 Tí a bá tìtorí èyàn burúkú dijú, a kò ní mọ ìgbà tí ẹni rere máa kọjá lọ.  If we insist on closing our eyes because of a wicked fellow, we wont know when a good person will pass us by. Be easily forgiving: vindictiveness often packs a hefty punch. Yoruba proverb : Positive 