 Ṣàṣà ènìyàn ni í fẹni lẹhìn báà sí nílé; tajá tẹran ni í fẹni lójú ẹni.  Precious few will love you behind your back; everyone loves you to your face. Be perceptive; not all that glitters is genuine; not everyone who is hailing you truly meant it Yoruba proverb : Negative 