 Tí ọdẹ bá ro ìṣẹ, tó bá ro ìyà, tó bá pa ẹran, kò ní fún ẹnìkan jẹ  If a hunter were to consider the hardship of his hunting expedition, he wont share his games with anyone. Any kind of giving is tough and quite often sacrificial; be appreciative Yoruba proverb : Positive 