019ve found things go better organically that way.", + "coach_comment": " This message does a lot of different things. It implies that he can be picky with the women he dates. It opens a sexual dialogue. This message hints at the idea that he is looking for more than a ONS if she is the right kind of girl, implying that she must qualify herself if she is to meet his standards. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Aw that\u2019s nice" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What does kink mean to you" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Spanking, hair pulling, choking, that sorta thing.." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Lol.. so sex" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " The elements that make sex more fun (Sent as a voice message)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83e\udd2d \ud83d\udc95 I\u2019m over here thinking you\u2019re gonna say some real questionable kinky fuckery" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Get your mind outta the gutter, girl \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What does this voice note say" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Also didn\u2019t know you could send voice notes, so that\u2019s fun" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Do you like margaritas" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I prefer a mezcal old fashioned, or whiskey neat with a water back. What\u2019s your palate enjoy savoring" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " We can pretend I like margaritas" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I just like a regular fruity margarita, pref Don Julio. We should grab some margs sometime soon" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Where do you like to find these fruity margs" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m game" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Let\u2019s figure it out over text. Shoot me your number ;)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Smooooth" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 35, + "context": "They matched on Hinge. He responded to her prompt which said \u2018I recently discovered that\u2026 my attraction to men is almost exclusively based on how funny I think they are. Great news for the broke guys!. His response was \u201cWhat about funny and not broke guys?", + "response": [ + "Don\u2019t worry I\u2019m gonna change that for you! I just hope you have a few qualities I like too", + "Lol! I\u2019m just not a fan of the bars in Williamsburg. I have a few wine bare I\u2019d love to take you to though if you\u2019re feeling adventurous", + "Hey, I had fun last night" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " What about funny and not broke guys?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hmm\u2026 not my type " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " But I might give it a shot" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Don\u2019t worry I\u2019m gonna change that for you! I just hope you have a few qualities I like too", + "coach_comment": " This message is designed to get her to qualify herself in some way. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Okay great, I\u2019m ready to be convinced. I think I do have some likable qualities" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " And if not, I\u2019ll just convince you also" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Good, I like the confidence. Do you like wine?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes, how did you know??" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Because you seem like my type of girl of course ;) We should split a bottle of wine on my romantic patio sometime soon" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ha, nice try" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Wine sounds good but we need to work on that location" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Lol! I\u2019m just not a fan of the bars in Williamsburg. I have a few wine bare I\u2019d love to take you to though if you\u2019re feeling adventurous", + "coach_comment": " Being adventurous is something most girls will see themselves as or will want to be and so, if you ask a girl if she is feeling adventurous, she is likely to agree with you. " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Ever been to we got company? (Link to google maps)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I haven\u2019t but very willing to try" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Awesome, let\u2019s go there. Free Wednesday at 7? Usually it is better to offer two days to meet up as she is less likely to respond negatively. Alternatively, you can ask her when she is free. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes, you\u2019re in luck. Wednesday at 7 works " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Lol guess I\u2019ll go get a powerball ticket then \ud83d\ude09 Looking forward to it cutie. Drop me your number and I\u2019ll send you a text. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (Phone number) " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey, it\u2019s Malik from Hinge" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " So glad you clarified which Malik" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " There are thousands of new Maliks texting me daily, it\u2019s insane" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Damn that sounds amazing for you" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Luckily the best one is finally here to save the day. You normally a night owl?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes, though I\u2019m still a little jet lagged from Germany" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I see so what\u2019s the story? Are you visiting or did you recently move here from Germany This message goes into the \u2018get to know you\u2019 stage and provides the girl with comfort and connection. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I recently moved back here from Germany. I have already lived in New York for two years before that, but as an au pair" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Ah just in time for our romance, lovely. Are you still working as an au pair or have you found a new gig this time around? This message keeps the tone of the conversation light hearted and fun by implying that she moved there to pursue him romantically. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sorry, I was a little distracted today" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m not working as an au pair anymore, I\u2019m here on a student visa" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " That\u2019s cool, looking forward to hearing more about that. Still good for tonight?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes, still good. 7 still good?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": "Yep 7 works perfect! Hope you survive all the Maliks texting you til then \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I muted them for today. It\u2019s a special day" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Absolutely " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Running a bit late, will be there close to 7:10" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Okay. Hopefully nobody is going to propose to me by then. I might be taken" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Prepared to tackle someone at the altar" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That\u2019s hot" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hey, I had fun last night", + "coach_comment": ". It is a good idea to use some kind of callback humor that relates to the date. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I did, thank you \u263a\ufe0f hope you have a good night also" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 36, + "context": "They matched on Tinder. The student messaged the girl first. ", + "response": [ + "Oh no, made (her name) shy.", + "I\u2019m sure you appreciate a bit of forwardness", + "Lost the sexy accent unfortunately lol", + "You + me = more than friends \ud83d\ude0f" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " You seem like the perfect mix of cute & trouble " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Called it \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Cool. I\u2019d know just how to handle you \ud83d\ude0f This kind of message with a sexual undertone can work well on some girls. It can be a good way to screen early on if the girl is DTF. However, this girl ghosts for a couple of days so he has to reopen her. " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Oh no, made (her name) shy.", + "coach_comment": " This is one way, in this context, that works as a way to reopen. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " More like threw me off" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m sure you appreciate a bit of forwardness", + "coach_comment": " This message works because it is true, most girls do appreciate a man who is forward." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I do respect it yes" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Glad to hear" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Are you from here originally" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes I am" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Are you native to here too?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019m from Italy originally :) moved when I was young" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Wow that\u2019s cool \u263a\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Lost the sexy accent unfortunately lol", + "coach_comment": " This message is a great way to keep the \u2018get to know you\u2019 part of the conversation fun and flirty. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " So what are you looking for on here" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " For friends" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You + me = more than friends \ud83d\ude0f", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to keep the conversation fun and also to pass her test as no one is on Tinder to meet friends." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83d\ude02 cute" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Not as cute as our date will be The aim of this message is to seed the date." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Smooth \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " ;) do you like wine" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I do enjoy wine \ud83c\udf77 " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " We should split a bottle sometime soon" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Depends, White or red?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Sweet red" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Okay then we can split a bottle lol" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " What evenings are you free coming up cutie" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I got Thursday evening open" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Perfect. Let\u2019s do Thurs, my lofty place, say 8 pm. Sound good?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " yes/ no As she has ghosted again and not showed a huge amount of investment throughout the interaction, this message is a non-needy, low investment message to get her attention again. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019d rather meet somewhere public first, not that you\u2019re a serial killer or something lol. Just would make me more comfortable " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Oh, I forgot my axe upstate. No killing this month \ud83d\ude1c The aim of this message is to keep the conversation light hearted and put her at ease. " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " But I\u2019m down. Light drinks at a bar first then wine at mine if you\u2019re more comfortable. Deal? ;)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes \ud83d\ude4c" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Cool, shoot me your number" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I think you forgot to hit send , babe This is an example of another message that can be useful when a girl doesn\u2019t respond. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (Phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 37, + "context": "They matched on Tinder and she messages him first. This is a great sign as it shows investment from the girl. The whole interaction took place on Tinder, no number close. ", + "response": [ + "Glad to hear. It was great, not too packed. Looking nice and fit for our date\u201d The aim of this message is to seed the date. After telling a girl you have done any from of exercise, you can seed the date by saying \u201cLooking nice and fit for our date", + "feeling spontaneous?" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hello! How are you?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey cutie ;) doing amazing just got out of the gym, hbu?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m good thank you \u263a\ufe0f how was the gym" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Glad to hear. It was great, not too packed. Looking nice and fit for our date\u201d The aim of this message is to seed the date. After telling a girl you have done any from of exercise, you can seed the date by saying \u201cLooking nice and fit for our date", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to seed the date. After telling a girl you have done any from of exercise, you can seed the date by saying \u201cLooking nice and fit for our date" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I see you\u2019re good at giving massages \ud83d\udc86\u200d\u2640\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I am! How do you feel about massages?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I love massages \ud83d\ude0d" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " That\u2019s good! Well perhaps I can give you one, but only on one condition. The aim of this message is to draw the girl in and get her curious about you. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What\u2019s the condition?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That I lay in the splits whilst you do?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Perhaps! As long as you can handle the side effects ;) This message has a sexual undertone and gives the girl the opportunity to interpret that as a sexual innuendo or be coy. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh I think I can \ud83e\udd23" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "feeling spontaneous?", + "coach_comment": " is a great way to get a girl to meet, especially if you want to meet her that day. Most girls like to think they are spontaneous so they will usually respond positively. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Spontaneous?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Mhm, you free tonight?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I could be \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Only 1 mile away \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh we close" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Very close" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I could be free in about an hour or so \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That could work" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Not sure what my little sisters plans are" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Think we were going to head out for food and maybe a couple of drinks shortly" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Gotcha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah I just asked her and she was like can we go get some dins first" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Tbf I did pass out and nap a few hours ago because I was feeling a bit icky" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You free in a couple of hours?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Otherwise another day can work x" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019m going out around 10:30 so if it\u2019s before then that\u2019s cool. Otherwise another day works best" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I will keep you posted" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What\u2019s your living situation? You live alone or are we gonna put on a show for some housemates?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Cool. I have roommates but it\u2019s a big place, so we\u2019ll have plenty of privacy ;)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Okay so we\u2019re going to get some drinks and a little snacky snack" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What\u2019s your address so I can come see you after" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Watch my dumb ass get lost \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Lmao it\u2019s hard to miss it\u2019s on the corner" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Okay we\u2019re having a drink and some food" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m horny and want a back rub \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Mm then our time together will be just what you need ;) It is clear from the girl\u2019s previous messages that she is DTF so all the student needs to do is keep it simple." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Mmm I\u2019m so full of food" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ironically they forgot the sausage in my gnocchi and I was like oh girl it\u2019s okay I\u2019ll have my sausage tonight" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Haha that\u2019s the spirit. Hope you saved some room \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " We\u2019re just having another drink then I\u2019ll walk over to yours" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Sounds good. See you in a bit cutie " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Just paying now" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Should be at yours shortly \ud83d\ude42" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 38, + "context": "They match on Bumble so the girl has to message first.", + "response": [ + "When you\u2019re the small spoon, I\u2019d wrap my arm around your waist and get you close to me while your booty warms me up when I hold you tight. Play with your hair and pull it to the side to kiss on the back of your neck", + "Pro cuddler for a reason ;) I\u2019ll be sure to include that to our romantic date\u2019s agenda as well." + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hey \ud83d\udc4b what\u2019s up?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey Lucie. Just came back from a run with my dog. Tired him out and he\u2019s passed out on the couch lol and you? " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " A tired pup is the best pup" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Mine is passed out next to me too" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Are you stealing some cuddles from him/her while asleep" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Of course!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " One of the best parts of having a dog " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Good. Then I can trust your cuddling abilities. I\u2019m a sucker for a good cuddle" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " For sure" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " But I have to tell you\u2026 I\u2019m a little spoon hog. I never like taking my fair turn being the big spoon" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Should probably know that op front\u2026" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " With your height, I wouldn\u2019t give you any other role to play." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "When you\u2019re the small spoon, I\u2019d wrap my arm around your waist and get you close to me while your booty warms me up when I hold you tight. Play with your hair and pull it to the side to kiss on the back of your neck", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to create and encourage the girl to imagine a scenario in which she is enjoying spending time with you." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds like you definitely know how to cuddle" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I like that" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Pro cuddler for a reason ;) I\u2019ll be sure to include that to our romantic date\u2019s agenda as well.", + "coach_comment": " This message keeps the conversation light hearted and fun while also seeding the date." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Assuming you charm me during the dinner and drinks portion\u2026 then yes, I want to see these cuddle skills for myself" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Absolutely" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I can be very charming " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Perfect. Shoot me your number for charming each other and potential cuddles romance arrangement purposes" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (Phone number)" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Texted" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 39, + "context": "They matched on Hinge. She liked his photo. He messaged first.", + "response": [ + "Fuckin amazing!! Just got back from the gym after a killer workout. Looking sharp for our date. You?\u201d The aim of this message is to seed the date. After telling a girl you have done any form of exercise, you can seed the date by saying \u201cLooking nice and fit for our date\u201d or \u201clooking sharp for our date", + "Haha we should celebrate your freedom sometime soon then ;)" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I like your style \ud83d\udc4c" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Thank you \u263a\ufe0f I like youre too \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " How\u2019s your Sunday going?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Fuckin amazing!! Just got back from the gym after a killer workout. Looking sharp for our date. You?\u201d The aim of this message is to seed the date. After telling a girl you have done any form of exercise, you can seed the date by saying \u201cLooking nice and fit for our date\u201d or \u201clooking sharp for our date", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to seed the date. After telling a girl you have done any form of exercise, you can seed the date by saying \u201cLooking nice and fit for our date" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Great \ud83d\udc4f \ud83e\udd70 I\u2019m home, I started packing my things to move \ud83d\ude4c" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I decided to live alone, I can\u2019t deal with roommates anymore" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m not lucky \ud83c\udf40 haha \ud83d\ude06" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Haha we should celebrate your freedom sometime soon then ;)", + "coach_comment": " This message seeds the date by using her moving as a reason to get together and celebrate. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Of course!!!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha \ud83d\ude06" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Packing and drinking \ud83d\ude2c" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " and some romance back and forth never hurt celebrations" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Nope" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Where do you live?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Brickell. You\u2019re in Deerfield?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I am" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Not top far. I\u2019ll be sure to throw in a relaxing shoulder massage and pack extra charm for the celebration" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " For you driving to Brickell ;)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " For sure \ud83d\ude0c" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I don\u2019t mind to drive" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Shoot me your number for romance arrangement purposes then ;)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " My number is (phone number)" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Texted" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 40, + "context": "They matched on Hinge. The student commented on her photo in Russian because she mentioned that she was russian.", + "response": [ + "Looking nice and fit for our date\u201d or \u201clooking sharp for our date", + "Look at us. Preparing for our romantic date we haven\u2019t even organized yet", + "Don\u2019t worry. I\u2019ll look sexy af and irresistible too. And I\u2019ll be sure to pack extra charm in my pockets.", + "Interesting phone number", + "I deleted my instagram last month to focus on my business. Too much distraction. We can do phone number" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Privet Tatyana" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Privet! Ti govorish po Rysski?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " No haha I dated a Russian last year. I could only learn and remember that word" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahahaha" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " How is your wednesday going" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Working! You?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Looking nice and fit for our date\u201d or \u201clooking sharp for our date", + "coach_comment": " or \u201clooking sharp for our date" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahahahaha I am on my way to the gym!! \ud83d\ude02 \ud83d\ude02 \ud83d\ude02 \ud83d\ude02 gonna make sure I am ready too \ud83d\udcaa\ud83d\udcaa\ud83d\udcaa\ud83d\udcaa" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Look at us. Preparing for our romantic date we haven\u2019t even organized yet", + "coach_comment": " This message introduces the \u2018we\u2019 frame implying they are doing something together or have something in common. This is an effective flirting technique as it creates a sense of closeness which provides comfort to the girl." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Now I need to get my manicure, pedicure, hair done \u2714\ufe0f Shave lol get something sexy to wear god dammit so much shit to do lol \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Don\u2019t worry. I\u2019ll look sexy af and irresistible too. And I\u2019ll be sure to pack extra charm in my pockets.", + "coach_comment": " This message keeps the interaction light hearted and fun." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahahahahaha Deal" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Ever been to (venue)?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes \ud83d\ude4c love it" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " That\u2019s where we\u2019ll have our romantic date then. Shoot me your number " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahahahah lol" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Interesting phone number", + "coach_comment": " This message works well when you ask for the number and she refuses but in a playful way." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do you have Instagram? Mine is (girl\u2019s instagram)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I deleted my instagram last month to focus on my business. Too much distraction. We can do phone number", + "coach_comment": " The number is better to get than the instagram because it requires more compliance from the girl. This is because there will usually be a lot of guys in a girl\u2019s dm\u2019s on instagram but not many will have her phone number so you will stand out. " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": "Or carrier pigeons will do? This is another example of a good message to send if she refuses or ignores you number request." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahahaha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You funny I like that \ud83e\udd23" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Texted" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 41, + "context": "They matched on Bumble so the girl must message first. She sends him a gif of two people saying \u2018HAYYY\u2019.", + "response": [], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " HAYYY" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey there ;) Was waiting for you to message me" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " The time is now hahaha" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Better late than never! How\u2019s your humpday treating you?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Great \ud83d\ude18 Can\u2019t complain, life is good" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Even better now that we\u2019re talking?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Of course \ud83d\ude1d\ud83d\ude1d" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " You leave at the end of April?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " For now" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Then we only have time for a short and intense romance " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83d\ude05 \ud83e\udd23" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Maybe u can convince me to stay" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " As long as you can handle a relaxing massage accompanied by multiple screaming orgasms" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " We shall see" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " If I can handle it \ud83d\ude07" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Do you like wine?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Then we should split a bottle sometime soon on my romantic balcony while my dog entertains us for the evening " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Have any plans this evening? \ud83d\ude1d" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " None. Feeling spontaneous? \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Always" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Shoot me your number and lets make something magical happen tonight" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (Phone number)" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Texted" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 42, + "context": "Matched on Hinge. She liked one of his prompts. The prompt said \u2018Believe it or not, I probably have more tattoos than you\u2019. She also messaged him first.", + "response": [ + "I\u2019m not the best at math but you could replace my X and I won\u2019t ask Y", + "Lmao well I\u2019ve never tried it, so I guess we\u2019ll find out together \ud83e\udee2", + "Aha ok off to a good start \ud83d\ude05", + "You\u2019re cute, what are you looking for on here?", + "Aha thanks girl \ud83d\ude18", + "And me too, trying to have some fun and going with the flow", + "Lmfoa is this LinkedIn?? \ud83d\ude0f", + "Shoot me your number, if we vibe maybe we can get together sometime this week \u2665\ufe0f", + "Hey you \ud83d\udc4b", + "Just getting back from a nice walk hbu? (How about you?)", + "Aha it\u2019s soo nice out. You working from home?", + "Oh that sounds so chill good for you!", + "I\u2019m in digital marketing aha but enough about work. What do you do for fun \ud83d\ude02", + "Yeah I love exploring and seeing new places, getting rowdy with friends and playing music. But also enjoy taking it easy aha I have a cuddly side to me \ud83d\udc81\u200d\u2642\ufe0f", + "Hope you can handle being teased a bit \ud83d\udc81\u200d\u2642\ufe0f", + "I mean sounds like it could be a good time with the right company \ud83d\ude08", + "Aha as long as you\u2019re a good cuddler", + "when are you available? \ud83d\ude18", + "Love the confidence", + "Oh so like right now??", + "Ou wanna stream the hockey game and chill?", + "Sure, I can just come for like 8 \ud83d\udc4d what\u2019s your address?", + "Sounds good! \ud83d\ude18", + "Here!", + "Aha had such a good time thanks for having me \ud83d\ude18" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hi" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m not the best at math but you could replace my X and I won\u2019t ask Y" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83d\ude02 Omg how well does that work on women \ud83d\ude1d" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Lmao well I\u2019ve never tried it, so I guess we\u2019ll find out together \ud83e\udee2", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to keep the conversation fun and light hearted in the early stages of the interaction." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Well it definitely got me laughing \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Aha ok off to a good start \ud83d\ude05" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You\u2019re cute, what are you looking for on here?", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to check her intentions and what she wants out of the interaction." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Thanks \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Nothing too serious I\u2019m just here for a good time. This message can be interpreted as her looking for and one night stand (ONS)." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What about you?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You\u2019re easy on the eyes too" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Aha thanks girl \ud83d\ude18" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "And me too, trying to have some fun and going with the flow", + "coach_comment": " This message matches her energy. It doesn\u2019t scare her off by saying he\u2019s looking for something serious but it is also not explicitly looking for a ONS. It is deliberately vague." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Awesome :)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " So tell me about yourself" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds like an interview question but you get the point \ud83e\udd2a" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Lmfoa is this LinkedIn?? \ud83d\ude0f", + "coach_comment": " This message teases her boring \u2018interview style\u2019 question." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Aren\u2019t you linking in an app so technically? \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Shoot me your number, if we vibe maybe we can get together sometime this week \u2665\ufe0f", + "coach_comment": " This message conveys that he has options and can be picky when it comes to choosing women by saying \u2018if we vibe\u2019." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha sure (phone number)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hey you \ud83d\udc4b" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hi Hunter what\u2019s up?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Just getting back from a nice walk hbu? (How about you?)", + "coach_comment": " When you get the phone number, it is usually better to go back into vibing instead of going straight for the date. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Nice! Just got off a work meeting" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " The day looks super nice" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Aha it\u2019s soo nice out. You working from home?", + "coach_comment": " " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m an MBA student so I\u2019m interning from home for now" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What about you - what do you do? " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Oh that sounds so chill good for you!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m in digital marketing aha but enough about work. What do you do for fun \ud83d\ude02", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to break away from the boring small talk and keep it fun and playful." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah it\u2019s good - keeps me busy which is nice" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha ok fair enough" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m an adrenaline junkie generally - roller coasters, skydiving etc. but on a regular day I like hiking, doing dinner and drinks with friends, love concerts" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Honestly I\u2019m down for pretty much anything" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Travel was a big one pre-pandemic - you?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yeah I love exploring and seeing new places, getting rowdy with friends and playing music. But also enjoy taking it easy aha I have a cuddly side to me \ud83d\udc81\u200d\u2642\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I don\u2019t know whether to be insulted about the bookworm comment or not \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " haha me too! I will happily spend a day in bed on the weekend" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hope you can handle being teased a bit \ud83d\udc81\u200d\u2642\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I mean sounds like it could be a good time with the right company \ud83d\ude08", + "coach_comment": " This message injects a flirty vibe to the interaction. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " It\u2019s always a good time with the right company \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Aha as long as you\u2019re a good cuddler" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "when are you available? \ud83d\ude18" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m the greatest cuddler" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha any time essentially - you?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Love the confidence" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Oh so like right now??", + "coach_comment": " This message teases her." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha ok any time in the evening" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I have a medical blog to write for today but I\u2019m free post 7" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Ou wanna stream the hockey game and chill?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m down" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Come to mine. I don\u2019t know how long the blog will take me to write so it gives me a little bit of extra time this way" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Sure, I can just come for like 8 \ud83d\udc4d what\u2019s your address?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (Address)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You\u2019ll have to call me when you get here so I can let you up" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Sounds good! \ud83d\ude18" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " See you tonight \ud83d\ude0a" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Here!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " coming down" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Last night was fun but I\u2019m sore as a mofo right now \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Aha had such a good time thanks for having me \ud83d\ude18" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Any time" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " For that dicking down you\u2019re always welcome here \ud83e\udd2a" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 43, + "context": "They match on Tinder. The student messages her first. In her third photo, she is in a bikini riding an all-terrain vehicle (ATV). There are a lot of shit tests in this interaction but the key to passing shit tests is to reverse it on her/ flip the frame and stay strong and confident.", + "response": [ + "We should recreate your third photo. I\u2019ll be the ATV", + "Lmoa (laughing my ass off) Honestly it was just too easy", + "Be cool if you did though. I\u2019ve always wanted a sugar momma \ud83d\ude02", + "All of your vacation photos lead me to believe you\u2019re not joking", + "I\u2019m glad you don\u2019t need me to pay your rent \ud83d\ude05 But if you\u2019re thinking a naughty week in mexico I think we\u2019d have some fun ;)", + "Um noo I\u2019m offering to let you bring me", + "What can I say (her name) I\u2019m not like other guys", + "You\u2019re cute, what are you looking for on here?", + "Ohh so like fwb (friends with benefits) \ud83d\ude05", + "Aha I\u2019m looking for someone chill and fun, nothing super serious either but going with the flow. Just a good vibe \ud83d\ude42", + "I\u2019m into kinky girls though and lowkey you look so innocent", + "Lol prove me wrong (her name) \ud83d\ude08", + "What\u2019s your snap?", + "I\u2019m here to fill something girl and it\u2019s not your pockets or your ego. Send it over", + "Lmao thank god I\u2019m not desperate enough to pay \ud83d\ude02", + "Nah but my gut tells me you don\u2019t want a bitch boy anyway", + "Snap" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We should recreate your third photo. I\u2019ll be the ATV", + "coach_comment": " Observational openers like this, which comment on one of the girl\u2019s photos are the most effective when it comes to response rate." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " If I had a dollar of every sexual ATV line I received on this app" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (gif of someone throwing money)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Lmoa (laughing my ass off) Honestly it was just too easy" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Be cool if you did though. I\u2019ve always wanted a sugar momma \ud83d\ude02", + "coach_comment": " This message keeps the conversation fun and playful." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m more of a sugar baby" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "All of your vacation photos lead me to believe you\u2019re not joking", + "coach_comment": " This message keeps it playful, flirty and teases/ pokes fun at the girl. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hey. I have a masters degree and a full time job. Vacations were all me. Any sugaring ventures (if there were any, not saying there are) would be purely for other naughty reasons." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m glad you don\u2019t need me to pay your rent \ud83d\ude05 But if you\u2019re thinking a naughty week in mexico I think we\u2019d have some fun ;)", + "coach_comment": " This flips the frame back on the girl by keeping it fun and flirty. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You may not have been the first to offer me a week in Mexico \ud83d\ude07" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Um noo I\u2019m offering to let you bring me", + "coach_comment": " This message shuts down any notion that he is offering to take her to Mexico and reestablishes the flirtatious vibe." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Damnit" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Not used to being on the other side of the transaction" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Was not expecting that" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What can I say (her name) I\u2019m not like other guys" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You\u2019re cute, what are you looking for on here?", + "coach_comment": " Now that he has passed her tests, he wants to draw her in and get her intentions" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Looking to meet new people and just see where things go!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Nothing serious necessarily but I wouldn\u2019t shy away from a real connection" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You? " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Ohh so like fwb (friends with benefits) \ud83d\ude05" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (Gif of a girl rolling her eyes)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Aha I\u2019m looking for someone chill and fun, nothing super serious either but going with the flow. Just a good vibe \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m into kinky girls though and lowkey you look so innocent", + "coach_comment": " This message is designed to get a response from her, forcing her to prove that she is naughty/ kinky enough to go on a date with him." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " LOL no. You\u2019re wild if you think you can judge someone\u2019s kinkiness by the way they look." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Lol prove me wrong (her name) \ud83d\ude08" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What\u2019s your snap?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " If you had experience dealing with kinky girls you\u2019d know my snap comes at a price" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m here to fill something girl and it\u2019s not your pockets or your ego. Send it over", + "coach_comment": " This message conveys confidence and self assuredness." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahaha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " It won\u2019t work then, I thrive off of emptying wallets and certain body parts" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " All while my ego and vanity are being stroked" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sorry dude" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Lmao thank god I\u2019m not desperate enough to pay \ud83d\ude02", + "coach_comment": " This message conveys that he is not like all the other guys simping in her dm\u2019s and that he is on her level" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Fair. But are you thirsty enough to satisfy my ego?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Nah but my gut tells me you don\u2019t want a bitch boy anyway", + "coach_comment": " " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Guilty" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Snap" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (Sends her snapchat)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 44, + "context": "They matched on Hinge. He messaged her first.", + "response": [ + "You better be a good little spoon", + "Your confidence is a solid 2/10", + "But I love the honesty", + "Okok I see you Shirley \ud83d\udc40", + "You\u2019re cute, what are you looking for on here?", + "Lmfao (laughing my fucking ass off)", + "Good sex and if I fall in love that\u2019s chill too", + "One can always dream", + "Haha shoot me your number if you\u2019re down to split a bottle of wine sometime" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You better be a good little spoon" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Demands this early on haha can\u2019t guarantee the \u2018good\u2019 part" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Your confidence is a solid 2/10", + "coach_comment": " This message is supposed to tease the girl. " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "But I love the honesty" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Who said that had to mean worse? Haha" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Okok I see you Shirley \ud83d\udc40" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You\u2019re cute, what are you looking for on here?", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to understand her intentions for being on the dating app." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Not sure maybe my soulmate, maybe my next story for the girls night haha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " How about you?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Lmfao (laughing my fucking ass off)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Good sex and if I fall in love that\u2019s chill too", + "coach_comment": " This is a very bold message that communicates his intentions for being on the app. It is fun and playful while also getting across his message." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Isn\u2019t that a goal in life? Haha" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "One can always dream" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Haha shoot me your number if you\u2019re down to split a bottle of wine sometime" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Life sucks if you don\u2019t have any dreams haha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah sure haha (phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 45, + "context": "They matched on Bumble so the girl must message first. This joins the conversation part way through the interaction.", + "response": [ + "Come have a drink and let\u2019s see if we vibe", + "I have plans tomo (tomorrow)", + "(his address)", + "Yeah obviously \ud83d\ude02\u201d This is a good way to respond to the \u2018are you a murderer/ serial killer?\u2019 questions. The sarcastic response communicates that he isn\u2019t a murderer and that the question is ridiculous. Another good response to this question is \u201cDon\u2019t worry, no more murder was my new years resolution" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Come have a drink and let\u2019s see if we vibe" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " How about tm (tomorrow)?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I have plans tomo (tomorrow)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Lol okay where do you live" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "(his address)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Are you a murderer lol" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I have to ask" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yeah obviously \ud83d\ude02\u201d This is a good way to respond to the \u2018are you a murderer/ serial killer?\u2019 questions. The sarcastic response communicates that he isn\u2019t a murderer and that the question is ridiculous. Another good response to this question is \u201cDon\u2019t worry, no more murder was my new years resolution", + "coach_comment": " This is a good way to respond to the \u2018are you a murderer/ serial killer?\u2019 questions. The sarcastic response communicates that he isn\u2019t a murderer and that the question is ridiculous. Another good response to this question is \u201cDon\u2019t worry, no more murder was my new years resolution" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahaha okay i\u2019ll be there in like 20" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 46, + "context": "The matched on Tinder. He messaged her first. From her profile, the student knows that she is a lawyer. ", + "response": [ + "I feel like making a lawyer your wifey is such a bad idea", + "But damn you have me tempted", + "Did you get banned or something", + "I have a thing for girls who break the rules", + "I can\u2019t imagine leaving Brazil for snowy Canada \ud83d\ude02", + "But ur (you\u2019re) cute, what are you looking for on here?", + "Yeah I feel that", + "I\u2019m looking to meet new people and have fun, just going with the flow", + "Shoot me your number and maybe we can have wine sometime" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I feel like making a lawyer your wifey is such a bad idea", + "coach_comment": " Observational openers like this are usually the most effective way to get a response from the girl." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "But damn you have me tempted" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahaha well, I\u2019m not practicing here in Canada, cause I can\u2019t, so technically I\u2019m not a lawyer anymore" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " So that\u2019s not a problem I guess" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Did you get banned or something", + "coach_comment": " " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I have a thing for girls who break the rules", + "coach_comment": " This message adds a very light flirtatious element to the interaction. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha no \ud83d\ude02 it\u2019s because laws are completely different in Brazil and here" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " And I\u2019m sorry to disappoint but I\u2019m not one of those" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I can\u2019t imagine leaving Brazil for snowy Canada \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "But ur (you\u2019re) cute, what are you looking for on here?", + "coach_comment": " This message asks for her intentions for being on the dating app. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahaha well, it wasn\u2019t easy but the economy and marketplace are better here" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m not looking for anything specific, just meeting people and seeing how it goes" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yeah I feel that" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m looking to meet new people and have fun, just going with the flow", + "coach_comment": " This message communicates what he is looking for on the dating app. This is a very tame way to communicate this message." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Shoot me your number and maybe we can have wine sometime" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sure I would like that. It\u2019s (phone number). " + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 47, + "context": "They matched on a dating app. This conversation takes place after he got her phone number.", + "response": [ + "Hey cutie", + "Aha yeah it\u2019s me", + "How\u2019s it going \ud83d\ude42", + "Wow absolutely love that for you Nat", + "Currently trying to get a tan on my balcony so I\u2019m not as pale as a ghost \ud83d\ude02", + "Are you one of those people who wears a suit on the top half and boxers on the bottom", + "Haha damn that\u2019s hot", + "(Sent photo of the view from his balcony)", + "I don\u2019t think I\u2019ll ever get sick of this view", + "Haha yeah it\u2019s such a vibe", + "Were you thinking of coming right after work or", + "a bit later", + "Do you hate hockey with a burning passion?", + "Hahaha ok", + "My team is playing for the Stanley cup tonight, so I will probably stream the game. Want to come for like 8 and we can watch it together & have a drink?" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hey cutie" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hi \ud83d\ude42 Hunter?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Aha yeah it\u2019s me" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "How\u2019s it going \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Just working \ud83d\ude43 How are you?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Wow absolutely love that for you Nat" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Currently trying to get a tan on my balcony so I\u2019m not as pale as a ghost \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That sounds nice" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m working from home today so haven\u2019t stepped foot outside yet" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Are you one of those people who wears a suit on the top half and boxers on the bottom", + "coach_comment": " This message keeps the conversation light, fun and engaging." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I pretty much just stay in my bathrobe all day" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " and go to meetings like that" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Unashamed haha" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Haha damn that\u2019s hot" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "(Sent photo of the view from his balcony)", + "coach_comment": " Sending photos to girls can be very useful in an interaction. It can build comfort, create connection, make you seem more real than words on a screen. It can also be used to communicate your personality and/ or values. This example shows the girl something he has. From that photo she can infer that he has money if he is living in an apartment like that. " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I don\u2019t think I\u2019ll ever get sick of this view" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " wow yeah your really scored with that place" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Wish I had a balcony too" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Haha yeah it\u2019s such a vibe" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Were you thinking of coming right after work or" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "a bit later" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What time works for you? I\u2019m good for any time after 5:30" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Do you hate hockey with a burning passion?", + "coach_comment": " Playful exaggeration can be a great way to communicate in a more fun/ flirty way. It is more engaging than platonic conversation. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " No I don\u2019t hate it haha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I just don\u2019t keep up with it" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hahaha ok" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "My team is playing for the Stanley cup tonight, so I will probably stream the game. Want to come for like 8 and we can watch it together & have a drink?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds good to me" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What\u2019s your address? " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " (sends his address)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 48, + "context": "They matched on Hinge. He replied to her prompt which said \u2018My most controversial opinion is\u2026 Ketchup does not belong on eggs\u2019.", + "response": [ + "Ketchup on eggs is elite", + "I\u2019m willing to die on that hill", + "It\u2019s okay, I don\u2019t kiss my friends (her name) \ud83d\ude09", + "Ahaha only if I like you", + "So bring your a-game \ud83d\udc40", + "Lmfao you\u2019re cute, What are you looking for on here?", + "Haha yeah I\u2019m in the same boat", + "Keeping things fun and going with the flow", + "Looks like we\u2019re not far too", + "You should come over for a quick vibe check \ud83d\udc81\u200d\u2642\ufe0f" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Ketchup on eggs is elite", + "coach_comment": " Observational openers like this, which comment on one of the girl\u2019s photos are the most effective when it comes to response rate." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m willing to die on that hill" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh no!!! Not you too haha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Not sure we can be friends \ud83d\ude02 \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "It\u2019s okay, I don\u2019t kiss my friends (her name) \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to introduce a flirtatious vive into the interaction early on. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " LOL so confident that you\u2019re going to get a kiss already?? \ud83d\ude43" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Ahaha only if I like you", + "coach_comment": " " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "So bring your a-game \ud83d\udc40", + "coach_comment": " These messages steal the frame and make it appear that he is the prize and the girl is chasing him." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha I was going to say the same thing " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " This will be interesting \ud83d\ude1c" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Lmfao you\u2019re cute, What are you looking for on here?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Lol straight to it eh" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Uhm honestly I\u2019m not putting pressure on anything right now and kinda just going with the flow" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " If it just so happens to turn into something more then great, and if not then at least I had fun \ud83e\udd37\ud83c\udffb\u200d\u2640\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " hbu??" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Haha yeah I\u2019m in the same boat" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Keeping things fun and going with the flow" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Cool glad we\u2019re on the same page and didn\u2019t scare you away haha" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Looks like we\u2019re not far too" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You should come over for a quick vibe check \ud83d\udc81\u200d\u2642\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha I can\u2019t tonight but I am free tomorrow afternoon" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 49, + "context": "They matched on Hinge. She began the interaction by Commenting on one of his prompts which said \u2018One thing people don\u2019t know about me is\u2026 I probably have more tattoos than you\u2019.", + "response": [ + "Haha do you even have one?", + "Shame, I was looking forward to exploring your body looking for them \ud83d\udc81\u200d\u2642\ufe0f", + "I love the confidence", + "What are you looking for on here (her name)?", + "I\u2019m going to Asia in a few weeks", + "Are you dead set on a relationship, or are you down to hang out this week?" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You probably do have more tatts than me but how bout you show me? \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Haha do you even have one?", + "coach_comment": " This teases her about being innocent." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " No but you could probably talk me into it" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Shame, I was looking forward to exploring your body looking for them \ud83d\udc81\u200d\u2642\ufe0f", + "coach_comment": " This message introduces a sexual frame without being too explicit." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Doesn\u2019t mean u can\u2019t. Maybe u\u2019ll find something u like" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I love the confidence" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What are you looking for on here (her name)?", + "coach_comment": " This message is to establish if she is looking for something serious or casual on the dating app. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m not sure tbh (to be honest). I think ideally a relationship but it depends on the person I guess. You?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m going to Asia in a few weeks" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Are you dead set on a relationship, or are you down to hang out this week?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh that\u2019s soon. I\u2019m not really interested in anything super short term and it sounds like you\u2019ll be gone for a long time and don\u2019t plan to keep in touch." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Eh, A date couldn\u2019t hurt. How\u2019s friday?" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 50, + "context": "They have had their first date. It went well. The student is trying to get a second date with the girl. You don\u2019t need to constantly be texting back and forth. Keep it simple and organize logistics. ", + "response": [ + "Come cuddle", + "Wow how dare you", + "But we could probably make that work", + "Yeahh baby" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Come cuddle" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I wish" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m busy tonight" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You free tomorrow?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Wow how dare you" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "But we could probably make that work" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh yea?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Tomorrow night then?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yeahh baby" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 51, + "context": "They match on Hinge. He messages her first. Standard pick up line.", + "response": [ + "I can\u2019t tell if you\u2019re innocent or an absolute baddie", + "Lmfoa nooo it was my favorite one \ud83d\ude05 \ud83d\udc80", + "Ok you send me your bets line then", + "You can\u2019t tell me to improve my lines then follow up with this ^", + "Lmfao no why?", + "I mean your mouth isn\u2019t the only place I\u2019m trying to put my tongue \ud83d\ude0c", + "Aha you\u2019re cute, shoot me your number if you\u2019re down to chill sometime" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I can\u2019t tell if you\u2019re innocent or an absolute baddie" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I already heard that phrase her" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I think you have to improve your lines" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Lmfoa nooo it was my favorite one \ud83d\ude05 \ud83d\udc80" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Ok you send me your bets line then" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahaha" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You can\u2019t tell me to improve my lines then follow up with this ^" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I heard that you have two tongues in your mouth is it true?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Lmfao no why?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " So you want to have? \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I don\u2019t know if you kiss with tongue but I\u2019m Brazilian I\u2019m sorry \ud83e\udd23" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Some people don\u2019t like" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I mean your mouth isn\u2019t the only place I\u2019m trying to put my tongue \ud83d\ude0c" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Wow" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " HAHAHAHA" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " that one was good" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You got me" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do you have instagram? " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Aha you\u2019re cute, shoot me your number if you\u2019re down to chill sometime" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " not social media then?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \u2764\ufe0f\u200d\ud83d\udd25" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 52, + "context": "The match on Bumble so the girl must message first. ", + "response": [ + "I can\u2019t tell if you\u2019re innocent or and absolute baddie", + "More than you could possibly imagine", + "Do you want me to send my excel spreadsheet over?", + "Hmm I don\u2019t think Bumble supports csv files", + "Might need your number instead" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Howdy" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I can\u2019t tell if you\u2019re innocent or and absolute baddie" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Lol how often have you used that on?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "More than you could possibly imagine", + "coach_comment": " This is a good way in which to respond when a girl asks how many times you use a certain line. Agreeing/ exaggerating in your response can deflect from the fact that you have used it many times. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What are the stats on its success?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Do you want me to send my excel spreadsheet over?", + "coach_comment": " This exaggeration keeps the interaction playful." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That would probably be the most efficient way" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hmm I don\u2019t think Bumble supports csv files" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Might need your number instead" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Lol smooth" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019ll give you my number since you won the bet of whether you have more tattoos than me" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 53, + "context": "They match on Tinder and the aim is to set up a threesome. ", + "response": [ + "Colgate or crest?", + "hmmm true but I\u2019d rather give you oral b", + "Aha so glad you have a sense of humor", + "You\u2019re hot, what are you looking for on here?", + "Sounds like you\u2019re ready for a hot girl summer eh \ud83d\ude09", + "Damn I love your energy", + "Okk so don\u2019t be weirded out, but me and my girlfriend are looking for someone chill and open minded to just grab drinks, no expectations and just see where things go. Would you be totally opposed?", + "Aha yeah I feel like we\u2019d have a pretty fun time, wanna shoot me your number and we can go from there?" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Colgate or crest?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Colgate? I suppose" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "hmmm true but I\u2019d rather give you oral b", + "coach_comment": " This play on words introduces a sexual component to the interaction early on." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ohhhhh lawd hahahah" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I like that one it\u2019s funny" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Aha so glad you have a sense of humor", + "coach_comment": " This message qualifies the girl which is okay to do from time to time. " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You\u2019re hot, what are you looking for on here?", + "coach_comment": " This message gets her intentions. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Nothing serious! Just someone to waste a little time with I suppose, I just got out of a long long relationship so I\u2019ve never even seen or expected to use tinder hahahaha but decided I\u2019d give it a shot \ud83e\udd37\ud83c\udffb\u200d\u2640\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Sounds like you\u2019re ready for a hot girl summer eh \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": " This message keeps it light and fun while adding a flirtatious vibe to the interaction. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Absolutely!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " As my bio states I\u2019m a certified milf, so I guess more of a hot mom summer \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Damn I love your energy" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Why thank you \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Okk so don\u2019t be weirded out, but me and my girlfriend are looking for someone chill and open minded to just grab drinks, no expectations and just see where things go. Would you be totally opposed?", + "coach_comment": " The phrase \u2018would you be totally opposed?\u2019 makes the girl reassess her view. If you ask her if she would like to do something she can say no very easily but to be totally opposed to something is a very different question and requires a more definitive stance. This is why it is effective because there are some thing women may not like to do but are not totally opposed to doing." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hmmmm it\u2019s something I could be interested in" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Aha yeah I feel like we\u2019d have a pretty fun time, wanna shoot me your number and we can go from there?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Absolutely!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number) " + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 54, + "context": "They matched on Tinder. She mentioned that she didn\u2019t like chocolate timbits in her bio so that is what he used to open her with.", + "response": [ + "What did chocolate timbits ever do to you \ud83d\ude24", + "Not gonna lie so many dirty lines came to mind when you said sour cream glazed and it took every ounce of strength for me to keep this family friendly", + "Glad you like it glazed cause I\u2019m tyranny fill you like a Boston cream", + "Honestly you look super innocent but I\u2019m kind of glad you\u2019re not", + "Lmoa love it, what are you looking for on her (her name)?", + "I feel ya! Nothing super serious honestly someone down to chill and have good sex once in a while would be pretty nice", + "Ideally you \ud83d\udc40", + "What\u2019s your number lmao" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What did chocolate timbits ever do to you \ud83d\ude24", + "coach_comment": " Observational openers like this are usually the most effective way to get a response from the girl." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " It\u2019s all about the sour cream glazed life \ud83d\ude4f" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Not gonna lie so many dirty lines came to mind when you said sour cream glazed and it took every ounce of strength for me to keep this family friendly", + "coach_comment": " This message allows the girl to open the interaction up to a more sexual and intimate thread of conversation. The student hasn\u2019t told her any of the things that came up in his mind but she can either imagine what he said or give consent to talk about a more sexual topic." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I mean missed opportunity I was kind of setting you up there sooo" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Give me your best line" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Glad you like it glazed cause I\u2019m tyranny fill you like a Boston cream" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I love that. Not gonna lie was expecting something a little spicier but I\u2019ll take it" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Honestly you look super innocent but I\u2019m kind of glad you\u2019re not", + "coach_comment": " This assumption based on her previous message continues the sexual and flirtatious vibe. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Can\u2019t give it all away with the pictures ya know" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Gotta keep some of it a mystery \ud83e\udd70" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Lmoa love it, what are you looking for on her (her name)?", + "coach_comment": " This message finds out her intentions for being on the dating app." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Just going with the flow, no expectations just vibes you know. Hbu?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I feel ya! Nothing super serious honestly someone down to chill and have good sex once in a while would be pretty nice", + "coach_comment": " When girls are vague with their answer about what they\u2019re looking for on a dating app or when they say things like \u2018going with the flow\u2019 or \u2018no expectations\u2019 it usually means they just want to hook up. That is why making his answer more sexual works in this scenario." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What are you doing this weekend?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Ideally you \ud83d\udc40", + "coach_comment": " From the context of the previous messages, we know that this girl is okay with a sexual frame. That is why this message works and she doesn\u2019t ghost. " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What\u2019s your number lmao" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " it\u2019s (phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 55, + "context": "They matched on Tinder. He messaged her first. It says in her profile that she majored in psychology so he uses that in the conversation. ", + "response": [ + "I would so make out with you", + "As long as you can help me fix my daddy issues ofc", + "Is it bad that I think some therapist role play would be hot af?", + "You\u2019re cute, what are you looking for on here?", + "Honestly same just looking for a fwb (friends with benefits) to have some casual fun this summer", + "Aha sure let\u2019s call it that \ud83d\ude05", + "You have a phone number?" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I would so make out with you" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " that\u2019s crazy i was thinking the same thing!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "As long as you can help me fix my daddy issues ofc", + "coach_comment": " This message sets up a playful roleplay in the conversation which can be very useful when messaging as it can make conversation more fun, playful and engaging. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Deal! After all i went into psych to fix my mommy issues without having to pay for therapy \ud83d\ude0c" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Is it bad that I think some therapist role play would be hot af?", + "coach_comment": " This message opens up a sexual frame. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Not at all, you\u2019re just giving me practice for my future clients\u2026in a way!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You\u2019re cute, what are you looking for on here?", + "coach_comment": " This message finds out her intentions for being on the dating app." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Thank you i was thinking the same about you \ud83d\ude43" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " nothing too serious tbh, wbu?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Honestly same just looking for a fwb (friends with benefits) to have some casual fun this summer", + "coach_comment": " In this message, he matches her energy in his reply to the same question. He can infer from her answer that she is looking for a hook up and he says he wants something similar in a fwb type situation. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " same same" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Having yourself a hot girl summer? \ud83d\ude43" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Aha sure let\u2019s call it that \ud83d\ude05" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You have a phone number?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah! (phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 56, + "context": "Context:", + "response": [ + "I would so make out with you", + "Would you be into that?", + "Oh I\u2019m intrigued", + "Lmao kind of a dream to have a lil ranch but also not looking to settle down rn so I\u2019m torn", + "Not even gonna buy me a drink first?" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I would so make out with you" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " So does this make me the prey to your hunter?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Would you be into that?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " as long as we can take this hunting trip down to texas" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Oh I\u2019m intrigued" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That\u2019s where I want to settle down \ud83d\ude2d" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " so you\u2019re either in or i have to find me a new hunter" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Lmao kind of a dream to have a lil ranch but also not looking to settle down rn so I\u2019m torn" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " yess. Couple acres" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " So I\u2019ll see you at the airport monday morning" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Not even gonna buy me a drink first?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " At the airport" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 57, + "context": "They matched on Tinder. She messages him first in response to part of his bio which says \u2018I bet I have mere tattoos that you\u2019.", + "response": [ + "Oh most definitely more than you", + "I have big pieces it feels weird to count them lol", + "Wanna bet", + "Hmm what do I get when I beat you", + "Winner gets head if you\u2019re so confident" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " pffft how many tats do u have" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m seeing none \ud83e\udd14" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Oh most definitely more than you" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " gimme a number" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I have big pieces it feels weird to count them lol" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " i win lmao" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Wanna bet" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " very much so" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hmm what do I get when I beat you" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " you won\u2019t so i guess you can pick" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Winner gets head if you\u2019re so confident" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (sends a gif of a man saying \u2018All right. That\u2019s it. You\u2019re done\u2019)" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Shoot me your number already" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " my phone number or my tattoo number?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " sorry i\u2019m dumb \ud83e\udd23 \ud83e\udd23" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019d rather find out about your tats in person tbh" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 58, + "context": "They matched on Tinder. He messaged her first. She said she had \u2018solid 8.5 cooking skills\u2019.", + "response": [ + "Solid 8.5 indeed \ud83d\udc40", + "You tryna call me daddy so we can celebrate it together?", + "Aha love that", + "You\u2019re cute, what are you looking for on here?", + "Yeah I feel that", + "Looking to meet someone chill and have some fun this summer, possibly a fwb type scenario if it feels right", + "Aha yesss you\u2019re speaking my language just please be a good cuddler \ud83d\ude09", + "What\u2019s your number?" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Solid 8.5 indeed \ud83d\udc40" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha ;) what\u2019s up? Any Father\u2019s Day weekend plans?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You tryna call me daddy so we can celebrate it together?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ahaha exactly" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Aha love that" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You\u2019re cute, what are you looking for on here?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Just looking for someone I vibe with no expectations! Hby?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yeah I feel that" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Looking to meet someone chill and have some fun this summer, possibly a fwb type scenario if it feels right" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I like that, I want someone that will go to a jays game with me but also cuddle" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Aha yesss you\u2019re speaking my language just please be a good cuddler \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What\u2019s your number?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number) \ud83d\ude42" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 59, + "context": "They matched on Tinder. She messages him first in response to part of his bio which says \u2018I bet I have mere tattoos that you\u2019.", + "response": [ + "Honestly so am I but somehow never stopped me \ud83d\ude02", + "Shame that our tattoo tour is gonna be one sided though \ud83d\ude2b", + "Wow 10/10 texter over here \ud83d\ude02", + "But at least you\u2019re cute, what are you looking for on here?", + "Aha yeah I feel that, nothing super serious just looking to meet new people and have fun this summer \ud83d\ude42", + "Hmm that depends", + "Are you a red or white wine girl?", + "Good answer \ud83d\ude0c", + "Why don\u2019t you shoot me your number and maybe we can split a bottle of red sometime" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " you\u2019d be right about the tats, I have a needle phobia \ud83e\udd74" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Honestly so am I but somehow never stopped me \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That\u2019s impressive tbh" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Shame that our tattoo tour is gonna be one sided though \ud83d\ude2b" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m not complaining, I love learning about other peoples tattoos and the stories behind them" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Too bad you\u2019re gonna have to be a bit more creative to explore my body" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Wow 10/10 texter over here \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "But at least you\u2019re cute, what are you looking for on here?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " didn't really know how to respond \ud83d\ude05" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m not sure what I\u2019m looking for, kinda just meeting new people, hbu?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Aha yeah I feel that, nothing super serious just looking to meet new people and have fun this summer \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That\u2019s cute" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do I make the list of people you\u2019re looking to meet?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hmm that depends" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Are you a red or white wine girl?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Definitely red" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " White wine gives me a headache \ud83d\ude1e" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Good answer \ud83d\ude0c" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Why don\u2019t you shoot me your number and maybe we can split a bottle of red sometime" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 60, + "context": "They matched on Tinder. She messages him first in response to part of his bio which says \u2018I bet I have mere tattoos that you\u2019.", + "response": [ + "Haha you look like the innocent type who would never get one", + "That was unexpected", + "Any other secret sides I should know about you? \ud83d\udc40", + "Haha you\u2019re cute", + "WHat are you looking for on here Nat?", + "Yeah I feel that, keeping things casual and fun for now and going with the flow", + "Where are you though? I just moved downtown", + "Ou nice I\u2019m just at (location)", + "We\u2019re super close", + "Haha you wanna come do a quick vibe check in?", + "Ok cool shoot me your number and we can get together \ud83d\ude42" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Definitely have more tattoos than me " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Haha you look like the innocent type who would never get one" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I have 8 \ud83d\ude01" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "That was unexpected" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Any other secret sides I should know about you? \ud83d\udc40" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I like to be unexpected" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " & that\u2019s something you\u2019ll just have to find out \ud83e\udee3" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Haha you\u2019re cute", + "coach_comment": " " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "WHat are you looking for on here Nat?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Why thank you" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Pretty just open honestly, not looking to force or rush things what about yourself?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yeah I feel that, keeping things casual and fun for now and going with the flow" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That\u2019s the best way to go about it in my opinion \ud83e\udd37\ud83c\udffb\u200d\u2640\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Where are you though? I just moved downtown" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I live in the (location) area where abouts did you move?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Ou nice I\u2019m just at (location)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We\u2019re super close" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ohh soo close I shop at loblaws there lol" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Haha you wanna come do a quick vibe check in?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m working tonight but I\u2019m off tomorrow Friday & sat" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Ok cool shoot me your number and we can get together \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number) sounds good to me \ud83d\ude42" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 61, + "context": "They met on Tinder. The conversation went well, a connection was made and a sexual frame was established. The interaction begins after he gets her number.", + "response": [ + "Let\u2019s meet for a drink soon. I\u2019m probably going to the clubs a bit later", + "I\u2019ve heard having rough passionate sex beforehand increases your luck \ud83e\udd14 what do you reckon?", + "With every orgasm your luck goes us by 2%", + "Challenge accepted. Where you staying at the moment?", + "Pretty close. Almost in chokable range", + "Choking is just the start. There\u2019s so many ways I can ruin you\u2026", + "Like standing you up naked in my room, hands tied behind your back. As I tell you not to move a fucking inch. I run my finger down your body sensing your fear. I kiss your neck and pull your hair back as you moan. I run my fingers up your thighs as your pussy gets wetter and wetter. You try to break out of the tie so I bend you over and spank you leaving you with a nice big red handprint on your ass. I push you to your knees and you take my big hard cock deep in your throat like a good little girl. I pull you up, throw you on the bed and then\u2026 I should probably stop right now", + "Say please" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Let\u2019s meet for a drink soon. I\u2019m probably going to the clubs a bit later" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds good, i\u2019ve got some blackjack to fuck up" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019ve heard having rough passionate sex beforehand increases your luck \ud83e\udd14 what do you reckon?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " mmm i totally agree \ud83d\ude0c" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "With every orgasm your luck goes us by 2%" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " see how high we can get that percentage \ud83d\udc40" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Challenge accepted. Where you staying at the moment?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (location)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Pretty close. Almost in chokable range" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " gonna get me hot and bothered already \ud83d\ude29" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Choking is just the start. There\u2019s so many ways I can ruin you\u2026" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " mmm yes please" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Like standing you up naked in my room, hands tied behind your back. As I tell you not to move a fucking inch. I run my finger down your body sensing your fear. I kiss your neck and pull your hair back as you moan. I run my fingers up your thighs as your pussy gets wetter and wetter. You try to break out of the tie so I bend you over and spank you leaving you with a nice big red handprint on your ass. I push you to your knees and you take my big hard cock deep in your throat like a good little girl. I pull you up, throw you on the bed and then\u2026 I should probably stop right now" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " god i want you. \ud83d\ude29 holy fuck" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Say please" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " please \ud83d\ude29" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 62, + "context": "They matched on Tinder. He got her number and they moved the interaction to iMessage.", + "response": [ + "Such a white girl \ud83d\ude1d", + "Anything non starbucks related or with an alcoholic percentage above 0.01 \ud83d\ude02" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " nah just a caramel latte from starbucks with my name on it would make me happy" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Such a white girl \ud83d\ude1d" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What\u2019s not a white girl drink? \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Anything non starbucks related or with an alcoholic percentage above 0.01 \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You serious, don\u2019t you dare saying that \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 63, + "context": "Context:They matched on Tinder. He opened her with a standard opener that starts a fun roleplay.", + "response": [ + "You look a lot like my future ex wife", + "I keep the dog and we\u2019re getting a prenup", + "No. You tried to drown it last week not allowing that", + "Maybe. I should never have slept with her, she\u2019s pregnant now", + "Okay. You\u2019re going to rehab and we\u2019re seeing Dr Phil next week we might be able to make this work", + "Such a brat, we\u2019re going to have to do something about that", + "Here. Drink this bleach (sends image of a man pouring bleach into a glass)", + "Good. Just got back from the gym. Looking nice and fit for our romantic date", + "It involves you, me, a couple of drink, laughs, teases, neck kisses, vibe and build chemistry", + "Do you like wine?", + "I\u2019ll show you the good stuff. We should split a bottle together sometime" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You look a lot like my future ex wife" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ah i was trying to be subtle but yes that\u2019s me" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I keep the dog and we\u2019re getting a prenup" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m keeping the cat" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "No. You tried to drown it last week not allowing that" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I would never!!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Must have been my crazy twin" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Maybe. I should never have slept with her, she\u2019s pregnant now" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You definitely shouldn\u2019t have because now we gotta get a divorce and I promise you I\u2019ll make it so difficult for you" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That\u2019s true" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I have something to tell you though. There is no twin, it\u2019s just me when I\u2019m moody" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Okay. You\u2019re going to rehab and we\u2019re seeing Dr Phil next week we might be able to make this work" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Nahhh I\u2019m the next Amy Winehouse, no rehab for me" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Such a brat, we\u2019re going to have to do something about that" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I have no idea what you\u2019re talking about " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Here. Drink this bleach (sends image of a man pouring bleach into a glass)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Thankyou, can I get that on the rocks please?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Sure. Ok now you\u2019re dead, this has went on for long enough lol How\u2019s thy day?\u201d" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahaha my day isn\u2019t too bad Shakespeare, I\u2019m just at work. How\u2019s thy day?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Good. Just got back from the gym. Looking nice and fit for our romantic date" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Our romantic date hmmm, what\u2019s the plan?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "It involves you, me, a couple of drink, laughs, teases, neck kisses, vibe and build chemistry" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That sounds amazing" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Do you like wine?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I don\u2019t drink a lot of it, some are okay" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019ll show you the good stuff. We should split a bottle together sometime" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I wouldn\u2019t say no to that." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What are you up to tonight?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 64, + "context": "This is an example of how to handle a girl who gives one word responses.", + "response": [ + "Nooo\u2026no\u2026 That\u2019s a conversation ender lol gonna need a little more than that" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Okay" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Nooo\u2026no\u2026 That\u2019s a conversation ender lol gonna need a little more than that" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahaha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Why r u on tinder tho?" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 65, + "context": "Context:This interaction proves that, executed properly and with the right kind of girl, long paragraph texts can work well if you are matching her energy.", + "response": [ + "Fluent but prefer english over thi sveedesh. What a unique intro. Recently I was happy on a walk when I realised I\u2019m doing what I wanna be doing with my life right now. Hbu?", + "I like that. I take it you prefer deep conversations then? Or maybe just fed up of boring tinder conversations", + "At the moment, quit my job in FinTech and starting a photography business. That\u2019s awesome, and that made you happy?", + "Dating portrait photography. I know, it\u2019s a niche", + "I love deep convos. And I like that you\u2019re looking for that \ud83d\ude42 I do find they can get exhausting via text though lol, can go much deeper faster on voice notes or over a coffee", + "Is quality time your primary love language then?", + "Haha. Yeah I had a dslr camera and became passionate about putting together my profile and the profile of my friends. And I love psychology. So what makes a nice technical photo isn\u2019t really what makes a person attractive in a photo - that\u2019s much more about vibe and nonverbal communication", + "Sounds fun. You on WhatsApp?" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hey, I really like your bio! Let\u2019s skip the how-are-you-convo? Tell me about something that\u2019s made you happy recently instead \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Also not sure if you prefer English or Swedish, let me know" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Fluent but prefer english over thi sveedesh. What a unique intro. Recently I was happy on a walk when I realised I\u2019m doing what I wanna be doing with my life right now. Hbu?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha yes, I find it more interesting to ask real questions from the start" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That\u2019s cool. So what is it that you\u2019re doing? I was just hanging out with a friend who I haven\u2019t seen for several months, and it\u2019s always so great to have interesting conversations and get her perspective on things" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I like that. I take it you prefer deep conversations then? Or maybe just fed up of boring tinder conversations" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "At the moment, quit my job in FinTech and starting a photography business. That\u2019s awesome, and that made you happy?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah, a bit of bith I guess haha. I do enjoy deep conversations, and I find it quite difficult to fine people on tinder who are looking for the same thing. So that\u2019s why I have a proper bio and why I like to ask real questions straight away - anyone can tell me how their weekend was, but not everyone is up for real conversations \ud83e\udd37\ud83c\udffb\u200d\u2640\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Wow that\u2019s amazing, I\u2019m happy for you! What kind of photography do you do?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes it did! My friends are very important to me so I enjoy having quality time with them \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Dating portrait photography. I know, it\u2019s a niche" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I love deep convos. And I like that you\u2019re looking for that \ud83d\ude42 I do find they can get exhausting via text though lol, can go much deeper faster on voice notes or over a coffee" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Is quality time your primary love language then?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha wait what? So you take pictures for peoples dating profiles? That is indeed a niche! How did you realize that was your thing?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes that\u2019s true.. I quite like voice notes, it feels closer than just texting. I\u2019d be up to switch platform if you like, since voice notes aren\u2019t possible on tinder" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hm, I always have a hard time to determine if it\u2019s quality time or acts of service.. But physical touch is also a top contender. Hbu?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Haha. Yeah I had a dslr camera and became passionate about putting together my profile and the profile of my friends. And I love psychology. So what makes a nice technical photo isn\u2019t really what makes a person attractive in a photo - that\u2019s much more about vibe and nonverbal communication" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Sounds fun. You on WhatsApp?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Quality time and physical touch. Although once somebody game me a really amazing gift and I suddenly understood the language of gift giving. Even though it isn\u2019t at the top of my list\u2019" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That\u2019s cool, and so true. I want to feel something by looking at someones pictures, it\u2019s not enough to just see what they look like in flattering light" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah gifts can be amazing. I think it\u2019s the love language that had the worst reputation though, cause people assume it\u2019s about money and material things. What was the gift you got?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes, (phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 66, + "context": "They match on Tinder. Hey messages her first in response to a photo in her profile that is her wearing headphones, in front of a microphone. It also says in her bio that she enjoys Mario Super Smash Bros, which he mentions as well.", + "response": [ + "Is this one of those asmr videos?", + "You can be my secret girlfriend then. To avoid public cringe. And an announcement for the date of our smash brawl", + "I\u2019ll admit you would look cute wrapped around my arm. We can do a 3 month probationary period", + "You happened to be talking to my old office\u2019s reigning smash champ", + "I loved smash since elementary school", + "Sounds good. We can walk around the city arm in arm and see how many people check us out. Do you like wine?", + "Perfect. We should split a bottle sometime and play some tipsy smash", + "Awesome. You use WhatsApp? Shoot me your number and we\u2019ll get out of here \ud83d\ude42" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Is this one of those asmr videos?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " It could be one, but they kinda cringe. Maybe I am too. What would you like it to be?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You can be my secret girlfriend then. To avoid public cringe. And an announcement for the date of our smash brawl" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hah! Secret?! I can be shown off dw \ud83d\ude0c" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Super Smash contest sounds good if you\u2019re keen on losing " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019ll admit you would look cute wrapped around my arm. We can do a 3 month probationary period" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You happened to be talking to my old office\u2019s reigning smash champ" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Woww, ok then you\u2019ll likely win from me anyway" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I would look cute on your arm, so we should do a demonstration testing" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I loved smash since elementary school" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Sounds good. We can walk around the city arm in arm and see how many people check us out. Do you like wine?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ohhh perfect, tough competition then" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Plenty of people would check us out am sure, I love wine" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Perfect. We should split a bottle sometime and play some tipsy smash" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ufff that sounds like slow reaction time. But am definitely game for that." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Awesome. You use WhatsApp? Shoot me your number and we\u2019ll get out of here \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I do! Not my most used platform but I have it! (phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 67, + "context": "They matched on Feeld. He opens her with a cold read that is deliberately vague but feels like it is all about her but could apply to anyone.", + "response": [ + "You\u2019re adventurous, like to express yourself. Bit of a hippie. Long legs. Sometimes parties like the world\u2019s about to end. Anything else important I missed?", + "Only english sorry \ud83d\ude09", + "What type of celebrity butt. Firm and squeezable?", + "Life is short. Should be enjoyed!", + "Hot. Very heart-shaped. The only thing missing is being completely covered by my red handprints", + "You\u2019re already asking in such a cute way. I like it. Just add the word please ;)", + "You\u2019re welcome. I get the feeling that you like being submissive", + "Rawr. You had me at submissive, exhibitionist", + "Hm had a bit of a sadist fantasy when i did the test, not sure it\u2019s completely right. Not against it but maybe not 93% lol", + "What\u2019s the hottest thing you\u2019ve done?", + "Choose one maybe. Doesn't have to be most", + "One fun I had was a lesbian wife. She was top in her marriage and wanted to be bottom to a guy. So we started to talk. Once whenever she was at work I called her and started talking dirty. I asked her to go to the bathroom and take off her panties. Then she walked through the office past everyone else and down to the garage where I was waiting. We went into her car and fucked each other\u2019s brains out. She squirted down her car 3 times. Super hot", + "Good choice. Super hot. You must have gotten so turned on by not knowing who was inside you. And getting rhythmic thrusts from your girlfriend as she was taken \ud83d\ude09", + "I think so too. We should get a quick coffee and see how the chemistry is", + "Feeling spontaneous?", + "A bit late for coffee but I could take a tea. I\u2019m in (his location), where are you?", + "Cozy as fuck. Looks lonely you maybe need some company", + "(His location) is better then. Take the cat, leave the roomie \ud83d\ude09", + "I\u2019m serious. No entry without cat", + "Cat suit works too \ud83d\ude0b", + "Your noting is noted. I\u2019ll buy some wine and keep your place on the sofa warm", + "Btw no real cat preferably. Love cats but it\u2019s not a cat-proofed apartment", + "Sounds good", + "Bring wine if you can? Systemet is closed", + " \ud83d\udc4d" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You\u2019re adventurous, like to express yourself. Bit of a hippie. Long legs. Sometimes parties like the world\u2019s about to end. Anything else important I missed?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahaha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Spot on" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Although I\u2019m more famous for my ass than my legs \ud83d\ude43" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Even a great enjoyer of life. Do you speak swedish?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Only english sorry \ud83d\ude09", + "coach_comment": " (Answered in Swedish)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What type of celebrity butt. Firm and squeezable?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Life is short. Should be enjoyed!", + "coach_comment": " " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ass of 2020" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (Photo of her ass)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " We did a photo competition in our friendship group and voted for the winner on New Years. Super fun" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " It\u2019s bubbly and spankable \ud83d\ude07" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hot. Very heart-shaped. The only thing missing is being completely covered by my red handprints" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes please \ud83d\ude4f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Can I see a little more of you on picture \ud83d\ude07" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You\u2019re already asking in such a cute way. I like it. Just add the word please ;)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Please \ud83d\ude4f" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " (photo of himself looking good)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Thanks \ud83d\ude3b" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You\u2019re welcome. I get the feeling that you like being submissive" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Well felt \ud83d\udc4f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I did a test a while ago but I think it\u2019s still accurate" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Rawr. You had me at submissive, exhibitionist" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hm had a bit of a sadist fantasy when i did the test, not sure it\u2019s completely right. Not against it but maybe not 93% lol" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha ok!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What\u2019s the hottest thing you\u2019ve done?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh what a hard question! I\u2019d have to think\u2026 hard to choose \ud83d\ude05" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Choose one maybe. Doesn't have to be most" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "One fun I had was a lesbian wife. She was top in her marriage and wanted to be bottom to a guy. So we started to talk. Once whenever she was at work I called her and started talking dirty. I asked her to go to the bathroom and take off her panties. Then she walked through the office past everyone else and down to the garage where I was waiting. We went into her car and fucked each other\u2019s brains out. She squirted down her car 3 times. Super hot" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh wow!! \ud83d\udd25" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " As I said, hard to choose but one good memory was once when I had a 5-way with a couple of friends. It started with me and my friend being tied together against a cross. With blindfolds" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I think we could have fun" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Good choice. Super hot. You must have gotten so turned on by not knowing who was inside you. And getting rhythmic thrusts from your girlfriend as she was taken \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I think so too. We should get a quick coffee and see how the chemistry is" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes! \ud83d\ude00" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " When are you free?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Feeling spontaneous?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes \ud83d\ude3b" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Tell me " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What\u2019s the plan?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Lol" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "A bit late for coffee but I could take a tea. I\u2019m in (his location), where are you?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m home in (her location). Just poured myself a cup of tea \ud83d\ude0a" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (Photo of her tea)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Cozy as fuck. Looks lonely you maybe need some company" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha yes" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Although I have a cat and a roomie home \ud83d\ude3b" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "(His location) is better then. Take the cat, leave the roomie \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha yes!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m serious. No entry without cat" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You like cats?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Cat suit works too \ud83d\ude0b" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Noted!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Your noting is noted. I\u2019ll buy some wine and keep your place on the sofa warm" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Perfect!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m getting ready here.. Will shout when I\u2019m on my way " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Btw no real cat preferably. Love cats but it\u2019s not a cat-proofed apartment" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Sounds good" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Bring wine if you can? Systemet is closed" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " On my way! With wine" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": " \ud83d\udc4d" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 68, + "context": "They matched on Hinge. The girl liked his photo and opened him once he liked her back.", + "response": [ + "It looks like we have a couple things in common already but I think I have to watch out for you\u2026 you look like trouble", + "Haha your vibe is just giving I\u2019m nice but if u try and eat my sushi on the first date, I\u2019ll fuck u up haha\u201d Another good version of this message is \u201cHaha your vibe is just giving I\u2019m nice as long as you keep your hands off my sushi haha" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83d\udc4b" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "It looks like we have a couple things in common already but I think I have to watch out for you\u2026 you look like trouble" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha why trouble?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Haha your vibe is just giving I\u2019m nice but if u try and eat my sushi on the first date, I\u2019ll fuck u up haha\u201d Another good version of this message is \u201cHaha your vibe is just giving I\u2019m nice as long as you keep your hands off my sushi haha", + "coach_comment": " Another good version of this message is \u201cHaha your vibe is just giving I\u2019m nice as long as you keep your hands off my sushi haha" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 69, + "context": "They matched on a dating app. The student inferred from her profile that she is shy but cute.", + "response": [ + "yea you\u2019re right, I\u2019m from (location). So tell me more about you, you don\u2019t seem like you\u2019re boring \ud83e\udd1e" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I like your eyes" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Aww thank you \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Ur welcome. Where are you from, Venezuela?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Actually born and raised in south fl! My mom is mexican and my dad is jamaican chinese" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Damn that\u2019s a badass mix. I was gonna guess Asian cuz your eyes" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Guess where I\u2019m from haha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oof lowkey a tough one " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I don\u2019t know but by the name " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " It\u2019s an arabic name " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "yea you\u2019re right, I\u2019m from (location). So tell me more about you, you don\u2019t seem like you\u2019re boring \ud83e\udd1e" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 70, + "context": "The student has seen this girl on Hinge and wants to send a message with his like, which is something that is highly recommended. In her photos she has dark hair and is wearing cowboy boots and cowboys hats. ", + "response": [ + "Based off your pics, u def have blonde hair and love country but funnier so the lie has to be that you\u2019re funnier than me \ud83d\ude09\u201d This message works as a way to keep the conversation lighthearted and teasing. Some other options for this message are \u201cbased off your pics, u def have blonde hair and love country so I\u2019ll just find out if you\u2019re funnier than me on our first date \ud83d\ude09\u201d or \u201cBased off your pics, u def have blonde hair and love country but funnier than me? Cap" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Two truths, one lie\u2026I love country music, I\u2019m funnier than you, I have blonde hair" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Based off your pics, u def have blonde hair and love country but funnier so the lie has to be that you\u2019re funnier than me \ud83d\ude09\u201d This message works as a way to keep the conversation lighthearted and teasing. Some other options for this message are \u201cbased off your pics, u def have blonde hair and love country so I\u2019ll just find out if you\u2019re funnier than me on our first date \ud83d\ude09\u201d or \u201cBased off your pics, u def have blonde hair and love country but funnier than me? Cap", + "coach_comment": " This message works as a way to keep the conversation lighthearted and teasing. Some other options for this message are \u201cbased off your pics, u def have blonde hair and love country so I\u2019ll just find out if you\u2019re funnier than me on our first date \ud83d\ude09" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 71, + "context": "They matched on Hinge and she gave him her instagram. She responded to his prompt which said \u2018I get myself out of a funk by making art\u201d.", + "response": [ + "So she\u2019s cute, bilingual and Syrian\u2026what\u2019s the catch?", + "Hey it\u2019s Amir from hinge", + "What trouble did you get into today?", + "Caused all kinds of trouble today, stole the only copy of the Muppets from Space 2\u201d This message was edited from what the coach told him to send which was: \u201cCaused all kinds of trouble today, robbed 3 banks and stole candy from a baby", + "I can read you like a book\u201d or \u201cYou seem like the type" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What kind of art do you make? \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I make the art of a good relationship" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " on a serious note I work across a lot of mediums but mainly performance making, film/animation, video art/installation work, and graphic design." + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hbu? Do you work on any other mediums too or just film? " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Aww same exact mediums basically! I\u2019m also big into art and installations as well as music!!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " we r twins" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Look at that, we are twins" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " We gotta show each other our art on our first date" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Arabic and Spanish, which countries are you from?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " My parents are Syrian" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I studied abroad in Spain for 6 months so I speak Spanish too" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "So she\u2019s cute, bilingual and Syrian\u2026what\u2019s the catch?", + "coach_comment": " This message is a good way to keep the conversation fun and flirty. The idea is to list some things you like about her and then ask what the catch is, implying there must be something wrong. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Heyy haha I delete this app a lot" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I was in Madrid! And yes\u2026 very cute, Syrian and bilingual. I like to think there\u2019s no huge catch I\u2019m just a vibe" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hmu on insta you seem super sweet!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (her instagram)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hey it\u2019s Amir from hinge" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What trouble did you get into today?", + "coach_comment": " This is just a more fun way to ask how her day was." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hi Amir from hinge!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I did not get into any trouble today I was very polite and well behaves \ud83e\udee1" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Did you get into trouble? Cause a catastrophe?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Oof I don\u2019t believe you for some reason" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Caused all kinds of trouble today, stole the only copy of the Muppets from Space 2\u201d This message was edited from what the coach told him to send which was: \u201cCaused all kinds of trouble today, robbed 3 banks and stole candy from a baby", + "coach_comment": " This message was edited from what the coach told him to send which was: \u201cCaused all kinds of trouble today, robbed 3 banks and stole candy from a baby" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " The only copy?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " how did u know I love muppets from space " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I can read you like a book\u201d or \u201cYou seem like the type", + "coach_comment": " or \u201cYou seem like the type" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " They created the criteria collection exclusively for it" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " U didn\u2019t actually steal it?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That\u2019s a lieeeeeee" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " nuh uh" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " lol cause a sequel doesn\u2019t actually exist" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019d steal it for you if it did tho \ud83d\ude14" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " But I meant I didn\u2019t know you loved muppets from space" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 72, + "context": "They matched on Tinder. He messaged her first. In his first message he references one of her photos in which she is wearing a choker.", + "response": [ + "Your face is telling me you\u2019re innocent but that choker is telling me you\u2019re big trouble", + "Is that so \ud83d\ude0f well you certainly have a few of my weaknesses", + "Mhm, great sense of style, cute & curvy with a bit of a wild side", + "Absolutely, what area are you in?", + "(location) not too far for our romance", + ";) so what are you looking for on here, cutie", + "I hear ya. Just looking for a cool unique girl I vibe & have chemistry with & see where things go, great sex & cuddles are a bonus. Not trying to jump into a relationship in a hurry, but open to it for the right girl. I\u2019ve found that things develop naturally that way", + "Glad we\u2019re on the same page ;) do you like wine", + "We should split a bottle sometime soon", + "Ever been to The Lounge", + "Been meaning to try it. What evenings are you free coming up", + "2 yrs now I think. Let\u2019s shoot for the lounge this wendesday, say 7 pm. Yea? ;)", + "Perfect, shoot me your number" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Your face is telling me you\u2019re innocent but that choker is telling me you\u2019re big trouble" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " lol the choker is just for fashion that\u2019s all" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Is that so \ud83d\ude0f well you certainly have a few of my weaknesses" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha oh yea?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Mhm, great sense of style, cute & curvy with a bit of a wild side" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Lol sounds accurate \ud83d\ude1d" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Absolutely, what area are you in?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I live in (location), hbu?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "(location) not too far for our romance" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha yes \u263a\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": ";) so what are you looking for on here, cutie" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Well I date with the intent to have a relationship, I\u2019m not into the whole fwb or hook up culture thing" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Guess I learned that tinder isn't so great for that \ud83d\ude02 but yea just looking for someone genuine and real" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What about you?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I hear ya. Just looking for a cool unique girl I vibe & have chemistry with & see where things go, great sex & cuddles are a bonus. Not trying to jump into a relationship in a hurry, but open to it for the right girl. I\u2019ve found that things develop naturally that way" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I get that" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yea I think having a solid friendship is crucial for any relationship" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Glad we\u2019re on the same page ;) do you like wine" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I do" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We should split a bottle sometime soon" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Over dinner or what lol" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Ever been to The Lounge" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019ve not! But that looks really cool I just looked it up" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Been meaning to try it. What evenings are you free coming up" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Usually mondays or possibly wednesday/thursday" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes it looks pretty cool, is it new?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "2 yrs now I think. Let\u2019s shoot for the lounge this wendesday, say 7 pm. Yea? ;)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Okay" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds good \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Perfect, shoot me your number" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (Phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 73, + "context": " They matched on Tinder. He messaged first with a generic opener that could apply to anyone.", + "response": [ + "Serious question, why do you seem innocent but also trouble at the same time", + "Oh, I\u2019m an angel. Something tells me you might not be so innocent though \ud83d\ude0f", + "Is that so? I have just the plan to solve our mystery", + "Just what I like to hear. Before we get into the nitty gritty, I need to know a few things about you", + "Alright. Ever married? Kids? Crazy exes? Felonies? Drink of choice?", + "Mm, very interesting. Can\u2019t go wrong with a dirty martini. SOunds like you\u2019re qualified for our case \ud83d\ude09", + "For me: No, no, no, my homemade margaritas are so good it should be a crime, and I like to keep it simple with a rum & coke when I\u2019m out", + "Yeah, I\u2019m very easy to get along with. We\u2019ll get you on deck for one of those margaritas here soon then!", + "Definitely. What area are you in? I\u2019m in (location)", + "Gotta love the geographic compatibility. Which days are you free next to grab a drink?", + "This weekend works for me, I have a pretty busy week actually. I\u2019m free on friday or saturday", + "Sounds fun to me. Let\u2019s say like 3pm?" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Serious question, why do you seem innocent but also trouble at the same time" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahaha let\u2019s say because I\u2019m the whole package so you get a little bit of everything! But don\u2019t worry I lean innocent \ud83d\udd4a\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Which would you say you lean?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Oh, I\u2019m an angel. Something tells me you might not be so innocent though \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Mmm suspicion on both sides then \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Is that so? I have just the plan to solve our mystery" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Alright, alright - Let\u2019s hear it! Always down for a case \ud83d\udd0d" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Just what I like to hear. Before we get into the nitty gritty, I need to know a few things about you" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ready for the qs" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Alright. Ever married? Kids? Crazy exes? Felonies? Drink of choice?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh shoot - speed round array // I\u2019ll take a reverse reverse on these questions so I can hear your take too. Buuuut- no, no, no, dirty martini at the moment or like pisco sour if I get to really choose" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Mm, very interesting. Can\u2019t go wrong with a dirty martini. SOunds like you\u2019re qualified for our case \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "For me: No, no, no, my homemade margaritas are so good it should be a crime, and I like to keep it simple with a rum & coke when I\u2019m out" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ok my check is - are you kind! && put me on deck for one of these margaritas!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yeah, I\u2019m very easy to get along with. We\u2019ll get you on deck for one of those margaritas here soon then!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Good-hearted we hope too! Let\u2019s put something in the books for in the meantime too? Or is there more detective case work to be done?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Definitely. What area are you in? I\u2019m in (location)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (Location)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Gotta love the geographic compatibility. Which days are you free next to grab a drink?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes yes we love that, I could maybe swing an early night during the week or I might have to delay us until the weekend" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "This weekend works for me, I have a pretty busy week actually. I\u2019m free on friday or saturday" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I could do saturday during the day/early night drink?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Sounds fun to me. Let\u2019s say like 3pm?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Should be perfect! My number is (phone number) if you want to coordinate that way" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 74, + "context": "They matched on OkCupid. She had said that she was looking for casual hookups on her profile and she gave me the energy so I gave her the energy back.", + "response": [ + "Good. I have a few ideas for us that you\u2019ll like even more", + "I\u2019ll be sure to give you a good spanking on our date. I just hope you can keep up, I have a very high sex drive.", + "Good. You\u2019ll be the happiest girl in Brooklyn very soon", + "We\u2019ll take our time. It\u2019s important to me that you\u2019re comfortable. The I\u2019ll gladly ruin you", + "Hope you\u2019re not causing too much trouble \ud83d\ude0f", + "Mmm same here. Why don\u2019t you come over and we can have some fun", + "Oh I have a few basic ideas for just that \ud83d\ude0f", + "Bedstuy", + "Yeah I don\u2019t mind", + "Yeah i do", + "Nah you can head over once you\u2019re ready, I just showered", + "Bet. Text me when you\u2019re close, I\u2019ll come get you" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey trouble" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83d\ude08" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " The innocent fuck me eyes never lie \ud83d\ude08 you seem like my type btw" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oo I never heard that. I like it" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Good. I have a few ideas for us that you\u2019ll like even more" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Full disclosure, I unintentionally lost some weight in the past couple of months\u2026 my ass still soft and waiting to get grabbed and smacked, just not as phat as usual" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " But maybe you can help with that" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Isn\u2019t that what they say about back shots?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019ll be sure to give you a good spanking on our date. I just hope you can keep up, I have a very high sex drive." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " As long as you switch it up throughout, I\u2019m Gucci" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Good. You\u2019ll be the happiest girl in Brooklyn very soon" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I can be a lil shy at first, my body needs time to get comfortable with another\u2019s" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " But once I\u2019m comfortable we can have fun" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We\u2019ll take our time. It\u2019s important to me that you\u2019re comfortable. The I\u2019ll gladly ruin you" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number)" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey, it\u2019s (student\u2019s name) from OkCupid ;)\u201d" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hey, how\u2019s your weekend going" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hope you\u2019re not causing too much trouble \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I wasn\u2019t before, but now" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m starting to have the urge \ud83d\ude0b \ud83d\ude08" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You still hoping I\u2019m not causing too much trouble?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Mmm same here. Why don\u2019t you come over and we can have some fun" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oof, but I\u2019m tired to get dressed \ud83d\ude29" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I was hoping you could wake me back up" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Oh I have a few basic ideas for just that \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m in crown heights, where are you\u201d" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Bedstuy" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ok so you close" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Tbh I rather not be walking around on summer nights" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I could also take a Uber to you, would you mind paying for my ride home" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yeah I don\u2019t mind" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " 10 min drive lol" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I would walk if it was earlier" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do you have condoms and/or lube?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yeah i do" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Bet" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do you need some time or can I head over once I\u2019m ready" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Nah you can head over once you\u2019re ready, I just showered" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ok I\u2019m about to leave" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Bet. Text me when you\u2019re close, I\u2019ll come get you" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Aii, Uber took a lil longer than expected but I\u2019m 5-10 minutes now" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m glad we could make this happen" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Here" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Coming " + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 75, + "context": "They matched on Tinder. He messaged her first with a generic opener that could apply to almost anyone. ", + "response": [ + "You\u2019re cute. I can think of a few easy we\u2019d have fun", + "Mm, you think you can handle it?", + "Good. I\u2019m going to handcuff your hands behind your back. And then I\u2019m going to force you down on your knees and tell you to open your mouth.", + "Yes, for our second meet. But for now, I\u2019ll be having you as the main course.", + "You\u2019ll absolutely love it with me. And after I\u2019ve properly face fucked you, I\u2019ll reward you with 10-15 oral orgasms for being such a good girl for me.", + "Experience. To keep it simple. You get out of line. Too bratty. I tame you. Everyone is happy", + "Not following commands. Talking back too much. And there\u2019s a proper punishment depending on what you do", + "Some things are best discovered rather than explained baby girl.", + "Ask nicely, and I\u2019ll give you one example", + "Good girl", + "If you were to roll your eyes at me in person after I gave you a command, I would have no choice but to bend you over my lap, and spank you until a red handprint is left.", + "Yes, really. It\u2019s what others and I have enjoyed in the past. But punishments are always discussed beforehand. Trust and safety is key.", + "Yes. What is one of your biggest sex related fantasies?", + "I see. Next time someone asks you this question it\u2019ll be a kink for you, rather than a fantasy.", + "To meet several open minded women for an amazing night. The idea of being able to please 2-3 women at the same time turns me on a lot. That takes time though.", + "Mhm, I\u2019m enjoying one woman at the moment", + "Not at first, but I\u2019d be open to the idea after getting to know you better", + "I can tell we will get along well. Why don\u2019t we get together & we can have some fun", + "No! That was a scenario. We\u2019re going to sit down, flirt, and get to know each other first over an amazing bottle of wine", + "Check if there\u2019s chemistry, and if there is we can see where things take us. If you want to leave, I\u2019ll call you and Uber and give you a hug goodbye!", + "yes, at my place", + "I totally understand. You free to hop on a quick FaceTime to say hi?", + "Tomorrow works. Let\u2019s take this party off tinder then. Text me" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You\u2019re cute. I can think of a few easy we\u2019d have fun" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You have my attention \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Mm, you think you can handle it?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You\u2019re funny. I\u2019ve got no reason to think otherwise" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Good. I\u2019m going to handcuff your hands behind your back. And then I\u2019m going to force you down on your knees and tell you to open your mouth." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Is that right?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Are you gonna take me to dinner first or" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yes, for our second meet. But for now, I\u2019ll be having you as the main course." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Well I don\u2019t particularly like getting on my knees" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What then?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You\u2019ll absolutely love it with me. And after I\u2019ve properly face fucked you, I\u2019ll reward you with 10-15 oral orgasms for being such a good girl for me." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I can\u2019t say I\u2019ve ever had that many in one session, let alone oral" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m intrigued" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What makes you think you\u2019re a brat tamer?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Experience. To keep it simple. You get out of line. Too bratty. I tame you. Everyone is happy" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " And what\u2019s considered out of line?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Not following commands. Talking back too much. And there\u2019s a proper punishment depending on what you do" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Could you give me an example" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Some things are best discovered rather than explained baby girl." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You\u2019re no funny" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I have an active imagination" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Ask nicely, and I\u2019ll give you one example" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I totally didn\u2019t just roll my eyes" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Would you be so kind as to give me an example?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Good girl" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "If you were to roll your eyes at me in person after I gave you a command, I would have no choice but to bend you over my lap, and spank you until a red handprint is left." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Really" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That punishment doesn\u2019t seem disproportionate to you?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yes, really. It\u2019s what others and I have enjoyed in the past. But punishments are always discussed beforehand. Trust and safety is key." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I like that" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I feel like I\u2019m asking all the questions lol" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do you have any for me?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yes. What is one of your biggest sex related fantasies?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I mean you essentially started this conversation with one" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I see. Next time someone asks you this question it\u2019ll be a kink for you, rather than a fantasy." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I appreciate you confidence" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What\u2019s yours?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "To meet several open minded women for an amazing night. The idea of being able to please 2-3 women at the same time turns me on a lot. That takes time though." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You don\u2019t say" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " And can I ask how many other good girls you\u2019re enjoying at the moment?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Mhm, I\u2019m enjoying one woman at the moment" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Gotcha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Are you looking for anything beyond closed doors?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Not at first, but I\u2019d be open to the idea after getting to know you better" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I think I understand" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ask away" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I can tell we will get along well. Why don\u2019t we get together & we can have some fun" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " If getting to know each other comes second, you expect me to let a stranger off the internet handcuff me upon walking in the door?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "No! That was a scenario. We\u2019re going to sit down, flirt, and get to know each other first over an amazing bottle of wine" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Check if there\u2019s chemistry, and if there is we can see where things take us. If you want to leave, I\u2019ll call you and Uber and give you a hug goodbye!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " So your place?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "yes, at my place" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hm I don\u2019t know how to feel about that " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I totally understand. You free to hop on a quick FaceTime to say hi?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Afraid not, I\u2019m both on the train and late to meeting someone" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Tomorrow?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Tomorrow works. Let\u2019s take this party off tinder then. Text me" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 76, + "context": "They matched on Hinge. She had a very sweet, cutesy vibe to her profile. She liked his photo. He messaged her first by responding to a prompt she had about karaoke.", + "response": [ + "Oh I\u2019m a big karaoke guy. What\u2019s your go-to song?", + "LOL nice, now I\u2019m imagining you rapping in a bucket hat with your drink in your hand.. I see you", + "The fifth pic makes so much sense now \ud83d\ude09", + "Respect hahaha a true trailblazer in action. Is look at me now in your song list? Now that\u2019s a hard one", + "Haha we\u2019ll have to throw it into the mix on our date then", + "Where you from originally? You\u2019re not giving me the \u2018new yorker born and raised\u2019 vibes", + "Love it, I\u2019m from New York too. I grew up in Westchester but I moved to the city five years ago. What brought you to the city?", + "Same for me, as well as the nightlife. Always wanted to party in the city as a kid haha", + "What do you like to do in your free time besides rap your heart out at karaoke?", + "Pretty much the same, though I love going to concerts and traveling, I go like 6-7 times a year", + "Hmm I have a plan for our first date you\u2019ll love then \ud83d\ude09", + "Cool! Drop me your number and we\u2019ll set it up over text", + "Hey cutie, it\u2019s (student\u2019s name) from Hinge. Sup", + "I\u2019m from right outside of white plains in Hartsdale", + "Ever been up there?", + "Haha fair enough, it's a pretty small town. It\u2019s fun though.", + "Let\u2019s grab that coffee. Free Wednesday evening?", + "Ah I\u2019m heading to Philly this weekend for a friend\u2019d party and leaving Thursday night. Won\u2019t be back until Sunday", + "We can shoot for next week, unless you\u2019re free earlier in the week?", + "For sure. I\u2019m not excited for my friend to say \u2018it\u2019s always sunny in philly\u2019 every day though", + "Guessing you\u2019ve been a few times?", + "Cool, and yeah I\u2019ve heard it\u2019s pretty fun there. Only thing I know about there is Penn state though lol", + "You travel a lot for work?", + "Sounds like it. Half the reason I\u2019m in Brooklyn is because it\u2019s closer to the airports. I love to travel", + "Anywhere and everywhere! I have friends all over from travel adventures so I usually go and crash with them. Was just in chicago last month and have some big trips coming up later this year", + "Oh I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll love it over there, California in particular has some pretty beautiful citie", + "Tough question. I really liked Sweden in the summer specifically, it\u2019s pretty much sunlight 24 hours a day. Lots of great food and culture there. Spain is a very very close second. Hbu?", + "Spain would definitely be the country I\u2019d choose to live in if not in the US", + "I\u2019ll get started on planning the honeymoon then. Barcelona or Madrid?", + "Oh ho, the irish girl likes to party. I\u2019m in", + "Lol you and me both", + "Alcohol hits very different now", + "29\u201d When a girl asks your age, there is no need to lie and pretend to be an age you\u2019re not. Just be honest and own it. If she questions you on it, a good message to send is \u201cAge is just a number. I\u2019ve dated women from early 20\u2019s to late 40\u2019s. it always comes down to the person not the year on their driver license. One big plus I\u2019ve found with older women is a higher sex drive and better communication, which matches with me", + "I keep up with the best of em;)", + "You\u2019re 33 right?", + "It\u2019s okay, we\u2019ll get you some pedialyte & water to have with your martini", + "Balance is important", + "Hmm now I\u2019m curious about something", + "When you drink how do you get? Energetic, sleepy, dancing? Lol", + "All the right answers", + "You sure you didn\u2019t cheat on this test?", + "Perfect, I\u2019ll see you then cutie", + "Good afternoon! Still good for tonight, yeah?", + "Awesome, it\u2019s beautiful out so I\u2019m sure the sunset will be great. I\u2019ll let you know when I\u2019m heading out", + "Yep that works! Ferry trip sounds amazing", + "Oh yes. When I go to Rockaway I always take the long way by the ferry haha", + "Heading out here soon, I\u2019ll see you in a bit!", + "Just got here, sitting outside the place" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Oh I\u2019m a big karaoke guy. What\u2019s your go-to song?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " My go to song is a milli \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "LOL nice, now I\u2019m imagining you rapping in a bucket hat with your drink in your hand.. I see you" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "The fifth pic makes so much sense now \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83d\ude02 \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I can\u2019t be singing 90\u2019s classics. I have to rap hard" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Respect hahaha a true trailblazer in action. Is look at me now in your song list? Now that\u2019s a hard one" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " ooof yeah that\u2019s a hard one " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " but I could be up for the challenge" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Haha we\u2019ll have to throw it into the mix on our date then" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Where you from originally? You\u2019re not giving me the \u2018new yorker born and raised\u2019 vibes" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " i\u2019m from long island! New yorker through and through" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " what about you? " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Love it, I\u2019m from New York too. I grew up in Westchester but I moved to the city five years ago. What brought you to the city?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh nice! I moved here 10 years ago \ud83d\ude33" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " i definitely always wanted to live here. Work brought me here" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Same for me, as well as the nightlife. Always wanted to party in the city as a kid haha" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What do you like to do in your free time besides rap your heart out at karaoke?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " hahah i\u2019m a pretty simple gal. i like trying new restaurants. I LOVE catching a good sunset. Like staying active and hitting the gym" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What about you?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Pretty much the same, though I love going to concerts and traveling, I go like 6-7 times a year" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hmm I have a plan for our first date you\u2019ll love then \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " oh yeahhh? Ok i\u2019m excited now \ud83d\ude0c" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " love it" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " that sounds great" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Cool! Drop me your number and we\u2019ll set it up over text" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (phone number) \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hey cutie, it\u2019s (student\u2019s name) from Hinge. Sup" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " oh wassuppp" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " where in Westchester are you from? " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m from right outside of white plains in Hartsdale" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Ever been up there?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " i\u2019ve been to white plains but not heartsdale " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Haha fair enough, it's a pretty small town. It\u2019s fun though." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Let\u2019s grab that coffee. Free Wednesday evening?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " sadly i\u2019m not free on weds. But could do thurs or fri?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Ah I\u2019m heading to Philly this weekend for a friend\u2019d party and leaving Thursday night. Won\u2019t be back until Sunday" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We can shoot for next week, unless you\u2019re free earlier in the week?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " damn! Okay let me see if i can make weds work" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " philly will be fun though!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " nice! As you should" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " philly is cool" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "For sure. I\u2019m not excited for my friend to say \u2018it\u2019s always sunny in philly\u2019 every day though" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Guessing you\u2019ve been a few times?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " yeah we have an office there so i\u2019ve been a few times" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " haven\u2019t gone out out there but it seems like a cute little town" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Cool, and yeah I\u2019ve heard it\u2019s pretty fun there. Only thing I know about there is Penn state though lol" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You travel a lot for work?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " nope i don\u2019t! I\u2019ve just been there a few times but i don\u2019t travel very often" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " my office is in chelsea so pretty easy commute from where i am" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Sounds like it. Half the reason I\u2019m in Brooklyn is because it\u2019s closer to the airports. I love to travel" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " where do you travel to?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Anywhere and everywhere! I have friends all over from travel adventures so I usually go and crash with them. Was just in chicago last month and have some big trips coming up later this year" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " love it!! I love chicago. One of my best friends lives there. I gotta get back" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " i need to travel more. I\u2019ve still never been to the west coast" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Oh I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll love it over there, California in particular has some pretty beautiful citie" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " i know! I need to go" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " what\u2019s been your favorite place to visit?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Tough question. I really liked Sweden in the summer specifically, it\u2019s pretty much sunlight 24 hours a day. Lots of great food and culture there. Spain is a very very close second. Hbu?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " spain is awesome. I loved it there" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " i\u2019m irish is ireland is up there" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " but in the states, chicago is up there and also charleston" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Spain would definitely be the country I\u2019d choose to live in if not in the US" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " i\u2019d have to agree with that" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019ll get started on planning the honeymoon then. Barcelona or Madrid?", + "coach_comment": " The purpose of this message is to inject some fun into the conversation. So far, it has been very boring, \u2018get to know you\u2019 conversation which most interactions need a bit of but it needs to be done in a way that keeps the girl engaged." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " defffff barcelona " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Oh ho, the irish girl likes to party. I\u2019m in" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83d\udc81\ud83c\udffc\u200d\u2640\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " irish girl def likes to party a little " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " although it\u2019s getting harder as i get older lol" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Lol you and me both" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Alcohol hits very different now" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " it\u2019s offensive" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " how old are you?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "29\u201d When a girl asks your age, there is no need to lie and pretend to be an age you\u2019re not. Just be honest and own it. If she questions you on it, a good message to send is \u201cAge is just a number. I\u2019ve dated women from early 20\u2019s to late 40\u2019s. it always comes down to the person not the year on their driver license. One big plus I\u2019ve found with older women is a higher sex drive and better communication, which matches with me", + "coach_comment": " When a girl asks your age, there is no need to lie and pretend to be an age you\u2019re not. Just be honest and own it. If she questions you on it, a good message to send is \u201cAge is just a number. I\u2019ve dated women from early 20\u2019s to late 40\u2019s. it always comes down to the person not the year on their driver license. One big plus I\u2019ve found with older women is a higher sex drive and better communication, which matches with me" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " youngin!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I keep up with the best of em;)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You\u2019re 33 right?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " yes \ud83d\ude22" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "It\u2019s okay, we\u2019ll get you some pedialyte & water to have with your martini" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Balance is important" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " balance is def important" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hmm now I\u2019m curious about something" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "When you drink how do you get? Energetic, sleepy, dancing? Lol" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " i get pretty energetic lol" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " ready to rage" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " dancing for sure" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "All the right answers" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You sure you didn\u2019t cheat on this test?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " no cheating over here \ud83d\ude05" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " confirming i can meet weds \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds perfect" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Perfect, I\u2019ll see you then cutie" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " see you then \u263a\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Good afternoon! Still good for tonight, yeah?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " yep!!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Awesome, it\u2019s beautiful out so I\u2019m sure the sunset will be great. I\u2019ll let you know when I\u2019m heading out" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " it\u2019s soo nice out" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " and sounds good!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " i think i\u2019ll take the 640 ferry that gets into dumbo at 648" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " if that works" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yep that works! Ferry trip sounds amazing" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " the ferry is so great. I love taking them lol" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Oh yes. When I go to Rockaway I always take the long way by the ferry haha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Love it lol they are LEGIT" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Heading out here soon, I\u2019ll see you in a bit!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " see you shortly!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Just got here, sitting outside the place" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " just about there" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 77, + "context": "They matched on Tinder. Hey messaged her first with a generic opener.", + "response": [ + "Is that so? Sounds like we\u2019re off to a great start then ;)", + "Am I going to be a bad influence on you?", + "Because I like to get into some fun trouble from time to time myself \ud83d\ude08", + "Haha nothing too crazy, just a few neck kisses and a lil hair pulling", + "Glad we are ;) so let\u2019s start with the basics. Any tattoos, piercings, kinks, good kisser?", + "Noted. Mm I enjoy all those things too - love it when a woman likes to get dirty. I\u2019ll have to put those kissing skills to the test here soon then ;)", + "No tattoos yet, though I\u2019m getting one here real soon, & had my ears pierced. I love some passionate hair pulling, spanking, going down on a girl, and giving commands. All depends on what you\u2019re comfortable with", + "Definitely my type. Looks like you have some of my weaknesses too \ud83d\ude0f", + "You got it. What area are you in? I\u2019m in Brooklyn", + "Ah gotcha. We can always just link when you\u2019re here then", + "Yeah I have roommates, but it\u2019s a big ass place so we\u2019ll have our privacy \ud83d\ude09", + "Good. When do you get off jury duty? I gotta help my sister today with something at 730 but you could come earlier", + "Busy girl! Lol sounds good. Shoot me your number, and I\u2019ll send you a text to figure it out." + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey trouble \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Trouble I\u2019m a good girl \ud83d\ude02 \ud83d\ude08" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Also hi I\u2019m 5\u201d7 \ud83e\udd70", + "coach_comment": "7 \ud83e\udd70" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Is that so? Sounds like we\u2019re off to a great start then ;)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Am I going to be a bad influence on you?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Why would you be a bad one love?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " We are off to a great start I was shocked at the super like I\u2019m like no effing way he\u2019s this fine & liked me \ud83d\ude2e\u200d\ud83d\udca8 \ud83d\ude48" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Because I like to get into some fun trouble from time to time myself \ud83d\ude08" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Define fun trouble cuz I\u2019m pretty normal \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Haha nothing too crazy, just a few neck kisses and a lil hair pulling" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh alright you scared me there for a sec I\u2019m like \u2018plz don\u2019t let this man say he likes swingers or multiple partners\u2019 Lol" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " We are clearly so far on the same page then \ud83d\ude0a" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Glad we are ;) so let\u2019s start with the basics. Any tattoos, piercings, kinks, good kisser?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " No tattoos I have my nipples pierced & just a couple of ear piercings, Iloveee me a good kisser I love making out before during & after sex kissing to me is so hot puts me in the mood real quick" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I can be a freak in the sheets I like facials, I like sucking on fingers, spit in my mouth is hot that\u2019s pretty much it i\u2019d say. DISCLAIMER: No anal whatsoever \ud83d\ude42" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Noted. Mm I enjoy all those things too - love it when a woman likes to get dirty. I\u2019ll have to put those kissing skills to the test here soon then ;)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Once I\u2019m done with jury duty we can totally plan something I\u2019d love to test out your skills as well \ud83d\ude18" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hbu? Those same questions but I\u2019m gonna ask\u2026am I your type? Ima tell you now you are 100% my type \ud83e\udd24" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "No tattoos yet, though I\u2019m getting one here real soon, & had my ears pierced. I love some passionate hair pulling, spanking, going down on a girl, and giving commands. All depends on what you\u2019re comfortable with" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Definitely my type. Looks like you have some of my weaknesses too \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oooo I can get down with all of the above \ud83d\ude0d & ofc I\u2019ll say no to something if I ain\u2019t down with it" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Really?! Good thank god cuz I\u2019m tryna give you a ride of your life \ud83e\udd2a\ud83e\udd2a I\u2019m glad you like me curvy cuz I got lots of body to explore \ud83e\udd75" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " :Mm love the sound of that. I\u2019ll return the favor and then some \ud83d\ude08\u201d" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You\u2019re gonna love all the sounds of this body I wanna hear it all from you" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You got it. What area are you in? I\u2019m in Brooklyn" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m in Staten Island. I work in Brooklyn on Tuesdays :/" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Ah gotcha. We can always just link when you\u2019re here then" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do you have your own place?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh I\u2019ll definitely meet you here in Brooklyn I unfortunately do not live alone as of yet \ud83d\ude02 sooner or later I\u2019m gonna renovate my apartment downstairs from my parents but we gotta get on it ASAP LOL" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yeah I have roommates, but it\u2019s a big ass place so we\u2019ll have our privacy \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You\u2019re so lucky I wish \ud83d\ude02 oh even better I can\u2019t wait" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Good. When do you get off jury duty? I gotta help my sister today with something at 730 but you could come earlier" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh nah I can\u2019t at all this week love I work full time and then this weekend is my nieces birthday I have jury duty next week on Monday so when I\u2019m done with that I\u2019ll come to you" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Busy girl! Lol sounds good. Shoot me your number, and I\u2019ll send you a text to figure it out." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You have nooo idea LOL sounds good to me (her phone number)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Text me whenever love \ud83d\ude18" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 78, + "context": "Context:They matched on Tinder. He messaged her first with a generic opener that could apply to anyone.", + "response": [ + "When did you start modeling?", + "Lmao damn might be time to get into it (her name) \ud83d\ude05", + "You won\u2019t be saying that after I steal your \ud83d\udc08", + "Haha love the confidence (her name)", + "Right on, I\u2019m looking for something chill and fun for now but down to see where things go if that makes sense", + "Lemme secure that snap girl" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "When did you start modeling?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ahaha nere" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Lmao damn might be time to get into it (her name) \ud83d\ude05" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83d\ude02 you\u2019re too kind" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You won\u2019t be saying that after I steal your \ud83d\udc08", + "coach_comment": " This message could be interpreted as sexual or not by the girl. It gives her the opportunity to sexualise. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019d like to see you try" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Haha love the confidence (her name)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m just going with the Flow" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " How about you" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Right on, I\u2019m looking for something chill and fun for now but down to see where things go if that makes sense" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I feel that" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Lemme secure that snap girl" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (her snapchat)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 79, + "context": "They matched on Tinder. He messaged her first. This interaction contains some examples of misinterpreting what she says and reframing them. This is not an example of a perfect interaction as there is little to no \u2018get to know you\u2019 conversation and, so, very little comfort and connection created for the girl. There are points in the interaction where she is understandably confused. The examples of misinterpretation and reframing are to be used when objections occur, not as the basis for the whole conversation. The number he got from this interaction is not likely to be a strong one and there is a good chance she will flake unless they have some \u2018get to know you\u2019 conversation or vibing over WhatsApp.", + "response": [ + "Wow ice Cream and fries on our date?!", + "When is this happening?", + "Sure!", + "Well I\u2019d prefer to meet in public before going inside. I feel better like that", + "Maybe. If you\u2019re as fun in person as you are over text and the vibe is right", + "Haha I feel like it\u2019s too early to give you my address. Let\u2019s grab a drink first :)", + "Because I need to make sure that you\u2019re not a serial killer or a catfish first ;)", + "That\u2019s actually a relief", + "Perfect. I like to take things slow and I\u2019m not looking for cheap hookups", + "It\u2019d be kinda weird if you just came straight over to my place on the first date \ud83d\ude02 what if you\u2019re awkward or something? It\u2019s important for me to have chemistry on the first meet", + "If you\u2019re looking for a hookup then I\u2019m the wrong guy for you. If you\u2019re looking for something more meaningful than that, then this may work. It\u2019s really important for me that I want to see the girl more than once.", + "I\u2019m glad you\u2019re different from other Serbian girls", + "I\u2019m glad you understand why I always want to meet in public first. I don\u2019t think you\u2019re one of those people but you can never be too safe these days", + "Monday actually works really well for me!", + "Sounds amazing! Shoot me your WhatsApp" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Wow ice Cream and fries on our date?!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " the best thing ever" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "When is this happening?", + "coach_comment": " Misinterpreting what she is saying to mean that she is referring to their date." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Our date?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Sure!", + "coach_comment": " Misinterpreted as her asking him out." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Why u wanna go out with me" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Well I\u2019d prefer to meet in public before going inside. I feel better like that", + "coach_comment": " This message reframes her as the chaser. It also preemptively handles a safety objection she may have. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Going inside? " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Maybe. If you\u2019re as fun in person as you are over text and the vibe is right", + "coach_comment": " This message assumes she has already agreed to coming over. It frames him as the one who is not sold on her yet." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Inside where?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Haha I feel like it\u2019s too early to give you my address. Let\u2019s grab a drink first :)", + "coach_comment": " This message has misinterpreted her previous message as her asking for his address and frames her as the chaser. It also assumes they will be going back to his place after. It also preemptively handels another objection." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Why would i come over after one drink?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Because I need to make sure that you\u2019re not a serial killer or a catfish first ;)", + "coach_comment": " This message pushes her to qualify herself while also preempting another objection women commonly have on dating apps." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahahahaha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m not, but anyways why would i still come im not gonna sleep with u or anything like that" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "That\u2019s actually a relief", + "coach_comment": " This message steals the frame as positive for him. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Huh" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I wouldn\u2019t even ask about going to ur place.." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Perfect. I like to take things slow and I\u2019m not looking for cheap hookups", + "coach_comment": " This message steals the objection from her and reframes it as positive for him." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Then what should I think about \u2018well i\u2019d prefer to meet in public before going inside.\u2019..." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "It\u2019d be kinda weird if you just came straight over to my place on the first date \ud83d\ude02 what if you\u2019re awkward or something? It\u2019s important for me to have chemistry on the first meet", + "coach_comment": " This message misinterprets her previous message as her trying to go straight to his place while also baiting her to qualify herself as not awkward. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Why would i even come on the second date? Hahaha don\u2019t get me wrong yah, i\u2019m very normal, but it sounded like ur inviting me for a hookup" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "If you\u2019re looking for a hookup then I\u2019m the wrong guy for you. If you\u2019re looking for something more meaningful than that, then this may work. It\u2019s really important for me that I want to see the girl more than once.", + "coach_comment": " This message deals with a potential concern the girl man have and flips it back on her." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Im not looking for a hookup" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I don\u2019t like those" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Im not even on Tinder as looking for a guy" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m glad you\u2019re different from other Serbian girls", + "coach_comment": " This message qualifies her while also implying preselection and the options he has in the other women that want to hookup with him." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah u can meet a lot of crazy people here" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I downloaded this app with my friend we were just talking to people of course ignoring those idiots" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m glad you understand why I always want to meet in public first. I don\u2019t think you\u2019re one of those people but you can never be too safe these days", + "coach_comment": " This message deals with a concern that was previously brought up in the conversation. The last part makes it easier for her to agree as it is likely to be something that she is thinking." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah of course i agree" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " But im not free until monday" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Monday actually works really well for me!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Until monday if at my work they don\u2019t change my shift" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " They were talking about something " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What r u doing in Serbia anyway" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Sounds amazing! Shoot me your WhatsApp" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (her phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 80, + "context": " They match on Tinder and he opens her with a generic opener.", + "response": [ + "Love you", + "Mean it?", + "Wow that\u2019s fucked up\u2026", + "Haha kidding! We can get a divorce that\u2019s totally fine \ud83d\ude1c", + "The dotted line..", + "Just so you know, I\u2019m keeping the dogs!", + "When we were married they all became mine!", + "You can have the house in Australia", + "It was a threesome you can\u2019t call that cheating! Hmm when are you going to come claim my clothes? \ud83d\ude0f", + "I think you saw the multiple screaming orgasms in me. Just using me for my body. I have a mind as well", + "I actually fell for your mind", + "Why did you even marry me?", + "Hey, I need to know. What\u2019s your schedule like this week?", + "Sure, I\u2019ll talk to my lawyer and we can figure out a day today", + "You know we are usually trouble together, I hope you can control yourself \ud83d\ude0f", + "Only you can touch me till the divorce is finalized", + "Don\u2019t tempt me. You know I\u2019m the last guy you would want to tease", + "I agree the passion was gone. After the divorce we\u2019ll get back to squirting and multiple orgasms", + "She will never smell as good as you. BTW I had deleted your number, what is it now?", + "Oh?", + "Perfect. I\u2019m glad you got over your problem. Really took a toll", + "You worked too much and I was hungry for that delicious pussy", + "Yeah we should get this divorce sorted fast. We need closure. Number?", + "Hey is this the ex wife that loves multiple screaming orgasms?", + "?" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Love you" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " love you too \ud83e\udd23" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Mean it?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahaha no I thought you were joking " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Wow that\u2019s fucked up\u2026" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Haha kidding! We can get a divorce that\u2019s totally fine \ud83d\ude1c" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahahahaha where do I sign \ud83e\udd23" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "The dotted line.." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Just so you know, I\u2019m keeping the dogs!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahahahahaha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You can keep yours and I will keep mine " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "When we were married they all became mine!", + "coach_comment": " So far the conversation has been fun role play, keeping the conversation light and playful." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You can have the house in Australia" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahahahaha ok\u2026but I won\u2019t give you anything our marriage was shit \ud83e\udd23 since you cheated on me I\u2019ll keep everything\u2026even your clothes" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "It was a threesome you can\u2019t call that cheating! Hmm when are you going to come claim my clothes? \ud83d\ude0f", + "coach_comment": " This message hints at his sexual value." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Threesome\u2026great my ex husband\u2026I don\u2019t know what I ever saw in you " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Next week and I will give it to the homeless people they deserve it more" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I think you saw the multiple screaming orgasms in me. Just using me for my body. I have a mind as well", + "coach_comment": " This message frames him as the prize." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Well I think you used me for MY body because lets be honest\u2026I am the hotter person in our marriage" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I actually fell for your mind" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Why did you even marry me?", + "coach_comment": " This message baits her into qualifying him and verbalize what she likes about him. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Because you have a dog\u2026and house in Australia\u2026and ok I admit you are kinda hot" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hey, I need to know. What\u2019s your schedule like this week?", + "coach_comment": " This message is a soft close. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I will know today\u2026I think we need to sign those papers and resolve this " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Sure, I\u2019ll talk to my lawyer and we can figure out a day today", + "coach_comment": " This message keeps it light while continuing with the roleplay. It is also nonchalant and not too needy. A lot of guys can be too eager to meet up." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ok, I hope you will behave " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I will try to be polite as well" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You know we are usually trouble together, I hope you can control yourself \ud83d\ude0f", + "coach_comment": " This message makes the conversation more sexual while holding onto the prize frame." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I would never touch you after she did\u2026so don\u2019t worry" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Only you can touch me till the divorce is finalized", + "coach_comment": " In this message, he pulls back and leaves room for her to chase, which she does in her next message, implying they should have sex." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " No no after the divorce it would be more fun and exciting" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Don\u2019t tempt me. You know I\u2019m the last guy you would want to tease" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hmmmm when it comes to sex\u2026babe we could have done it better\u2026maybe after the divorce we would do it right" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I agree the passion was gone. After the divorce we\u2019ll get back to squirting and multiple orgasms", + "coach_comment": " This message portrays his sexual value." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hmmmm we will see I will probably still smell her on you \ud83d\ude2d" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "She will never smell as good as you. BTW I had deleted your number, what is it now?", + "coach_comment": " This is a fun way to get her number that is in keeping with the role play." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I have to talk to my lawyer to see if I can give you my number\u2026I changed it because of you you know" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Oh?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah yeah\u2026you don\u2019t remember all those drunk calls" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (Her name) take me back\u2026yeah so I changed it " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes why?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Perfect. I\u2019m glad you got over your problem. Really took a toll", + "coach_comment": " This message flips the frame on her." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I started drinking just because of your nymphomania" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You worked too much and I was hungry for that delicious pussy", + "coach_comment": " This message keeps the sexual tone. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I don\u2019t know what I saw in you\u2026" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " We need to end this" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yeah we should get this divorce sorted fast. We need closure. Number?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (her phone number)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hey is this the ex wife that loves multiple screaming orgasms?", + "coach_comment": " Instead of going back to square one with the messaging, he uses callback humor to open on text." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes my crazy ex\u2026but what about whatss" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You don\u2019t have WhatsApp" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Than text me there \ud83d\ude09" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 81, + "context": "They matched on Tinder during the COVID-19 pandemic. He super liked her. Then she likes one of his photos and sent the first message. ", + "response": [ + "Amazing! How are you?", + "Just finishing up writing an article. Yourself?", + "What course? Its generally around how men can improve themselves and understand women on a deeper level. The one I\u2019m writing about now is dirty talk to improve pleasure in the bedroom", + "That makes sense, I think that would suit you", + "Yeah it\u2019s online we have a premium membership group that pay monthly and we provide content on there", + "Well I was traveling the world doing workshops and seminars. Since covid I\u2019ve been spending a lot of time with family, and now that the beaches are open doing some diving", + "So you have hobbies?", + "Explore? Where abouts do you live?", + "(Location) How far is that from you?", + "Perfect", + "Hey, can I be honest with you?", + "I\u2019m a little cautious about this covid situation. Have you been distancing or living as normal?", + "Ah that makes me feel a lot more comfortable. I have been working from home. I wanted to check first. It\u2019s a bit hard to give a socially distant body massage, you know", + "Are you allergic to coconut oil?", + "It\u2019s what I use for my world famous massages! \ud83d\ude0f", + "I\u2019m busy with work this weekend, but I can make some time for us early next week. Does that work for you?", + "Perfect! Do you use WhatsApp?", + "(his phone number) shoot me a text", + "This is the girl from tinder with the cute submissive smile right? \ud83d\ude0f", + "Good! Btw is that your dog??", + "He looks so adorable. Did you travel through Asia?", + "Do you live by yourself? My parents and sister have a dog, but I travel too often to have a pet", + "Don\u2019t tell me your Finnish \ud83d\ude0f", + "I\u2019ve never been actually. But my ex and my business are Swedish, so I spent a lot of time there", + "Have you spent much time in Sweden?", + "Spent most of my time in Stockholm. Although my friend is from the north so also visited his home town", + "So what are you doing in Australia?", + "but, why did you choose Australia?", + "Living i the best city in the world and you don\u2019t even know it yet smh", + "As long as you can handle it \ud83d\ude08", + "Yes, very soon \ud83d\ude0f", + "Hey trouble!", + "A little bit of work but then I\u2019m free", + "What game? I don\u2019t have anything planned as of yet", + "Sounds fun! Well I\u2019\u2019 have to invite you over for that booty massage another night then", + "A walk?", + "Oh of course. Do you like wine?", + "Perfect! Let\u2019s split a bottle of wine and hangout sometime this week", + "Friday is the earliest I can be free", + "Great, well have fun tonight and chat soon", + "I\u2019ve picked up the wine for tomorrow!", + "I\u2019ll be free after seven. You didn\u2019t drive right? Do you need me to pick you up?", + "Can you get to (location) station?", + "Does 7:30 work for you?", + "Perfect! I\u2019ll pick you up from there" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hey how are you doing?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Amazing! How are you?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m very well thank you" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What are you up to today?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Just finishing up writing an article. Yourself?", + "coach_comment": " This message leaves room for her to get curious and ask about the article. If she asks about the article, he can tell her about it, maybe even brag about it, and it doesn\u2019t seem as try herd as if he had just told her all about the article straight away." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m doing a course online so did that for a bit and just chilling otherwise" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What kind of articles do you write?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What course? Its generally around how men can improve themselves and understand women on a deeper level. The one I\u2019m writing about now is dirty talk to improve pleasure in the bedroom", + "coach_comment": " This topic is something that will get her a little excited or turned on." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m doing a course in data science. I wanna learn analytics and programming so it\u2019s a foundation course" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Alright okay well that\u2019s interesting" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do you publish them somewhere?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "That makes sense, I think that would suit you", + "coach_comment": " This is challenging because it is unlikely that a hot blonde girl looks like they suit analytics. " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yeah it\u2019s online we have a premium membership group that pay monthly and we provide content on there", + "coach_comment": " This message tells her that he has some level of authority on the subject of his articles as there are people who are willing to pay for his service." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Alright that\u2019s cool" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " So what else do you do with your time than write? When a girl asks you questions like \u2018how's your day?\u2019, \u2018what are your hobbies?\u2019 etc it is a great opportunity to show off your personality." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Well I was traveling the world doing workshops and seminars. Since covid I\u2019ve been spending a lot of time with family, and now that the beaches are open doing some diving" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "So you have hobbies?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Well I used to go to the gym but now I just mainly go for walks and explore random areas" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Just trying to think of more things to do I guess given the situation" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Explore? Where abouts do you live?", + "coach_comment": " The purpose of this message is to figure out logistics." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I live near (location)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I found a cool nature reserve the other day I didn\u2019t even know was here hahaha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Where abouts are you?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "(Location) How far is that from you?", + "coach_comment": " The reason he asks how far his address is from her is because he wants the girl to look it up as this suggests a good level of investment from her. It also adds to her level of comfort as, when you invite her over later in the interaction, she has already typed your address into her phone and knows where you live so it reduces the likelihood that she will flake." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " According to google maps 20min by car" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Not too bad" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Perfect" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hey, can I be honest with you?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah of course " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What\u2019s up?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m a little cautious about this covid situation. Have you been distancing or living as normal?", + "coach_comment": " This message flips the frame and he preemptively brings up a potential objection she would have. This provided comfort for the girl that you have similar concerns. It also calls for her to qualify herself." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019ve been home the whole time cause I lost my job so haven\u2019t really had a reason to leave the house besides going for walks" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " How about you?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Ah that makes me feel a lot more comfortable. I have been working from home. I wanted to check first. It\u2019s a bit hard to give a socially distant body massage, you know", + "coach_comment": " This message seeds the date in the flow of conversation. It seems natural." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahaha that\u2019s fair enough" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Are you allergic to coconut oil?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Nope" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What exactly are you planning? \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "It\u2019s what I use for my world famous massages! \ud83d\ude0f", + "coach_comment": " This message seeds the date in a man-to-woman frame. He seems confident and sure of himself." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahah Alright alright" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " And when shall I be expecting to experience it?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m busy with work this weekend, but I can make some time for us early next week. Does that work for you?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah that works fine, can\u2019t think of anything at the moment at least that I have to do" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Perfect! Do you use WhatsApp?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yep" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What\u2019s your number?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "(his phone number) shoot me a text" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hey (student\u2019s name), it\u2019s (her name)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "This is the girl from tinder with the cute submissive smile right? \ud83d\ude0f", + "coach_comment": " The aim of this message is to continue the vibe that started on tinder. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Very likely" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Good! Btw is that your dog??" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " No I wish \ud83d\ude29" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " It\u2019s just a random dog that came to chill with me in the philippines hahah" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "He looks so adorable. Did you travel through Asia?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I love dogs, we have one at home but I wish I had him here" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do you have any?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " And yes I backpacked through a few countries a few years back" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Do you live by yourself? My parents and sister have a dog, but I travel too often to have a pet" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I have two roommates, we share a flat" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Finland" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You ever been?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Don\u2019t tell me your Finnish \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019ve never been actually. But my ex and my business are Swedish, so I spent a lot of time there" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Everyone always goes to Sweden I don't understand it \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " But that\u2019s cool at least you\u2019ve been to Scandinavia " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Have you spent much time in Sweden?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019ve been in and around Stockholm many times but not really further than that" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " How about you?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Spent most of my time in Stockholm. Although my friend is from the north so also visited his home town" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "So what are you doing in Australia?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m finishing my bachelors here" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "but, why did you choose Australia?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " It\u2019s a part of the course I\u2019m doing to spend the last two years in Australia. Living in Sydney right now but haven\u2019t had the chance to experience it properly yet." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Living i the best city in the world and you don\u2019t even know it yet smh" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Well I guess I just need to be convinced \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I think I know just the thing.." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Alright it better be good" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "As long as you can handle it \ud83d\ude08" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Well I guess we need to find out " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yes, very soon \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hey trouble!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Good morning" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " How are you?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m feeling good not too shabby" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What are you up to today? " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "A little bit of work but then I\u2019m free" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " We\u2019re hosting a games night at my place so prepping for that. How about you?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What game? I don\u2019t have anything planned as of yet" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Just a bunch of games like uno and cards and stuff like that and then snacks and drinks" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Nothing too extravagant" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Sounds fun! Well I\u2019\u2019 have to invite you over for that booty massage another night then" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahaha sure sounds good!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do you wanna go for a walk or something before?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "A walk?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " yeah, or anything just to hang out for a bit, get more familiar first" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Oh of course. Do you like wine?", + "coach_comment": " " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes I do" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Perfect! Let\u2019s split a bottle of wine and hangout sometime this week" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Alright sounds good!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Friday is the earliest I can be free" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That works for me" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Great, well have fun tonight and chat soon" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Thanks!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019ve picked up the wine for tomorrow!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds great!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What time are you free?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019ll be free after seven. You didn\u2019t drive right? Do you need me to pick you up?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " It depends on where we\u2019re going. I can take the train/bus" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Can you get to (location) station?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes I can! It\u2019ll take me a while so I\u2019ll just need to know when to get there but should be fine!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Does 7:30 work for you?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " yep that\u2019s good" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Perfect! I\u2019ll pick you up from there" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Okay good, see you then! " + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 82, + "context": "They match on Tinder. Her bio says: \u2018 \ud83c\udff4\udb40\udc67\udb40\udc62\udb40\udc73\udb40\udc63\udb40\udc74\udb40\udc7f living in Sydney. Not on here for hook up! I like to cuddle but also like a party \ud83d\ude1c I won\u2019t message first because I think that\u2019s your job \ud83e\udd37\u200d\u2640\ufe0f\u2019. She didn\u2019t super like him but that is his opener to get a reaction out of her.", + "response": [ + "Thanks for the super like!", + "Hmm what intrigued you the most?", + "I usually travel the world city to city running workshops coaching men with topic on sex, dominance foreplay, understanding women etc etc.", + "I\u2019ve met some amazing girls from here, I tend to be a good judge of character though. I know a lot of people find it frustrating. Personally I like meeting people in person", + "So close! Are you feeling spontaneous?", + "Glass of wine, and my famous booty massage if there\u2019s chemistry", + "Perfect, I do give amazing massages!", + "I only have red, that would be great", + "What time do you think you could be here?", + "No, I just have plans at midday, feel free to leave whenever you want", + "No bed time here", + "I\u2019m jumping in the shower now, just let me know when you\u2019re close and I\u2019ll come down and let you in", + "Perfect", + "No problem, I\u2019ll be out the front" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Thanks for the super like!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha no worries" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I was very intrigued so didn\u2019t want you to skip past me \ud83d\ude1c" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hmm what intrigued you the most?", + "coach_comment": " This message gives her the opportunity to verbalize what she likes about him and qualify him." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019ve never met a traveling sex writer before and I wondered what that entails \ud83e\udd14" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You\u2019re also tall and dominant which i love" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I usually travel the world city to city running workshops coaching men with topic on sex, dominance foreplay, understanding women etc etc." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Wow thats very impressive \ud83d\ude2f " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " So as a sex/dating coach what\u2019s your take on tinder?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019ve met some amazing girls from here, I tend to be a good judge of character though. I know a lot of people find it frustrating. Personally I like meeting people in person", + "coach_comment": " This message is very easy for the girl to agree to." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " For sure, in person is always better" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You\u2019re really close, you live in (location) too?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " 8 min drive" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "So close! Are you feeling spontaneous?", + "coach_comment": " " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Lol what do you have in mind?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Glass of wine, and my famous booty massage if there\u2019s chemistry" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I do love a massage \ud83d\ude1d" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Perfect, I do give amazing massages!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do you have white wine at your place? I hate red. If not I\u2019ll see if I can grab a bottle" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I only have red, that would be great" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What time do you think you could be here?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I could leave in around 15/20 minutes" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Are you up early tomorrow?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "No, I just have plans at midday, feel free to leave whenever you want" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Lol just checking you don\u2019t need to be in bed in an hour" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "No bed time here" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m jumping in the shower now, just let me know when you\u2019re close and I\u2019ll come down and let you in" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah I\u2019ll message you when im leaving" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Leaving now" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Perfect" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " 2 mins away" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "No problem, I\u2019ll be out the front" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 83, + "context": "The student met the girl in the club. The conversation was made sexual in person. He opens her with a callback to the sexual conversation from their in-person interaction. His first message was sent on the night they met at 3:34am.", + "response": [ + "Hey is this the girl who loves blindfolds & handcuffs?", + "Where are you right now?", + "My plan for Monday is to use my blindfold on you!", + "You\u2019re going to absolutely love every moment of it\u2026", + "How\u2019s 9pm for you?", + "Perfect. I\u2019ll message you the exact address later tonight ;)", + "Hey you\u2019re the one that could steal all my stuff \ud83e\udd23 but we have security & cameras in this big building so you\u2019re lucky lol", + "How close are you to (student\u2019s address)?", + "That\u2019s okay! Let\u2019s meet around 9:30 then!" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hey is this the girl who loves blindfolds & handcuffs?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yas its me" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Where are you right now?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Im in home" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do you have any plans on Monday or are you free?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "My plan for Monday is to use my blindfold on you!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You\u2019re going to absolutely love every moment of it\u2026" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Trust you" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "How\u2019s 9pm for you?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Perfect. I\u2019ll message you the exact address later tonight ;)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Okey" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I hope you don\u2019t turn out to be a serial killer ahah" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Hey you\u2019re the one that could steal all my stuff \ud83e\udd23 but we have security & cameras in this big building so you\u2019re lucky lol" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ahahahah" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "How close are you to (student\u2019s address)?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " 5 minutes but I will be a little late " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "That\u2019s okay! Let\u2019s meet around 9:30 then!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Great!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m here" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 84, + "context": "The met at the club.The interaction goes well and he messages her on WhatsApp the next day at 13:14. She is wearing a collar in her WhatsApp photo so he uses that to open her.", + "response": [ + "You should\u2019ve worn that collar last night!", + "Good girl.", + "As long as you behave yourself.", + "Likely not. I\u2019ll always find ways to punish you\u2026", + "And I can\u2019t wait to see how I\u2019m going to punish you and when\u2026", + "That\u2019s a great idea! What\u2019s your schedule like next week?", + "Monday would actually work really well for me!", + "We\u2019ll meet at (location) @ 4pm. And bring the collar.", + "It\u2019s okay. Maybe I\u2019ll get you one with my name on one day ;)", + "If you can meet at 6 instead, I\u2019ll have something special for you\u2026", + "You\u2019re absolutely going to love it. And wear what you want. I just want you as you are.", + "I\u2019m hopping in the shower. Let me know when you\u2019re on your way. Meet me at (location).", + "Send live location", + "I mean if you\u2019re close or can\u2019t find you", + "Perfect!", + "Did you get home safe babygirl?", + "Good! Now I can relax!" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You should\u2019ve worn that collar last night!", + "coach_comment": " " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ohh you\u2019re right! I even thought about wearing it but forgot about it when I was leaving my house in a rush haha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019ll wear it or something similar when we meet next time ;)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Good girl." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Aww \ud83e\udd79 you\u2019re so nice.." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "As long as you behave yourself." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do you mean that as long as I\u2019m myself you\u2019ll be nice?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Asking cause I don\u2019t know if I understood you correctly" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Likely not. I\u2019ll always find ways to punish you\u2026" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh my god \ud83d\ude2f I think I can\u2019t wait for you to do so.." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "And I can\u2019t wait to see how I\u2019m going to punish you and when\u2026" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I don\u2019t know when yet, but I think we should meet up before you punish me so you can at least have a reason \ud83e\udd2a" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "That\u2019s a great idea! What\u2019s your schedule like next week?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I have holidays now so I don\u2019t have much planned, I only have to go to work on Tuesday for an hour cause I have training and then after 2PM I\u2019m free. And on Wednesday I have a house party" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " So choose a day and I\u2019ll tell you if I can meet" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Monday would actually work really well for me!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Great \ud83d\ude07 what time and place would you like?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We\u2019ll meet at (location) @ 4pm. And bring the collar." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Unfortunately I don\u2019t have it with me, I\u2019m sorry.. \ud83d\ude14" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I hope you still want to see me without it haha" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "It\u2019s okay. Maybe I\u2019ll get you one with my name on one day ;)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahaha okay ;p" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "If you can meet at 6 instead, I\u2019ll have something special for you\u2026" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah, of course I can. And I can\u2019t wait to see what\u2019s the surprise! \ud83d\ude0d oh and also I wanted to tell you that I might not look as pretty today as in the club.. I\u2019ve got different clothes on and less makeup" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You\u2019re absolutely going to love it. And wear what you want. I just want you as you are." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Aww thank you \ud83e\udd7a" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m hopping in the shower. Let me know when you\u2019re on your way. Meet me at (location)." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m already on my way, most likely I\u2019ll be there at 6:10" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Send live location" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What do you need it for?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I mean if you\u2019re close or can\u2019t find you" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Now I\u2019m in (Location) so I\u2019m quite far away \ud83e\udd2a don\u2019t worry, I\u2019ll find my way, I have Google maps \ud83d\ude1b" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Perfect!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Okay I\u2019m here" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Did you get home safe babygirl?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m already in bed" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Good! Now I can relax!" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 85, + "context": "They met during day game. They are organizing the date but she is trying to reschedule on him. ", + "response": [ + "What\u2019s your schedule like?", + "I\u2019m busy tonight. I think I can make time for us tomorrow or Friday night around 9:30.", + "Friday it is. Be ready by 10", + "Yes. But if you reschedule again I\u2019ll have to punish you.." + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What\u2019s your schedule like?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m free after 9, or saturday after 8" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m busy tonight. I think I can make time for us tomorrow or Friday night around 9:30." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m busy tomorrow. Friday sounds good to me" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Friday it is. Be ready by 10" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Wait I\u2019m done work at 9" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Actually I can be ready for 10 I think" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Daddy I just realized I have work at 8am on Saturday. Can we reschedule?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yes. But if you reschedule again I\u2019ll have to punish you.." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Actually who needs sleep? \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I need to cum daddy" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 86, + "context": "He met this girl during day game at around 8am. He sat at her table and his opening line was \u201cSorry I\u2019m late\u201d. The interaction went well. He ended up paying for her breakfast without her realizing and she used that to open him on WhatsApp at 11am.", + "response": [ + "No problem! I\u2019m back at my penthouse. 3 mins away", + "Perfect! I\u2019ll message you then", + "How\u2019s 8pm?", + "Perfect, I\u2019ll send you the address later ;)", + "That actually works even better for me!", + "Fine I\u2019ll do 6:30 but I want a striptease the moment you walk in\u2026", + "Good girl!", + "How close are you to (student\u2019s address)?", + "If you change one more time, I\u2019m going to punish you\u2026", + "I\u2019ll grab you from security gate when you\u2019re here", + "Coming" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Are you still near? Thank you for paying for my breakfast" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "No problem! I\u2019m back at my penthouse. 3 mins away" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " So, write me in the evening if you\u2019re free and I\u2019ll see you " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Perfect! I\u2019ll message you then" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "How\u2019s 8pm?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Its ok!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Perfect, I\u2019ll send you the address later ;)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Are you free at 7pm? Cause I have a dinner later\u2026" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "That actually works even better for me!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ok or 6:30 haha its up to you" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Fine I\u2019ll do 6:30 but I want a striptease the moment you walk in\u2026" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahahahaha ill try" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Good girl!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "How close are you to (student\u2019s address)?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I know i change two times the time haha but im late, so at 7? And im near" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "If you change one more time, I\u2019m going to punish you\u2026" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " See you at seven, anyway ill write you when im near" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019ll grab you from security gate when you\u2019re here" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Im coming" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Im here" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Coming" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 87, + "context": "They matched on Tinder. She was giving submissive signals using body language in her profile. He messaged her first.", + "response": [ + "You\u2019re such a good girl.", + "You will be after I\u2019m done with you.", + "First, I\u2019m going to handcuff your hands behind your back. And then I\u2019m going to force you down on your knees and tell you to open your mouth.", + "After I\u2019ve slid my hard cock down your throat and made you gag on it, I\u2019m going to throw you on the bed, flip you over with your ass up and slide my hard cock in you from behind", + "Bring your ass over here.", + "Tomorrow evening could actually work for me! Do you have WhatsApp?", + "Good girl", + "Perfect. Let\u2019s do tomorrow evening" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You\u2019re such a good girl.", + "coach_comment": " This message conveys sexual dominance." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Not sure about it" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You will be after I\u2019m done with you.", + "coach_comment": " This message doubles down on the sexual dominance." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sounds convincing \ud83d\ude08" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " so tell me what you would like to do with me?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "First, I\u2019m going to handcuff your hands behind your back. And then I\u2019m going to force you down on your knees and tell you to open your mouth.", + "coach_comment": " This message conveys that he is sexually dominant and knows what he is doing in the bedroom. It is important to wait for her to give you the green light before going this sexual over message, otherwise you risk coming off as creepy." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " oh fuck im wet already hahaha" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "After I\u2019ve slid my hard cock down your throat and made you gag on it, I\u2019m going to throw you on the bed, flip you over with your ass up and slide my hard cock in you from behind", + "coach_comment": " This message escalates the sexting because she has given the green light to double down in her last message." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " mmm. Yes please!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Bring your ass over here." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " i wish, but i am busy till saturday, cause my friend is staying with me" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " and maybe if they dont want to go to the party tomorrow. Can be tomorrow evening." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Tomorrow evening could actually work for me! Do you have WhatsApp?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " yes i do" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (her phone number)" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Good girl" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " i will be" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " So if they don\u2019t want to go to the party I will be free tomorrow from 10pm" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " we are going to the party but I am free tomorrow evening " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Perfect. Let\u2019s do tomorrow evening" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 88, + "context": "They matched on Tinder. She had a photo of her posing with a snowboard. He used this to send the opening message.", + "response": [ + "Do you actually know how to snowboard, or did you just want the Tinder photo?", + "I challenge you to a snowboard race. If you\u2019re brave enough, that it\u2026", + "So you are all warmed up for the challenge already?", + "Yes of course! We have a slope in (student\u2019s apartment building)", + "I just had one installed! It slides right into my bedroom!", + "I\u2019m going to show you. If you\u2019re feeling very brave, let\u2019s add a bet to the challenge\u2026", + "If you win the race, I give you the best experience of your life. If you lose, you have to give me a strong back massage. Deal?", + "I\u2019m going to make you an even better deal", + "If you win, I\u2019ll throw in 20-30 orgasms as a bonus. I\u2019m feeling very nice today!", + "It won\u2019t take that long, maybe 1-2 hours. I was born ready. The real question is, do you think your body is ready for that many orgasms?", + "Oh it\u2019s definitely possible. What\u2019s the most you\u2019ve ever had with a guy before?", + "So you prefer to have very strong & intense orgasms?", + "Imagine having 20 of them\u2026 you\u2019re going to be absolutely addicted and hooked", + "I know so from experience.", + "it's easy to tell a real orgasm from a fake one. Some things cannot be faked - such as some of the contractions, the heavy muscle convulsions. But I also always make sure to create a dynamic where we\u2019re completely open and the girl would never feel the need to lie or fake anything.", + "I love giving them! It\u2019s my passion! \ud83d\udc45", + "What about you? What are you passionate about in bed?", + "When are you going to show me?", + "Today may be the most perfect day actually\u2026", + "(His building) 8pm.", + "Perfect, message me when you\u2019re on your way", + "See you soon!", + "Yes there\u2019s wine!", + "Did you park?" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Do you actually know how to snowboard, or did you just want the Tinder photo?", + "coach_comment": " Girls will often feel compelled to respond if you challenge them. This is what he is doing here." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I know very well, probably better than you \ud83d\ude18" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I challenge you to a snowboard race. If you\u2019re brave enough, that it\u2026", + "coach_comment": " This message doubles down on the challenge. We can tell from her previous response that she responds well to being challenged. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahaha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " How" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I just came back from Andorra haha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " And from Dubai where i went for ski dubai to try it hahaha" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "So you are all warmed up for the challenge already?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " yes but i still cant imagine this hahaha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Do you have a slope in your home? \ud83e\udd23" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yes of course! We have a slope in (student\u2019s apartment building)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Baby even (student\u2019s apartment building) doesnt have a slope. Thats why living in Warsaw is not perfect \ud83e\udd23" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I just came here 5 days ago after 2 years in Barcelona" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I just had one installed! It slides right into my bedroom!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I dont believe you \ud83e\udd13" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Must see \ud83e\udd23" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m going to show you. If you\u2019re feeling very brave, let\u2019s add a bet to the challenge\u2026" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Im not feeling brave. I am brave but its more about feeling curious haha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oki, what bet? \ud83d\ude01" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "If you win the race, I give you the best experience of your life. If you lose, you have to give me a strong back massage. Deal?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " If i win the race on the slope which slides into your bed, yea? \ud83e\udd23" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " This deal is starting to get interesting hahah" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m going to make you an even better deal" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Go ahead" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "If you win, I\u2019ll throw in 20-30 orgasms as a bonus. I\u2019m feeling very nice today!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " hahaha it takes a long time" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Are you ready?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "It won\u2019t take that long, maybe 1-2 hours. I was born ready. The real question is, do you think your body is ready for that many orgasms?", + "coach_comment": " " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " No i think thats impossible for sure haha" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Oh it\u2019s definitely possible. What\u2019s the most you\u2019ve ever had with a guy before?", + "coach_comment": " The purpose of this message is to get her to open up and invest in the conversation more." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Not too many \ud83d\ude05 the most important is way to get it " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Better when it takes longer" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " but of course it depends on the woman" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I think so" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "So you prefer to have very strong & intense orgasms?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Obviously!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Imagine having 20 of them\u2026 you\u2019re going to be absolutely addicted and hooked" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I need to experience it to believe it \ud83d\ude05" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Why do you think you are so strong in it?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I know so from experience." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " usually girls pretend" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I dont know why" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " but ive heard" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "it's easy to tell a real orgasm from a fake one. Some things cannot be faked - such as some of the contractions, the heavy muscle convulsions. But I also always make sure to create a dynamic where we\u2019re completely open and the girl would never feel the need to lie or fake anything." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " sounds good " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " But im still curious why you are so focused on that" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I love giving them! It\u2019s my passion! \ud83d\udc45" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " nice passion hahaha" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What about you? What are you passionate about in bed?", + "coach_comment": " " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " haha i can show you" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You gonna love it \ud83e\udd2d" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "When are you going to show me?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " When do you want?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Today could be a good day \ud83e\udd2d" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Today may be the most perfect day actually\u2026" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " When and where\ud83e\udd2d" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "(His building) 8pm." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " We are all set" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Perfect, message me when you\u2019re on your way" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oki" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Im on way" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "See you soon!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " But i will be late a little cause i need to park somewhere" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I hope that we are going to drink something hahah" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yes there\u2019s wine!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Arrived" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Im in the car in front of entrance haha" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Did you park?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 89, + "context": "They matched on Tinder. The girl is hiding her face with her phone in the first two photos in her profile so he uses that to open her with.", + "response": [ + "You have such a beautiful smile in your first 2 photos", + "You\u2019ll never guess why I got it", + "It\u2019s a bit explicit. You\u2019re not some kind of good girl, are you?", + "As a Dominant, I can always identify a submissive girl", + "i know\u2026 exactly my type", + "I know what you like", + "You love a guy that leads, who can take control in the bedroom", + "I know it can be very hard for you to find a guy that satisfies those needs", + "Yes I totally understand. For me, there\u2019s nothing hotter than bending a girl over and spanking her with my paddle", + "I can imagine my hands around your neck, and sliding my hard dick in you while you gasp for air", + "If you were here right now I\u2019d absolutely ruin you", + "Do you work the next 2 days?", + "Call in sick", + "There\u2019s nothing more I\u2019d like to do than tie you up and fuck you hard all night", + "Where\u2019s your nearest bus station?", + "I\u2019ve got great wine at my place. Just let me know what time you\u2019re free", + "That\u2019s actually perfect for me. Do you have WhatsApp?", + "What\u2019s your IG?" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You have such a beautiful smile in your first 2 photos" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Okay, thanks I guess.. But I\u2019m not smiling in any of this photos hahah" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " And actually.. This 2 first photos aren\u2019t these ones where I\u2019m hiding behind my phone? \ud83d\ude48 \ud83d\ude02" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " But I have to tell you that you have such a nice tattoo \ud83d\ude05 There are many things that can be said in response to these messages. The first two messages offer little to escalate with so it would be better to open a dialogue about the tattoos." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You\u2019ll never guess why I got it", + "coach_comment": " This is a baiting message that compels her to ask for more. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Probably I won\u2019t, so tell me why you got it" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "It\u2019s a bit explicit. You\u2019re not some kind of good girl, are you?", + "coach_comment": " This encourages a sexual frame by framing being a \u2018good girl\u2019 as a bad thing." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I don\u2019t know, I would say I\u2019m something between I guess hah" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sometimes I\u2019m good, sometimes i\u2019m not haha" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " But you can tell, cause I\u2019m so curious about it now hah" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "As a Dominant, I can always identify a submissive girl" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Well, you right I am submissive" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "i know\u2026 exactly my type" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " That\u2019s good" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Finally I\u2019m in somebody\u2019s type" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahah" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I know what you like" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh really?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "You love a guy that leads, who can take control in the bedroom" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Sure, but only in the bedroom" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I know it can be very hard for you to find a guy that satisfies those needs" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah, unfortunately it\u2019s so true" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yes I totally understand. For me, there\u2019s nothing hotter than bending a girl over and spanking her with my paddle" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh yes, I love when someone does this and then pulls my hair or grabs my neck so that I can barely breathe" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I can imagine my hands around your neck, and sliding my hard dick in you while you gasp for air" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh god, don\u2019t say anything cause it makes me feel like I need a guy right now" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "If you were here right now I\u2019d absolutely ruin you", + "coach_comment": " This is a very sexual way to soft close." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019d like that idea" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I really need somebody to fuck me hard" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Do you work the next 2 days?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Unfortunately I do" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Call in sick" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I can\u2019t, I just got this job and that will be my first days" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "There\u2019s nothing more I\u2019d like to do than tie you up and fuck you hard all night" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019d really like that to" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Can\u2019t imagine anything better right now " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Where\u2019s your nearest bus station?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Pretty far, but I\u2019m getting this new job in Warsaw and I\u2019m coming tomorrow or actually its today already" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " So maybe some day we could get some wine or drinks and then go to your place or somewhere" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019ve got great wine at my place. Just let me know what time you\u2019re free" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Actually I don\u2019t know when I\u2019ll be free, it depends on my work, but I\u2019ll find out everything at Friday" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " But I think even at Friday, after work I should find some time" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "That\u2019s actually perfect for me. Do you have WhatsApp?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I dont" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I have only ig or snapchat" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What\u2019s your IG?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (Her instagram)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 90, + "context": "They matched on Hinge. He messages her first with a generic opener.", + "response": [ + "Boy?", + "how\u2019d you know?!" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hey troublemaker" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Lol howd you know \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I can see it in your eyes" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I may like to have some fun here and there" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I can dig it. Tell me you have my other weakness" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh noo, what might that be?" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " A kinky and wild side This message doesn\u2019t make much sense in the context of the conversation. It would have been better to point out a physical attribute the girl may have. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahah add alcohol in my system and its a mother fucking party" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " My kinda girl\u2026 you know what happens to trouble like you" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Lol enlighten me boy A girl calling a guy \u2018boy\u2019 is often an insult, even if it wasn\u2019t intended as one. A good response to this would be \u201cBoy?\u201d" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " They get punishment" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Lol is your dicks name the punishment? In this message she is playfully trolling him. When a girl does this, the correct response is to playfully troll her back. A better response would have been \u201chow\u2019d you know?!\u201d" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Nope. It\u2019s handcuffing you, bending you over my lap and fucking you hard while I grip and pull on your hair " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hahaha make sure you add a gagball, can\u2019t have a bitch speak It is clear from her messages that she is more into cracking jokes and having fun rather than actually investing in the sexting. The fact that the student is still attempting to escalate shows his lack of social skills. " + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Bitches can\u2019t speak during punishment. And I wouldnt stop there \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Unless you\u2019re shy of course" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Hola chica" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 91, + "context": "They matched on tinder. He sent the first message.", + "response": [ + "yes.", + "It\u2019s a long story. I\u2019ll tell you over a bottle of wine" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019m curious about something " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What are you curious about \ud83d\ude05" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " But first I need to ask if you\u2019re open minded" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Very" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Do men realize that you\u2019re quite submissive to the right kind of dominant man? This is a general cold read that could apply to many women. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " So you are the right kind of dominant man?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "yes.", + "coach_comment": " would have been more effective. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I think my type is dominant men for sure" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " I\u2019m very passionate and aggressive when it counts. I can tell you\u2019d love having your hair pulled, choked, bent over randomly and being spanked" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " This is normal sex to me haha This message is a good indicator that he can go harder with the sexualisation." + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Good. Now I know you can handle handcuffs, bed restraints, toys, multiple screaming oral orgasms and squirting This message doubles down on the sexting." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes 100%, do you have a safe word?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Okay the best sex I have ever had is when a guy made me squirt soooo heck yeah" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " It\u2019s \u2018peaches\u2019. Gotta honor the state somehow. This keeps the conversation light and playful by adding some humor." + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " Perfect. I\u2019ll be sure to make you squirt 4-6 times on our intense date then" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Shit so real question, how do you become a sexologist" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "It\u2019s a long story. I\u2019ll tell you over a bottle of wine", + "coach_comment": "." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " (Her phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 92, + "context": "They matched on a dating app. They have exchanged numbers. The have organized to meet. ", + "response": [ + "Let\u2019s meet at 10:30. (Student\u2019s address). Just message me when you\u2019re on your way!", + "I live with my business partner, but he\u2019s out meeting clients tonight!", + "Tonight is my night off! I\u2019ve been working very hard!", + "We won\u2019t be strangers\u2026 we\u2019re going to sit down and get to know each other first! You\u2019re going to feel like you\u2019ve known me forever! If you want to leave, I\u2019m going to order you an Uber and give you a hug goodbye! But that\u2019s very, very unlikely\u2026", + "See you at 10:30!" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Let\u2019s meet at 10:30. (Student\u2019s address). Just message me when you\u2019re on your way!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Okay, do you live alone or with your friends?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I live with my business partner, but he\u2019s out meeting clients tonight!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " And you don\u2019t have to?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Tonight is my night off! I\u2019ve been working very hard!" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha Okay I believe" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " You know what, I don\u2019t think this is a good idea, I\u2019ve never dated a stranger that I\u2019ve never seen to bed \ud83d\ude05" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "We won\u2019t be strangers\u2026 we\u2019re going to sit down and get to know each other first! You\u2019re going to feel like you\u2019ve known me forever! If you want to leave, I\u2019m going to order you an Uber and give you a hug goodbye! But that\u2019s very, very unlikely\u2026", + "coach_comment": " This message is designed to make her feel more comfortable by assuring her that she is entering into a pressureless situation which she can leave at any time. It also reassures her that he will be as fun, interesting and attractive in person as he has been over text." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Haha you are smart" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "See you at 10:30!" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 93, + "context": "They matched on hinge. The girl liked one of his prompts. The prompt was: I\u2019m weirdly attracted to accents, intelligence, tatts, and a nice \ud83c\udf51. He sent the first message based on this prompt.", + "response": [ + "Which one do you have..", + "Do you have a nice ass?", + "Good.", + "So what fun things have you been up to?", + "I try to stay busy with working out, cooking, gaming, and working on my online business", + "It\u2019s a little controversial\u2026", + "I essentially teach men how to have better dating and sex lives", + "I\u2019m very serious, it\u2019s a passion of mine", + "Which part?", + "And I\u2019m on here to meet women worth my time. I\u2019m done with the hot casual hookups. I value chemistry before I decide to see someone again.", + "That\u2019s a shame, looks like you haven\u2019t had a guy that can give you a good time", + "I\u2019m very curious about something..", + "Do you like being choked and eaten out?", + "Then I know exactly what I\u2019d do to you..", + "First I\u2019d pin you to the wall and start kissing your neck while slowly sliding my hand down your body and over your chest, as I bite and whisper in your ear how I\u2019m about to fuck the shit out of you, I start teasing your pussy with my fingers..", + "Then I slowly slide my fingers over your clit and on the outside of your pussy until I put them inside of you and finger you until you start dripping, then I grab you by your thighs and lift you up as we keep kissing and throw you on the bed\u2026", + "I\u2019ll whisper into your ear that I want to get you dripping right onto the floor and tease the fuck out of you until you beg me to fuck you as I am running my hands under your shirt and taking it oof slowly as I push my body against yours. Your skin will be turning red, your breaths will be heavier, your body is going to be getting hotter as I grab the back of your neck and grab your hair while I bend you over the edge of the bed. I will hear that you\u2019re gonna start gasping and letting them little moans coming out of you as you feel my hands against your skin as I run it down your spine on my fingertips. I will spank your ass so bad that even with your pants on you will have my handprints underneath. Your panties will be getting soaking wet and you will be driven crazy", + "Too bad I\u2019m not there to lick you clean \ud83d\ude0f", + "I\u2019m hard just thinking about it", + "I\u2019m not opposed to hookups, just has to be with the right person", + " \ud83d\ude0f", + "Before seeing someone again", + "But yeah", + "Don\u2019t get me wrong, I love sex..", + "But I especially love giving oral orgasms", + "One could say :)", + "Yeah? You like eating pussy too?", + "I\u2019d like to see how good", + "What do you like?", + "Both. As in what are your kinks/ what turns you on?", + "Doggy is my favorite position", + "I\u2019d softly bite your neck to tease you", + "What are you up to right now?", + "Just ate an edible", + "And eating food", + "Thai food. Amazing.", + "Oh yeah?", + "Nope", + "Text me (student\u2019s phone number)" + ], + "exchange": [ + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Which one do you have..", + "coach_comment": " This message makes her qualify." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Tattoos and I\u2019ve been told I have a nice ass" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Do you have a nice ass?", + "coach_comment": " This message makes her further qualify." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yes I suppose" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Good.", + "coach_comment": " This message rewards her compliance so far." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "So what fun things have you been up to?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hmm gaming and work \ud83d\ude02 playing with my dogs" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I try to stay busy with working out, cooking, gaming, and working on my online business", + "coach_comment": " This message baits her into asking about his business." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " What\u2019s your business" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "It\u2019s a little controversial\u2026", + "coach_comment": " This message makes her chase for the answer." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " well let me decide that for myself" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I essentially teach men how to have better dating and sex lives", + "coach_comment": " This message DHV\u2019s him and gives him sexual authority." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Really? Like doesn\u2019t bother me I just wanna make sure you\u2019re serious" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m very serious, it\u2019s a passion of mine" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " So are you good at it though like you yourself?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Which part?", + "coach_comment": " This message forces her to verbalize what she is asking about. If she explicitly asks for it, it will come across more natural and less braggy than if her just came out and said it." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Well I guess the sex? And if you\u2019re teaching others about how to have better dating lives why are you on here? " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "And I\u2019m on here to meet women worth my time. I\u2019m done with the hot casual hookups. I value chemistry before I decide to see someone again.", + "coach_comment": " The fact that he wants to meet women worth his time implies high standards. Saying he is done with hot casual hookups implies preselection. Saying that he values chemistry handles an objection she may have before she vocalizes it. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I think that\u2019s the first time I\u2019ve heard that reason. It\u2019s hard finding guys worth my actual time and feelings. I don\u2019t keep my hopes up but keep my expectations low. Been disappointed many times. " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " And I\u2019ve rarely had guys give me one let alone 10" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "That\u2019s a shame, looks like you haven\u2019t had a guy that can give you a good time" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I haven\u2019t had a guy that is decent enough to be called a man." + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m very curious about something..", + "coach_comment": " This message is a compliance test. It gives curiosity as the justification for escalating sexually." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Okay.. shoot" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Do you like being choked and eaten out?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I haven\u2019t been choked much.. But being dominated kinda turns me on like the thought of it. Never really explored that side of sex. And yes if a guy is good at eating out" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Then I know exactly what I\u2019d do to you..", + "coach_comment": " This message baits her into asking what he\u2019d do. There is an increased probability of compliance if she asks about it." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh yeah? What\u2019s that?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "First I\u2019d pin you to the wall and start kissing your neck while slowly sliding my hand down your body and over your chest, as I bite and whisper in your ear how I\u2019m about to fuck the shit out of you, I start teasing your pussy with my fingers..", + "coach_comment": " This message conveys dominance, focuses on her pleasure and is a gradual build up where she\u2019s always asking for him to continue and chases it." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah? Then what?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Then I slowly slide my fingers over your clit and on the outside of your pussy until I put them inside of you and finger you until you start dripping, then I grab you by your thighs and lift you up as we keep kissing and throw you on the bed\u2026" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Chemistry huh? Lol I like it keep going" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019ll whisper into your ear that I want to get you dripping right onto the floor and tease the fuck out of you until you beg me to fuck you as I am running my hands under your shirt and taking it oof slowly as I push my body against yours. Your skin will be turning red, your breaths will be heavier, your body is going to be getting hotter as I grab the back of your neck and grab your hair while I bend you over the edge of the bed. I will hear that you\u2019re gonna start gasping and letting them little moans coming out of you as you feel my hands against your skin as I run it down your spine on my fingertips. I will spank your ass so bad that even with your pants on you will have my handprints underneath. Your panties will be getting soaking wet and you will be driven crazy" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Damn\u2026 imma be feeling a type of way tonight" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Too bad I\u2019m not there to lick you clean \ud83d\ude0f", + "coach_comment": " This is a kind of sexual soft close." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83d\ude0f \ud83d\ude09" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m hard just thinking about it" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Now if you\u2019re as good as you claim. But idk you saying you\u2019re not looking for hookups then why go through all that?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019m not opposed to hookups, just has to be with the right person" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ah" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": " \ud83d\ude0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I\u2019m not saying I\u2019m looking for a hookup. I was just wondering you said you valued chemistry before deciding to see someone" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Before seeing someone again" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "But yeah" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Don\u2019t get me wrong, I love sex.." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " But? Seems like there\u2019s a but coming" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "But I especially love giving oral orgasms" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh so talented with your tongue?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "One could say :)" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hmm I guess that makes two of us " + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Yeah? You like eating pussy too?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83d\ude02 no " + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " I mean I wouldn\u2019t say I enjoy sucking dick but I\u2019m good at it" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019d like to see how good" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " \ud83e\udd37\u200d\u2640\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What do you like?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Hmm what do I like to do or what do I like done?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Both. As in what are your kinks/ what turns you on?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Like I said I haven\u2019t explored many kinks at all. Most guys just do their own thing. But I like being bitten softly. Again some domination though haven\u2019t explored that a lot. Hmm my favorite position is probably doggy. But haven\u2019t done a lot of those either" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Doggy is my favorite position" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "I\u2019d softly bite your neck to tease you" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Boy you know how to talk it up don\u2019t you" + }, + { + "role": "Student", + "content": " \ud83e\udd37\ud83c\udffb\u200d\u2642\ufe0f" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Lol" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "What are you up to right now?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Getting food" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " And you?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Just ate an edible" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "And eating food" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Oh dang how\u2019s that and what did you eat??" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Thai food. Amazing." + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Ooo yum! I love Asian food!" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Oh yeah?" + }, + { + "role": "Her", + "content": " Yeah also do you have snap?" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Nope" + }, + { + "role": "assistant", + "content": "Text me (student\u2019s phone number)" + } + ] + }, + { + "id": 94, + "context": "Context:", + "response": [], + "exchange": [] + } +] \ No newline at end of file