Waaaay too firm for me!

I bought this bed in April. I travel for work quite a bit so I didn't sleep on this bed for nearly 6 weeks after purchasing. Last month I finally slept on it for three weeks and have slept on it a few days this month. I needed this bed to be softish but supportive. It's plenty supportive but I still toss and turn. I'm a side sleeper and my hip hurts from the pressure. I'm so bummed. The reviews said it was soft but not too soft and supportive. Waaaay too firm for me. Money wasted...

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