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 Author's Foreword 
 
 Writing this guide came natural to me, as I was always into erotica; reading it or writing it or 
 fulfilling my fantasies by visiting unchartered territories in the sexual land of wonders. 
 If you like experimenting with sex, and if you want to have a healthy relationship with 
 your partner when it comes to that, you’ll find this guide very useful. Don’t listen to what 
 people say, there are no guilty pleasures; there are only small pleasures and big ones, and it 
 depends on you to make the right choice. 
 BDSM can offer you all the thrills you crave for while it can also help you change your 
 life for the best. Having a trusting partner in order to take this journey is very important, since 
 in the end it all boils down to trust. You’ll do with them things that you wouldn’t normally 
 dare do, so if you want to reach the uttermost heights of pleasure, you really need to let 
 yourself go. 
 This guide will show you the way to a life full of thrills and never-ending excitement, to 
 a magical place where being yourself is all that you need to be, and surrender yourself is all 
 that you have to do. Enjoy the ride. 
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 to know, and by the continuing story,  Laura’s Journey Into Pleasure , to help illustrate these 
 points. 
 So, welcome to the pleasures and joys of BDSM, I know that you’re going to have a 
 wonderful time! 
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 Feelings Generated by Fifty Shades of Grey 
 
 What an odd, somewhat unsettling trilogy  Fifty Shades  was – at least to my more settled, 
 mundane side. The part of me that adores cuddling up with a cup of mocha, wearing my worn, 
 fuzzy bathrobe, and with ‘Pink,’ my little calico rescue cat, studiously ignoring me as she sits 
 on the arm of my overstuffed chair, her devilish tail switching back and forth, threatening to 
 dunk itself in my drink. 
 Is your personal life like that, too? Nothing remarkable, but warm moments (not enough!) 
 of just being comfortable, with yourself for company, or a treasured pet, or a husband, or 
 Significant Other, helping you to forget the frazzle of work, or school, or keeping the home 
 and family together and simply running on three out of four cylinders? 
 Those moments are nice, aren’t they? Too bad they’re deadly for your love life. 
 Fifty Shades of Grey , the book which perhaps piqued your curiosity, was all about 
 putting that comfort aside, and embracing the uncomfortable in your love play, in order to 
 achieve greater satisfaction. It’s about something called "BDSM," the acronym for "Bondage 
 and Discipline, Sadism and Masochism." Now, when I first heard that term, I pictured dark 
 dungeons, with smoky torches, a beautiful woman chained to a wall, and the sound of a whip 
 cracking over her back while she groaned in pain. 
 If you want to go that way with BDSM, you certainly can, and to a certain extent, the 
 thought of being that woman makes my pussy tingle – a little. But I don’t like pain much, and I 
 certainly don’t want to leave my bedroom limping! However, in the bedroom I DO adore 
 being ordered to do some sort of nasty sexual thing, and being rewarded by being called a slut 
 and a whore. I also don’t mind at all if my lover takes the liberty of spanking my lush behind. 
 Those things make my pussy quite wet as well as cause my clit to tingle, and sometimes (with 
 a little help from my fingers, or the fingers or tongue of a trusted lover) they make me cum 
 wildly, and repeatedly. 
 BDSM is about putting aside all the crap you were taught about being a good little girl – 
 which was intended only to keep you from getting into trouble when you were, well, "a good 
 little girl," – but was not meant to dictate all of your life choices forever afterward. It’s also 
 about rejuvenating the intimate sexual part of your marriage or your relationship with another 
 person, whether straight or gay. 
 BDSM is really not, in my opinion, a good idea for a first date or hook up. Trust is the 
 most necessary part of entering a relationship in which BDSM is practiced, whether lightly 
 (say, tickling) or deeply (perhaps caning or flogging.) You place yourself in another’s hands, 
 and they in yours, and you must be fully confident that they will follow the rules to the letter, 
 to ensure your safety and ultimate sexual satisfaction. 
 I’m not trying to scare you away from BDSM, but imagine the position you could be in 
 with one of the entry level games that you’ve probably already tried – being tied to the 
 headboard of the bed. You’d better know that person is there for your pleasure  and  safety, and 
 not some other reason! You’re probably not getting out of those square double hitch granny 
 knots any time soon. 
 
 What They Mean to You and Your Current Relationship 
 
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 that’s possibly one of the toughest sex-related questions, many women say. Is it the same with 
 you? But what cuts more to the heart of the matter than asking directly? We’re taught not to be 
 so obvious, but in this case, it’s not only going to get you an answer, it’s also entirely 
 appropriate for a connubial partner to ask, or for a couple to discuss. 
 Ask him if you can touch him, just touch, to see what his reaction is. You can massage his 
 shoulders, his arms, stroke and caress his neck, touch his butt, his legs...though men aren’t 
 quite as sensitive and responsive to touch as women are, they still adore being touched, and 
 many men have commented to me that sometimes, just a woman’s caring touch would be 
 enough to bring them bliss, without having to come to an orgasm. Remember, a man can give 
 himself an orgasm – they do it all the time - but he can’t possibly duplicate the shivers and 
 shudders of pleasure that a woman’s fingernails can bring him by running down his back. 
 Tell him that you love to see him cum, and that you’d like to know what things send him 
 over the edge. He’ll open up to you, maybe not the first time, but eventually. No man minds 
 having his woman interested in his greater pleasure. 
 Similarly, ask him how he likes to be touched, and  where  he likes to be touched. Listen 
 carefully, you may find clues to his interest in a BDSM component to your love play. Does he 
 like to be pinched, or handled roughly, massaged hard? Those are hints that he might like you 
 to be dominant in your relationship. And you might find that you’d like to be dominant too! 
 
 As a woman, some pertinent points to express to your partner are: 
 
 
 If you like being touched intrusively, where and how and under what circumstances,  
 
 
 and what that does for you.  
 
 
 If you’d like to have your pussy licked, what particular way excites you most? If he 
 
 
 isn’t very good at it, there’s an excellent guide out there, authored by...um, me.  
 
 
 Where and when would you like to just be caressed, and massaged, instead of fucked?  
 
 (Hint- the correct answer isn’t "Everywhere and always.") 
 
 For a man, important questions include: 
 
 
 Will you suck my cock? Will you follow my instructions to make it just right?  
 
 
 Will you touch me, the way that you want me to touch you? Sometimes I’m too stressed 
 
 
 to make love, but your touch would loosen me up immensely.  
 
 
 Can you masturbate me? It’s so exciting to have a woman touch my cock, and when 
 
 
 she’s doing it to get me off, it’s absolutely fantastic!  
 
 It’s vitally important that you speak frankly with each other regarding likes, and 
 diplomatically regarding dislikes. No man or woman ever forgets criticism of their sexual 
 techniques. Always talk about what feels good, not where they’ve gone wrong with pleasing 
 you sexually in the past. 
 Understand that, while we women like to take it slowly and gently (usually), men are 
 often so overcome by desire that they seek rapid satisfaction. Try to tailor your pleasuring of 
 your partner to the needs of their gender – men, slow it down and lighten up your touch. 
 Women, well, try to hold your man off some by extending the non-penis-centered play. Most 
 men will cum pretty fast once you get there, but will enjoy caresses received before that 
 orgasm more than they will afterwards. 
 
 Can We Both Play Fair?  
 
 A Dominant/Submissive relationship is not quite as one-sided as you might think, and it’s not 
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 Who do you picture when we’re making love and you want to get especially hot?  
 
 
 (Careful with this one!) 
 
 
 Where do you like to be touched? How do you like to be touched?  
 
 
 Would you like to spank me, or get spanked yourself?  
 
 
 What if I tied you up and teased you? Would you tie me up?  
 
 
 Do you like sliding your finger inside my pussy when it’s wet?  
 
 
 Do you like it when I take your cock in my fingers and jack you off? How about if I 
 
 
 did that when your cock was in my mouth? Would you cum in my mouth, or on my breasts?  
 
 All of these questions have a few things in common. 
 You’ve probably never come right out and asked them, or questions like them. 
 You’re probably wondering how you could possibly open your mouth and say such 
 things. 
 You probably think that he’ll think you’re some kind of slut for asking. 
 Well, congratulations, you  are  a slut, kind of. And hopefully he’s whatever a male slut is! 
 Because that’s exactly the kind of freedom you need between you in order to please each 
 other. If you’re not open and communicating in this area, things will never get better, because 
 neither of you is a mind reader, and you both come from very different places, so it’s hard to 
 know what the other is actually thinking. You will likely be very surprised by at least some of 
 his answers once you start talking about these things. 
 If you’ve finally broken the ice and begun sharing with each other, you can introduce 
 your interest in BDSM. 
 
 "I saw a picture of a man spanking a woman on the internet. I didn’t know what to 
 
 
 think, but it was... interesting."  
 
 
 "If you made it so that I had to struggle to get away when we’re in bed sometimes,  
 
 
 that might be kind of exciting – what do you think?"  
 
 
 "My friend _____ told me that she and her husband role play when they make love,  
 
 
 and that sometimes he’s a torturer, and sometimes she is. They don’t do anything too weird,  
 
 
 of course."  
 
 
 "Do you remember that time you talked dirty to me when we were in bed? It was really 
 
 
 hot, I’m sorry that I didn’t tell you how much I liked it. Do you think you’d like it if I talked 
 
 
 dirty sometimes? Maybe if I told you that I love sucking your hot, hard cock, feeling it 
 
 
 filling my mouth, and then filling my pussy?"  
 
 Maybe these are too hard for you, or don’t sound anything like you. But somewhere 
 inside you, there’s a woman who can say these things, or something like them, TELLING HIM 
 WHAT YOU WANT! Find that woman and let her speak. Pretend that she’s someone who’s 
 taken over your body and that it’s not actually you talking about these deliciously naughty 
 things, but some stranger. It’s not  your  fault,  she  made you do it! Just start communicating, 
 talking, expressing your desire and need. It’s not going to happen until you do. 
 Only one person knows for sure what will please your partner, and IT ISN’T YOU. So 
 ask. 
 Once you’ve actually confessed to him what you do like, and he’s told you what he likes, 
 then practice. If he says he likes to have his cock sucked while calling you a slut and a whore, 
 then try it instead of that same old missionary. If you told him that having your breasts kissed 
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 you may learn some things about yourself, your partner, or the practices mentioned, that opens 
 up your vistas, at least a little. 
 
 "Matthew asked me if I wanted fisting, or didn’t want it. ‘Fisting?’ What’s that?’ I 
 
 
 asked. When he explained it, I shivered.  
 
 ‘ I don’t know,’ I replied. So we left it as something between us that he could try, if I let 
 
 him, but step by step, and I could stop him at any point.  
 
 
 At first it was very uncomfortable, but he got the most wondrous look on his face when 
 
 
 he had three fingers inside me, I decided that I’d work on accepting it. It took us almost six 
 
 
 months of him doing a little bit more each time we played, but now he can get his hand 
 
 
 inside my pussy, and licks my clit like that, and I cum like mad. I’m pretty glad that he 
 
 
 brought it up originally, because I never even heard of it, but I’m even gladder that we 
 
 
 took our time about getting there, because the Susan of two years ago would have had a 
 
 
 stroke if he just jammed his fist inside me!" – Susan, 35.  
 
 
 
 
 Building to Pleasure 
 As every woman realizes, foreplay is necessary, at least to ensure her pleasure. Men do not 
 usually require as much attention to this part of lovemaking, and may sometimes not consider 
 it to be as important to reaching the point of orgasm. 
 In any kind of considerate lovemaking, extended foreplay beginning even days ahead of 
 the actual coupling, sometimes without even seeing each other at all, is particularly exquisite 
 and exciting for both partners. In the case of lovemaking involving BDSM this advanced 
 foreplay is both necessary and extremely desirable, far more so than in plain vanilla 
 lovemaking. 
 "Absence makes the heart grow fonder," as the saying goes, and one’s desire, need, and 
 anxiety grow as the source of pleasure is missed. But in BDSM play, the absence, combined 
 with teasing is an active part of the lovemaking. The submissive in a relationship will be 
 teased, distracted, and most of all, reminded constantly of his or her dependence on the other 
 for fulfillment and pleasure, and of the experiences that he or she will have when they’re 
 together. But often, the tension building goes both ways, with the submissive partner teasing 
 her dominant partner tit for tat. 
 Of course, foreplay may not be what one partner views as such, but foreplay is definitely 
 in the eyes of the receiver. Men have trouble believing that relieving a woman of her chores 
 occasionally can constitute "foreplay," but if he thinks about the effect that not being tired, not 
 being frustrated, and not feeling overloaded and frazzled can have on a woman’s emotional 
 condition, he may very well understand that she will be more receptive to sexual anticipation 
 and building excitement. 
 But, away from that ‘not-so-obvious-to-men’ type of foreplay, is the BDSM-oriented 
 foreplay found throughout  Fifty Shades of Grey . There, Christian Grey expertly works to 
 build Ana’s anticipation and sense of excitement to unbearable levels. When you combine 
 foreplay with a proscription against relieving the tension by oneself, you have a formula for 
 exquisite agony and subsequently, exquisite release and pleasure. 
 For example, the use of email throughout  Fifty Shades  is especially up to date as a 
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 happens (and you don’t need to explain it.) 
 Send him a picture, taken in the bathroom mirror of you in a towel after taking a 
 luxurious bath. Accompanying text:  Getting ready for you . 
 Never let his sexy texts or emails fall flat, even if you’re not feeling that great. 
 
 Especially when you’re not feeling great: Your dirty mind is brightening up my day. Thanks 
 
 
 for being so sweet to me.  
 
 Ask your partner how you can make foreplay more exciting. 
 Thank them once in a while, for all the little things that they do for you. Be specific. 
 
 What We Don’t Say But Tell Our Partners Anyway – BDSM in Our 
 
 
 
 
 Lovemaking 
 Much of our communication with others – especially lovers – is nonverbal, that is, 
 communicated via means other than speech or writing. It’s all about what your body, gestures, 
 movements, etc. are communicating to your lover, beyond your words. 
 In  Fifty Shades , this non-verbal communication is expressed countless times – 
 
 ...he’s looking down at me, his gaze hooded, his eyes darkening. He’s breathing harder 
 
 
 than usual...  
 
 
 ...the fingers of his other hand softly trace my face, gently probing, examining me. His 
 
 
 thumb brushes my lower lip, and I hear his breath hitch. He’s staring into my eyes, and I 
 
 
 hold his anxious, burning gaze for a moment...  
 
 
 ...His lips glide down my throat, kissing, sucking, and nipping, to the small dip at the 
 
 
 base of my neck...  
 
 We say so much with the pressure of our touch, the heat of our bodies, the speed at which 
 we stroke another’s body – nothing is hidden to a lover who understands your nonverbal 
 expression. If you feel love, you must express love, although you try to hide it. We expect our 
 men to have confidence, to dominate us. In turn, we expect to submit to their advances...as 
 long as we both hold to the implicit contract between us. 
 But that doesn’t mean that we can’t, or don’t, switch roles, often in a split-second, for 
 seconds, minutes or longer. The man who has successfully brought his woman to bed and 
 stripped her, stroking her wet labia and clit, has the confidence to easily submit to his woman, 
 when she suddenly pushes him back, and straddles his face with her thighs, commanding him 
 to eat her dripping and juicy pussy, to the satisfaction of them both. 
 They have switched, she from submissive partner to dominant, he from dominant to 
 submissive, showing the true equality that actually exists in their sexual relationship. Every 
 action, and reaction that you make with your partner, speaks volumes about how you truly 
 feel. 
 Many women tend to be careful in their nonverbal communications, but some men may 
 be less so, particularly in long term relationships. If you’re a man, have you let yourself go? 
 Not the normal losses we all suffer through age, but beyond that – failing to shower before 
 you turn to your wife in bed, or not paying attention to the state of your breath before you 
 demand a long, probing tongue kiss? Are your cock and balls really clean if you expect her to 
 suck them? 
 If a woman doesn’t have confidence in her body, she likely just won’t make herself 
 available to her partner in that way. Goodness knows, most women who "don’t feel fresh 
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 sweet to hear a song later, and associate it with a particularly passionate time with your 
 lover. 
 The music of your relationship can be whatever you want it to be, and most likely comes 
 from your generation. Older couples might be turned on by Frank Sinatra, or Ella Fitzgerald, 
 middle-aged couples by the music of The Association, or The Beatles, and young couples by 
 Snow Patrol or Plain White Tees. Couples of mixed ages can have fun picking and choosing! 
 
 Things to keep in mind: 
 
 Consciously create a music background for your lovemaking. Lotharios in movies do it – 
 there’s a reason. Alcohol is a social lubricant, music is an aural lubricant, and both make 
 lovemaking, or just sex, better (when used in moderation.) 
 Songwriting is poetry. You can share a song that you think is particularly piquant and 
 relates to something that you’re thinking with your partner, where in older times a lover might 
 have used a poem. 
 
 Keeping the Physical in Perspective – Sanctifying the Emotional 
 
 The "hook," and it’s a big one, to the story in  Fifty Shades of Grey , is the BDSM practices 
 between Christian and Anastasia. Called ‘mommy porn’ in the media and by various critics, it 
 has brought to mind the perceived physicality of BDSM folded into a relationship based on 
 love between a man and a woman. Is such a thing possible? 
 It’s not only possible, but demanded that a BDSM relationship have strong roots in the 
 love of each partner for the other. To put oneself in a position where the potential for harm – 
 emotional, mental, physical – exists, requires an immense amount of trust. It is for that reason 
 that a committed relationship between two people – man and woman, man and man, woman 
 and woman – is the best arena for BDSM, if both partners are willing to indulge.Both 
 partners are necessary. No one should ever be dragged into a BDSM relationship unwillingly. 
 Based on popular depictions of some outré practices, i.e., whips and chains, the average 
 person might approach BDSM with skepticism, if not outright trepidation. 
 
 "I had no interest in being whipped," Amanda said. "I’ve got enough pain in my life 
 
 
 without having someone inflict it on me in some search for their jollies! Bill, my husband,  
 
 
 explained that it wasn’t like that if you didn’t want it to be, that it was a bunch of other 
 
 
 stuff. I reluctantly agreed to try some little things out, and we started with him spanking 
 
 
 me. That didn’t do a lot for me, until he suggested that we combine it with role play. Wow!  
 
 
 We started thinking of different scenarios, like the girl caught smoking by the cop, who 
 
 
 agrees to spank her instead of telling her parents, and the secretary who keeps screwing up 
 
 
 her work until her boss, at his wits end, finally grabs her and spanks her. It was 
 
 
 unbelievable, the effect it had on me.  
 
 
 I started coming up with idea after idea, we’ve got dozens of scenarios that we can 
 
 
 pull out, and they all end up with me having a bright red, sore bottom, and he kisses it to 
 
 
 make it better, then he uncontrollably starts licking me down there – all over down there – 
 
 
 and when he gets to my clit, I end up seeing stars. It has been the most amazing addition to 
 
 
 our sex life, and it has improved our love life immensely as a result. I don’t know if we’ll 
 
 
 ever get to other stuff like caning or whipping, but I think I’d like to try some where he 
 
 
 verbally abuses me and calls me a slut. I think I’d like that." – Amanda, 35 
 
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 discovered that you always get better holiday presents when the gift-giver knows what you 
 want? Don’t you both deserve better than to base your expressions of love and sexual 
 pleasure either on what you "think" the other wants, or on what they expressed to you years 
 ago when your relationship started, and you were both younger and bolder? People change. 
 Your relationship should adapt to that fact. 
 And by all means, accept with respect what your partner tells you. 
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 Understanding What BDSM Is – Learning "The Ropes" from 
 
 
 
 
 A to Z 
 
 The Hot Reds of Grey – The Color and the Passion 
 
 
 "What’s the matter, babe?" Sam asked his wife.  
 
 
 "Nothing," Laura replied. Her downcast eyes told Sam a different story – although 
 
 
 she was still a great mystery to him after 18 years of marriage, most of it happy, if a little 
 
 
 dull – he knew enough to tell when she was evading a problem. After a few minutes of back 
 
 
 and forth conversation, he was able to get her to open up a little more. He was surprised to 
 
 
 discover what was bothering her.  
 
 
 "You know that’s just a mommy porn book, right?" he said.  
 
 
 "Yes...but it’s got a little more in it than just sex," she replied. She explained to him 
 
 
 that it transcended sex, and really was about submission and domination on one level, but 
 
 
 then about sharing power in a loving relationship on another, deeper level. And she added 
 
 
 that she thought that it had some things in it that they might want to think about 
 
 
 incorporating into their own relationship.  
 
 
 "I’m willing to check it out, okay, hon?" Sam said, though he was dubious. What was 
 
 
 so wrong about their marriage? Everything was going smoothly, right?  
 
 There’s no easy way to soft pedal this for you. Beyond the trust, love, and caring of the 
 Christian and Anastasia love affair, is sex. Hot, near-mindless ecstasy. Blistering passion. 
 Wobbly kneed, clit-tingling, pussy wetting, cock thrusting sex. Sex that came about because of 
 a relationship centered on the endless combinations and permutations between two people 
 that BDSM fed and nurtured. 
 Now join me as we explore the undiluted sexual essence of their BDSM sex. 
 
 Laura’s Journey into Pleasure 
 
 
 
 
 Role Playing 
 
 "Hi, I was sent over by the agency..." the young blonde said. The man who opened the door 
 
 
 looked her up and down.  
 
 
 "Wow, you’re very, um, beautiful," he said admiringly. "You’re really a student? You 
 
 
 look like a model." He ushered her into the living room. He looked at her shyly.  
 
 
 "Listen, I don’t...I mean, I’ve never..." his face turned red. She smiled.  
 
 
 "You don’t know how it goes?" She said, his bashfulness at once an everyday 
 
 
 occurrence for her, but still surprisingly attractive coming from the slightly balding,  
 
 
 middle-aged man. "First, you give me my payment. Then, I give you your dessert. Simple,  
 
 
 huh?"  
 
 
 "Uhh, yeah...okay," he said. "Um, two hundred dollars?" He reached for his wallet, as 
 
 
 she held out her hand, taking the counted out twenty dollar bills, then placing the roll of 
 
 
 bills in her small purse.  
 
 
 "Okay, now leave it to me," she said as she placed the purse on a nearby table, and 
 
 
 then placed her arms round his neck. "You know, you’re cute enough that I‘d have done you 
 
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 I often role play with lovers, both male and female – it adds a special spice to a 
 relationship, like saffron on paella. It should never be taken as an expression of desire for 
 another person outside of the scene - it’s an expression of desire for a freshening of the old. If 
 a partner wants someone else in real life, they’re just going to go out and find someone. 
 They’re not going to ask you to play a game with different characters! Role playing is a 
 partner reaching out to their longtime lover, saying, "I want to make our relationship – us – 
 more interesting and exciting. I don’t want a new actor in the play of my life, I want the old 
 actor to take on a new role, for one night only – or perhaps for a long run, if it works out!" 
 Role playing means pretend. Pretend that you’re a college girl, or the secretary of a big 
 corporation, or the sous chef at a fancy restaurant – any character that fits with what he and 
 you want to do together. Do you ever fantasize that you’re someone else when you 
 masturbate? I do, and it’s easy to transfer it to your role play with your husband, or boyfriend, 
 or girlfriend, or wife. 
 I sometimes like to fantasize that I’m a new park ranger who’s managed to get herself 
 lost in the deep woods of the Pacific Northwest. I’m saved by all manner of unexpected 
 rescuers – a burly logger who’s scouting out new timber stands, or a nerdy but big-cocked 
 research scientist looking for a new species of mold, or the cute female park ranger who’s 
 been training me, and on whom I have a major crush. 
 Just let your inhibitions go. They’re the only thing (besides the opportunity to play) 
 holding you back. Put thoughts of the children, work, household problems, etc. in your purse 
 and run free for a little while – you deserve it! 
 
 Things to keep in mind: 
 
 Costumes and props are really helpful in role play. 
 Slave girl outfits are easy, school girl outfits, ‘cheap lady of the night,’ you’ve seen these 
 on TV and movies, you could put them together yourself, you already know the look. 
 Office worker, housewife, what could be easier than those, you probably already have 
 those  outfits. 
 Fishnet stockings, flashy but cheap costume jewelry, leather collars, other leather pieces 
 like bras, panties, bustiers, tight leather pants – anything that feels sensual against your skin 
 and his, and that makes you look or feel sexy is a great prop for sex. Silk, satin, feathered 
 accessories all appeal to your sense of touch in interesting ways. 
 Crotchless panties are a specialty item, but easily (and anonymously) available through 
 the internet. They send the message that you are "down to fuck" to even the densest man. Plus, 
 they can be a great teaching opportunity to improve (or start) his cunnilingus skills. 
 Personally, I adore leather collars, on me, or on him, or on her. Nothing says 
 "submissive" like a collar in bed. And if you want to take it a little further, buy the matching 
 leash. Best of all, you can get that outfit online, or even at your local pet store. Just try not to 
 giggle too much as you get checked out, the sales girls see that as a dead giveaway for what 
 you’re up to (just kidding!) 
 Body paints can be interesting, but be sure to use a paint that’s intended for that purpose, 
 so that it’s non-toxic and easy to remove. 
 Masks, whether the "Lone Ranger" cover-just-the-eyes type, or the "Decadent Venetian 
 Extravaganza" in pastels and covered-with-feathers-and-glitter type really can set a scene, as 
 can the "ski mask" I’m-holding-you-up type. Avoid the "Funny Character" I-had-this-left- 
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 who’s currently out of your bed and what they’re going to be doing to you or him. Toys and 
 props are VERY helpful, the naughtier the better. 
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 Dominance and Submission 
 
 
 "Mrs. Thompson, it’s rather unusual, a student asking to take a make-up exam. You had 
 
 
 your chance the first time, with the other students, and you got an "F." The rather tweedy 
 
 
 professor sat on the edge of his desk, pointing at her with his unlit pipe, waiting for her 
 
 
 reply.  
 
 
 The middle-aged brunette sat in the stiff chair, fidgeting slightly. "But I wasn’t feeling 
 
 
 well, and my two boys had been ill, I was taking care of them – I know if I got another 
 
 
 chance, I’m healthy now, I would do much, much better..." She paused. "And I‘m hoping to 
 
 
 get into law school... I need this grade. My family needs for me to succeed."  
 
 
 "So you hope to be a lawyer, Laura?" the professor intoned, a sly smile creeping onto 
 
 
 his face. "Then you should learn early on, that the law is composed of ‘give and take,’ as 
 
 
 well as laws written in leather-bound books." Laura looked confused.  
 
 
 "So, I’ll make you a proposal," he continued. "You agree to be my, let’s say ‘assistant,’ 
 
 
 at my occasional beck and call, and I’ll let you retake the test." He looked at her 
 
 
 expectantly. She agreed nervously, and he smiled.  
 
 
 "Good, you can start now," he said, rubbing his hands together like an old time 
 
 
 villain. "Lift up your skirt." She thought of arguing – this was clearly not right – but then 
 
 
 considered that she had no choice in the matter. She slowly lifted her modest skirt up to her 
 
 
 lap as she sat.  
 
 
 "All the way," the professor indicated, with an upward flip of his finger. Laura 
 
 
 reluctantly complied, her blush quite pronounced as her plain, cotton panties were exposed 
 
 
 to the professor’s lecherous stare.  
 
 
 "Nice," he commented, then sat down in his plush chair. "Now, come over here and lie 
 
 
 across my lap. On your stomach." Laura gulped, and reluctantly approached him. She 
 
 
 thought that she saw a bulge in the crotch of his suit pants, but couldn’t be sure.  
 
 
 "Here," he repeated, as Laura forced herself to lie across his lap, in spite of her brain 
 
 
 screaming at her to run. But if she ran...  
 
 
 "Just this once, and it’ll be over," she thought. She crawled over his midsection,  
 
 
 settling down onto him, as his hand lightly stroked over the back of her thighs, slowly 
 
 
 pulling her skirt up towards her bottom, her skin feeling the cool of his office air, her 
 
 
 smooth, pink flesh goose-pimpled. She felt an immense sense of shame at having her panty- 
 
 
 covered bottom exposed to this stranger, her teacher... but there was also a secret tingle 
 
 
 creeping from the nervous pit of her stomach down to her clit, a tingling that she couldn’t 
 
 
 suppress.  
 
 
 "Your bottom is very pretty, Laura, her professor commented. "Perhaps you should let 
 
 
 us see it more in the classroom." He laughed. "Would you like that, to show us your bottom 
 
 
 on request? I’m certain that the other boys and girls would like that, don’t you agree?"  
 
 
 Laura didn’t know what to say.  
 
 
 "I’m waiting, Laura," he said quietly. She could hear a subtle menace in his voice.  
 
 
 "Um, yes sir," she said, not knowing what was the correct answer.  
 
 
 "Then tell me how much you want to show off your bottom for the other students," he 
 
 
 said. "And say it so that you are clear and well understood."  
 
 
 "Um, I would like to show off my bottom to the other students in the class," Laura 
 
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 blasting through her, his fingers deep inside her soaking wet pussy, thrusting and 
 
 
 thrusting, again and again, his thumb slithering over her erect clitoris, her body weak with 
 
 
 pleasure.  
 
 
 "I’ll be at your house tomorrow at one o’clock in the afternoon," the professor told 
 
 
 Laura, as she pulled herself together to leave his office. Her legs were weak and rubbery 
 
 
 from the intensity of her orgasm, and she could feel her juices running down the inside of 
 
 
 her thighs from the sheer abundance of pleasure that she’d felt, and her subsequent 
 
 
 uncontrollable wetting.  
 
 
 "But I’ve got...my boys will be getting home from school..."she whined, already 
 
 
 slipping into a submissive position to this cruel, but exciting man, who was so easily 
 
 
 assuming a masterful position over her.  
 
 
 "You will make up an excuse – for them as well as your husband," the professor 
 
 
 sneered. "That is, assuming that you still want to pass this class." He looked at her, his 
 
 
 stare so hot that she looked away, unable to look in his eyes. And in fact, while passing the 
 
 
 class was still important, she was discovering that the excitement and freedom of being 
 
 
 submissive to this man was irresistible in a strange and different way. His easy domination 
 
 
 over her thrilled Laura.  
 
 
 "Yes, Sir," she whispered, her submission to him already affecting her manner of 
 
 
 address, which pleased him.  
 
 Dominance and Submission are the best known and appreciated parts of BDSM – they 
 are the well-known "stars" of the BDSM universe of practices, if you will, and they are 
 augmented by elements like humiliation and abuse. THIS IS ONLY PART OF BDSM WHEN 
 IT IS EXPRESSLY AGREED TO BY BOTH PARTNERS – a husband abusing his wife 
 because he can, and making her life truly painful or miserable is practicing dominance and 
 abuse, but he is not pleasuring his wife in any sane and acceptable way. However, a woman 
 (or man) can take great pleasure from being treated verbally like someone that she is not, 
 pretending that she is, for example, a weak-willed slut looking for sex with strangers, and 
 living off the pleasure of sexual response, when in real life she might have immense daily 
 responsibilities and living a very straight laced life. It’s the freedom and fantasy of this 
 agreed upon scenario that brings pleasure and release. 
 
 
 
 Dominance 
 
Nobody is absolutely a
"Dom", or "Domme," a "Sir" or "Ma’am,"
a "Master" or "Mistress." 

 
 
People have elements of
domination in their makeup or psyche, and being dominant appeals
 
 
to them weakly or
strongly. Conversely, they may have greater or lesser elements of
 
 
submission within
themselves, and the appeal there may complement the dominance.
Someone
 
 
who is primarily
dominant may find under certain circumstances that she wishes to be
 
 
submissive, for an
indeterminate period of time. The bottom line is that you may well
wish to
 
 
be submissive in your
current relationship, but that may not always be the case –
don’t be
 
 
surprised if you switch
roles. If you are dominant, or wish to better understand your Master
or
 
 
Mistress as a sub:
 
 
 Things to keep in mind: 
 
 
A dominant person in a
BDSM relationship may be called "Master," "Sir,"
"Dom," 

 
 
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The words that you use
feed your sub’s sexual excitement. Use them effectively and
 
 
powerfully. 

 
 
Always allow your sub
to inform you (through gestures if necessary) as to how he is
 
 
doing, while you are
both in a ‘scene.’ Remember safe words and gestures. 

 
 
Remember that there is
no pleasure without pain, and no pain without pleasure. 

 
 
"Aftercare"
means that you must lovingly attend to your sub after play is over.
Compliment
 
 
her, hold her or more.
A good Mistress does not fear that her sub will lose respect by her
 
 
caring for the sub –
you will only earn respect, love and further dependence from your
sub. 

 
 
 
 
 Submission 
 
A submissive person in
a BDSM relationship may be called "slave," or "slut."
They’re a
 
 
person who’s not
even worthy of having their title capitalized, or even having a title
per se. 

 
 
Their designation as
slave or slut is uttered with complete contempt. You can use other
terms
 
 
sporadically –
"whore," "cunt," "worm," etc. as long
as it’s at least mildly derogatory and insulting. 

 
 
The sub’s
activities are directed sexually and possibly outside of the sexual
relationship
 
 
by their Master. They
are protected by the Master – no one but the Master can be
allowed to
 
 
abuse the sub, unless
it is during role play with other Masters and subs
 
 
Submission means that
the sub enjoys submitting to the wishes, desires, and commands
 
 
of the Master. The sub
does not give control over herself to the Master, she allows the
Master
 
 
to dominate her for a
period of time, or longer. 

 
 
The sub can stop ALL
activity between the Master and sub with a safe word or gesture, 

 
 
uttered or flashed a
single time. 

 
 
People find out if
they’re a sub by participating in a Master and sub
relationship. It’s not
 
 
for everyone. 

 
 
 Things to keep in mind: 
 
 
A sub ALWAYS asks
permission to do anything, especially to respond to the Master. 

 
 
The words and sounds
that a sub makes in response to a Master’s words and actions, 

 
 
feed the Master’s
power and interest. Always fulfill your Master’s expectations
by
 
 
responding
passionately, respectfully, humbly and honestly. 

 
 
A sub should always be
honest in her feelings to her Master. 

 
 
A sub is humble. She
has a lot to be humble about! 

 
 
A sub disobeys her
Master when both partners will enjoy the results, but she doesn’t
 
 
overdo it. 

 
 
A sub pays attention
and follows the orders of her Master, and is polite and happy to
 
 
obey orders. 

 
 
A sub understands that
there is a limit to the abuse that she must take. 

 
 
 
 
 Threesomes and other participants 
 
 It was yet a few weeks later after
the discovery of her submissive nature, that Laura was 
 
 
 once again in the bedroom that she
shared with her husband, but this time with the 
 
 
 professor – or as she knew him
now, "Sir," for a midday tryst.  
 
 
 "Slut, I have a special treat
for you today," he said.  
 
 
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 In a daze, Laura found herself
sitting on the bed, facing away from Sir, towards Eva who 
 
 
 was now sexily undressing in front
of the former full time housewife, now part time slave.  
 
 
 "You will worship my body,"
Eva said, in a snake charmer’s voice as her slow 
 
 
 disrobing mesmerized the woman who
had so devotedly become Sir’s slave. "You will lick 
 
 
 my breasts, my pussy, my ass,"
Eva continued, as each enticing jewel of her lesbian 
 
 
 adornment was uncovered.  
 
 
 "Yes, Mistress," Laura
sighed, her pussy wetting at the sheer beauty of the naked 
 
 
 college girl’s feminine form.  
 
 
 "Suck my nipples," Eva
commanded, and Laura watched as though disembodied as 
 
 
 her mouth went to Eva’s full,
young breasts and deep pink, erect nipples. As she tentatively 
 
 
 mouthed the girl’s warm
nipples, Laura felt Eva’s hand slip under her skirt and quickly 
 
 
 pull her panties off her hips. Eva’s
knowing fingers stroked Laura’s labia, the girl 
 
 
 chuckling as she felt how wet Laura
already was for her.  
 
 
 "God, you’re a pathetic
slut," she laughed. "You get wet on command, and then you 
 
 
 whimper as you’re disciplined
by your betters."  
 
 
 She rapidly tore off Laura’s
skirt and blouse, popping several buttons in the process,  
 
 
 then unhooked her bra, allowing
Laura’s equally full, though less perky breasts free. Laura 
 
 
 sighed at feeling her body so free,
and her excitement grew rapidly as she realized that she 
 
 
 was going to be disciplined by this
unpredictable new Mistress, while Sir watched and 
 
 
 enjoyed her humiliation. Her pussy
tingled at her coming humiliation and degradation by 
 
 
 another woman.  
 
 
 She had always been curious about
lesbianism, but as a conventional wife, had never 
 
 
 had the courage to act on her
curiosity. Now, as Sir’s sex slave, she was free to do as she 
 
 
 was ordered, and her Master was most
considerate by giving her over to another woman’s 
 
 
 whims. She felt an outpouring of
love for her Master, and the memory of her husband faded 
 
 
 from her mind.  
 
 
 "You’ve been a bad
slave," her Mistress said. "Bad slaves must be punished, so
that 
 
 
 they appreciate how kind their
Master is to them."  
 
 
 "Lie across my lap," Eva
commanded. "I want to see your fat, little ass wriggle under 
 
 
 my touch, as it slowly turns red and
hot." Laura almost came – she was going to be nude 
 
 
 over another naked woman’s
lap, and would be spanked. The sharp sting of her punishment 
 
 
 would go straight to her clit, as it
always did.  
 
 
 "Ask for it, slut," her
Mistress commanded.  
 
 
 "Please, spank me, Mistress...
I am a very bad slave, I deserve to be punished." Eva 
 
 
 fingered Laura’s slit.  
 
 
 "You  are  a very bad slave,
but an  excellent  slut. Your pussy is wet and excited." Eva 
 
 
 wet her fingers in Laura’s
flowing lubrication, then squeezed the woman’s exposed clit 
 
 
 between her thumb and forefinger.
Laura yelped with pain.  
 
 
 "Quiet, slut," her
Mistress said. "Your slutty, filthy pussy is wet and I could
barely 
 
 
 grasp your whore clit. You felt no
pain, weakling. Just for that I will add ten more blows to 
 
 
 your spanking. Count each one out
loud."  
 
 
 Laura looked through her tears to
her Master. Sir was intent upon the interplay 
 
 
 between the two women, Mistress and
slave. The spanking began, and Laura, fearful of 
 
 
 receiving even more, kept quiet,
only sniffling and sobbing quietly, though her clitoris grew 
 
 
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 and creamy pussy, her fluids
dripping over Laura’s face, and filling her mouth, as in her 
 
 
 brief fantasy moments before.  
 
 
 "Lick my pussy, slut, make me
cum and squirt in your mouth."  
 
 
 Laura duplicated the movements of
Eva’s tongue with her own, softly swirling over 
 
 
 the girl’s plump, swollen
labia, inside her silkily seductive pussy, hot and creamy, and 
 
 
 smelling more fabulous than anything
else that Laura had ever smelled, and finally,  
 
 
 carefully stroking over Eva’s
clitoral hood until Eva screamed, "Suck my clit, bitch, suck it 
 
 
 between your lips and make me cum!"
 
 
 
 Laura did as she was told –
she was becoming very good at following orders – and as 
 
 
 Mistress rocked and thrashed above
her, Laura was greeted by hot squirts of musky fluid 
 
 
 from inside Mistress’ tight
young pussy as the girl squirted in ecstasy into her mouth and 
 
 
 across her cheeks. Laura spluttered
in surprise and shock, but came to enjoy the taste, and 
 
 
 hoped that soon she would have more
opportunities to explore Eva’s fresh young body.  
 
 
 Eva quickly arranged herself in
Laura’s arms, kissing and caressing her, lover to 
 
 
 lover, and complimenting her.
"You’re a natural, you’re going to do very well with
your 
 
 
 Master," Eva whispered to her.
Laura felt an immense pride that she had pleased Mistress,  
 
 
 and in so doing, hopefully Sir would
be happy with her.  
 
 
 "Come here, slave...on your
knees," Sir then ordered Laura. She came off the bed, then 
 
 
 crawled over to him, staring at his
erection, still immense, an angry red, and as of yet not 
 
 
 satisfied. "Suck my cock,"
he ordered her.  
 
 
 Laura took his hot, red shaft, so
velvety smooth in her hand, her fingers barely fitting 
 
 
 around it, so thick and long. It was
the first time that she’d been so close to it, and it was a 
 
 
 little scary to her, as well as
exciting. She lowered her lips to his softly cushioned dick 
 
 
 head, the helmet shaped cap nearly
filling her mouth by itself. As she did, she felt 
 
 
 something warm, wet and wriggling at
her asshole.  
 
 
 She heard Sir’s voice. "Your
Mistress is giving you a little treat. She’s being your slut 
 
 
 for a moment or two, and licking
your asshole. Don’t you appreciate the sweet feel of 
 
 
 another woman’s tongue inside
your tight rear, her submission to you and serving you by 
 
 
 teasing your rear hole?"  
 
 
 Laura, with her lips still well
planted around Master’s cock, looked up at him in 
 
 
 confusion. A Mistress serving a
slave made no sense.  
 
 
 "No?" Sir sneered. "Well,
don’t worry, because I think she’ll be done with rimming 
 
 
 your hot, slutty ass in just a
minute or two, in time for her other surprise." Laura 
 
 
 continued sucking her Master’s
big, hot and hard cock, happy to please him. She felt his 
 
 
 pulse beat through the blood vessels
in his shaft, and felt so close to him, so intimate with 
 
 
 this powerful, dominant man. She had
never particularly cared for oral sex before, taking a 
 
 
 man’s penis in her mouth had
been "one of those things" that a wife did, grudgingly, but 
 
 
 there was something  so  exciting
about being ordered to suck cock, and in sucking this 
 
 
 man’s cock.  
 
 
 As she was concentrating on sucking
Master’s reddish-pink shaft, Laura felt Eva’s 
 
 
 tongue leave her hole. She felt a
sense of absence unexpectedly, and realized that feeling 
 
 
 someone’s tongue – even
another woman’s – inside her dirty, naughty ass had felt
really,  
 
 
 really good, exciting her wet pussy
almost as much as sucking Master.  
 
 
 Then she felt a hard presence at her
rear hole, and moaned around Master’s cock 
 
 
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BDSM world. There may
be no one freer than a slave, oddly enough! 

 
 
Many people bring in a
third for play on occasion, not just in the BDSM world. It is
 
 
important that the two
partners both have complete faith and trust in the other, when a
third
 
 
person is introduced to
the party. If both can handle it, it makes for an absolutely amazing
 
 
BDSM and sexual
encounter – though many Masters have been surprised when the
picture
 
 
they had of two female
subs to play with conflicted with the Mistress and sub situation that
 
 
actually resulted. As
in a twosome, the members of a threesome should generally know each
 
 
other very well
beforehand. Of course, while in the scene, they can often pretend not
to know
 
 
each other. 

 
 
 "I was thrilled when my wife,
who’s also my Mistress, brought another woman home 
 
 
 last weekend. I spent all weekend
serving them, and especially eating their pussies. Next 
 
 
 weekend she said that she has a
‘special’ man that I will serve, and who’s going to
fuck her 
 
 
 out of her mind. I can’t wait.
I love my Mistress."  – Mike, 40 
 
 
 Spanking, First Level Sensation Play
in BDSM 
 
 
 Laura rarely had many opportunities
to have Master over when her husband was away.  
 
 
 Given the rare opportunity, she had
arranged to have Master over for dinner, to show him 
 
 
 that besides being his submissive
and obedient slave, she had other talents of which she 
 
 
 could be proud. She prepared a
wonderful feast for the two of them – she could explain the 
 
 
 added cost to the food budget later
to her husband.  
 
 
 As they dined on the lobster tails
and asparagus, to be followed by a lemon sorbet,  
 
 
 she couldn’t help but notice a
slight frown on Master’s face.  
 
 
 "Is everything alright?"
she asked anxiously, worried that she might have ruined 
 
 
 something.  
 
 
 "Unfortunately, the asparagus
is not quite right, Laura,’ he said slowly. "I could see 
 
 
 from your prideful expression
earlier, that you believe that you are a fantastic cook. You 
 
 
 are competent, but this asparagus is
a disappointment. As a result, I’m afraid that you’re 
 
 
 going to have to be punished."  
 
 
 Laura was confused. While Master had
treated her previously as the subservient slut 
 
 
 that she was, she thought that
perhaps he would compliment her on her abilities in the 
 
 
 kitchen. Apparently, he was less
than impressed. She had been spanked by her occasional 
 
 
 Mistress, Eva, but Master had not
yet actually physically punished her. Then it occurred to 
 
 
 her that she had been dreaming of
the spanking since that night, and praying that Sir 
 
 
 would also pay her that sweet
attention. Perhaps she had subconsciously ruined the 
 
 
 asparagus to provoke him.  
 
 
 "Stand up," Sir instructed
her. Laura did as she was told, and stood by the table, as 
 
 
 Master pulled his chair away from
the table.  
 
 
 "Take off your skirt," he
said. Anxiously, she complied, her pleated maxi skirt falling 
 
 
 to the floor, leaving her in her
crochet lace bikini panties, and her silk blouse.  
 
 
 "Pull your panties down to your
knees, and lay down over my knees," he said quietly.  
 
 
 It was becoming clear to Laura what
she was in for, and she shivered, but complied, her 
 
 
 fingers slowly drawing her panties
down off her hips, exposing her pussy and bum to the 
 
 
 warm air of the dining room, as well
as Master’s cool gaze. Then she slowly leaned down 
 
 
 and lay across Master’s
thighs, his impeccable crease bending a little under her body’s 
 
 
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Spanking is the first
level of physical interaction that brings real, physical pain to the
 
 
submissive partner when
applied by the Master (or Mistress.)
 
 
It may be impossible to
know the number of men and women who absolutely crave a
 
 
good spanking, and are
sexually aroused by it, but it is likely very high. It brings a sense
of
 
 
freedom and desired
loss of control, and in my opinion, allows the spankee to become more
 
 
childlike, giving up
adult responsibilities temporarily. In any case, you can’t go
wrong by
 
 
suggesting spanking –
one or both of you are likely to love it! 

 
 
In addition, in most
cases it involves a deeper intimacy than anything the couple has
 
 
done preceding it. As
such, it serves as a useful bond in the relationship. Plus, it’s
a great
 
 
tension reliever! 

 
 
 Things to keep in mind: 
 
 
Relax your partner
before spanking him. It works so much better when the "spankee"
is
 
 
at ease, and receptive
to the punishment. Remember, "Without pain there is no pleasure,
and
 
 
without pleasure there
is no pain." 

 
 
Spanking works well
consistently on the plump globes of the bottom, but the undersides
 
 
of butt cheeks, the
backs of the thighs and the genital area can be fair game as well –
just
 
 
remember the cock and
balls, and vulva are extremely sensitive, so, be careful. Not that
they
 
 
shouldn’t be
spanked, just keep their sensitivity in mind when judging the force
to be used. 

 
 
Don’t spank the
same spot over and over – that is extremely annoying and
downright
 
 
unpleasantly painful.
You’ve got a number of areas to spank, mix it up. 

 
 
Go from light spanking
to harder spanking when you begin, then you can mix up the
 
 
pressure, timing
between hits, and locations, even the shape of your hand, which will
inflict
 
 
more or less sensation.

 
 
Do you want to get
spanked? (I do! I do!) Then add to his pleasure by role playing. Are
 
 
you the bad little girl
"who needs a good spanking on my bottom"? I bet he’d
find that VERY
 
 
appealing
 
 
Don’t forget that
you love each other, and be nicer than normal to your partner
afterward
 
 
– it makes the
spanking more memorable and fun. Aftercare is extremely important to
the
 
 
submissive partner. 

 
 
The flatter the
spanker’s hand is, the more sensation the spankee will feel. 

 
 
There are a surprising
number of positions available, most of which are highly erotic for
 
 
both partners, as they
bring up both memories and images, and the reality of submission.
It’s
 
 
difficult to pretend
that you’re in control of anything when you’re sprawled
over your
 
 
partner’s knees,
or bent over the arm of an overstuffed chair, or on all fours with
your cute
 
 
little butt up in the
air, or lying flat on the bed (with your hand between your legs
playing with
 
 
yourself while you’re
being spanked!) I’ll bet you can think of a few more, just
think
 
 
‘submissive.’
 
 
The hand is the very
best tool available for introductory spanking, as both parties enjoy
 
 
the tactile contact.
Other less preferred, but more serious implements include table
tennis
 
 
paddles, hairbrushes,
and spatulas. Be sure to run any kitchen utensils through the
dishwasher
 
 
afterward, though! 

 
 
 Flogging, Caning and Whipping 
 
 
 The effects on Laura of that first
spanking by Sir were stunning. She found herself 
 
 
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 embarrassingly wet with excitement.
He traced his finger along her swollen labia and 
 
 
 along her clitoral hood, finally
dipping it into the steamy swamp that was her pussy.  
 
 
 "You’re enjoying this
entirely too much," he commented with a laugh, then slipped his 
 
 
 creamy, wet finger between her lips,
where, out of habit, she sucked on it, loving the taste 
 
 
 in spite of herself.  
 
 
 Then he stared into her eyes, and
without taking his eyes off hers, flogged directly on 
 
 
 her mound, the ends of the leather
lashes catching her labia and mons, and one tip striking 
 
 
 her clitoris directly. Laura thought
that she would die from the pain, the shock of sensation 
 
 
 at first paralyzing her, then racing
sensation throughout her body like the most intense 
 
 
 orgasm she’d ever experienced,
though it was preceded by a red flash of pure agony.  
 
 
 Within a few minutes, she realized
something that all Masters and Mistresses know – 
 
 
 without pain, there can be no
pleasure. The ripping agony of the lash to her clit, a 
 
 
 shockwave of fire, was followed by a
long, dreamy tsunami of building pleasure, her 
 
 
 agonized clitoral nerve endings
bouncing back from their brief, instantaneous shock, to 
 
 
 follow with long, dreamy minutes of
intense, gentle pleasure. She gasped, from the 
 
 
 unexpectedness of it all, and the
sheer quantity of pleasure.  
 
 
 It was like no other orgasm that
she’d ever had, and like a new drug, left her wanting 
 
 
 more – so, so much more.  
 
 
 "You’re a good little
slave," Master said, surprisingly, and after introducing her to 
 
 
 the exquisite pain and pleasurable
agony of the torture room, let her down from her 
 
 
 manacles, then drew a warm bath for
her, and disrobed himself, doffing his grey, pinstripe 
 
 
 suit to join her, naked, in the
Jacuzzi.  
 
 
 It was rare that Sir completely
disrobed while with her. Although in her dreams Sir 
 
 
 was constantly naked and thrusting
inside her with his massive, erect cock, delighting her 
 
 
 and bringing her to orgasm after
orgasm, in actuality it was she who approached total 
 
 
 nudity more often than not when with
him, as he remained clothed.  
 
 
 Their relationship was one of
dominance and submission, and often it was her 
 
 
 husband who benefitted from her
liaisons with Sir, as she was much more inclined to 
 
 
 having sex with her spouse, her
inhibitions rapidly disappearing – she had no hesitation 
 
 
 about mounting Sam in his sleep,
taking his own hot erection into her slippery pussy, or 
 
 
 sucking his cock, a pleasant
awakening for the hard working middle-aged man.  
 
 
 Her thoughts returned to Sir, as he
gently caressed and massaged her sore body,  
 
 
 allowing her to enjoy the intimacy
and gentleness of his aftercare. "I have something for 
 
 
 you," he whispered into her
ear, smiling softly. She looked at him quizzically, but saying 
 
 
 nothing, as he had not given her
permission to speak.  
 
 
 They exited the tub, her body
feeling more calm and relaxed than she had felt for 
 
 
 years, and he led her to the sofa,
now wrapped in a luxurious, soft over-sized towel. "These 
 
 
 are for you," Sir said, handing
her two small gift wrapped boxes.  
 
 
 "These are so beautiful,"
Laura exclaimed, looking into Sir’s eyes, seeing the love and 
 
 
 affection there. She felt a warm
glow inside of her at his expression.  
 
 
 "Open them," he laughed.
She tore the wrapping off the first, to find a fine black 
 
 
 leather collar, studded with tiny
rhinestones.  
 
 
 "You will wear this, and little
else, from now on when we’re together in private," he 
 
 
 said, smiling. "You are my
slave and should always wear the sign of the slave."  
 
 
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material at the end.
Crops increase in the level of pain from their sting as they become
 
 
thinner - thick crops
are not nearly as intense as thin ones. 

 
 
 Whips  have a
single length of leather attached to a handle. Shorter lengths are
much
 
 
easier to handle, so
you may want to start short, and then purchase longer whips as
 
 
experience grows. 

 
 
 Canes  are thin
lengths, usually of bamboo, rattan or wood, and deliver a sharp sting
 
 
with very little
effort. 

 
 
 Belts  are, well,
belts such as the one your man wears. Made of leather for best
effect, 

 
 
the leather is the
desired source of exquisite pain and pleasure, not the buckle. Easy
to
 
 
find, easy to use, it
is often one of the novice submissive’s first desired
implements of
 
 
pleasure, after the
paddle. 

 
 
The real pain of the
blow from most of these implements comes from a little "flick of
the
 
 
wrist," rather
than from brute force. Practice makes perfect, and makes for an easy
whipping
 
 
by the Master or
Mistress, and a pleasurable punishment for the submissive partner.
Belts do
 
 
rely more on the swing
of the arm, and are less nuanced (but still lots of fun!)
 
 
Always play safe –
reddening of the skin and bruising is normal, but deep bruising, 

 
 
bruising for extended
periods, or bleeding may indicate that you’ve taken the game
too far. As
 
 
a Mistress, never get
carried away using any of these implements – your submissive is
 
 
trusting that you will
bring him pain and pleasure, not cause him harm. And always remember
 
 
safe words and
gestures. 

 
 
Just as in spanking, do
not hit the same area repeatedly, without variation. Also, vary the
 
 
timing between blows,
and the intensity from blow to blow. 

 
 
Be very careful when
hitting any genital or female mammary areas, they are sensitive, 

 
 
vulnerable and easily
damaged. Don’t avoid them if your lover desires them to be
involved, 

 
 
just don’t get
carried away. It’s fairly difficult to harm the bottom –
breasts, clit, cock or balls
 
 
are a different matter.

 
 
Always watch over the
submissive when you are a Mistress, and provide medical
 
 
attention if necessary,
including doctor’s care if things have gone that far –
which they should
 
 
not, if you’re
doing your job. Always provide lots of aftercare, including gentle
massages
 
 
with appropriate
soothing lotions. A warm, gentle bath is always appreciated by your
slave. 

 
 
 What Sadomasochism (S & M, S/M)
Is 
 
 
Sadomasochism is the
giving and/or receiving of pleasure—often sexual—from
acts
 
 
involving the
infliction or reception of pain or humiliation. A subset of BDSM,
practitioners
 
 
of sadomasochism
usually seek out sexual gratification from these acts, but often seek
out
 
 
other forms of pleasure
as well. While the terms sadist and masochist specifically refer to
 
 
one who either enjoys
giving pain (sadist), or one who enjoys receiving pain (masochist), 

 
 
many practitioners of
sadomasochism describe themselves as at least somewhat of a switch, 

 
 
or someone who can
receive pleasure from either inflicting or receiving pain. 

 
 
 The acronym S&M is often used
for sadomasochism, although practitioners 
 
 
 themselves normally drop the &
and use the acronym SM or S/M. Sadomasochism is not 
 
 
 considered a clinical paraphilia
unless such practices lead to clinically significant 
 
 
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for excitement and make
sure that you communicate with your partner before a session to
 
 
discuss what excites
you both, and how you might make it even better, including role play,

 
 
props, toys and where
your session will take place. A hotel is different from your home,
and
 
 
from a deserted office,
or a meadow in the woods – all bring very different sources of
 
 
excitement. Make sure
that you’ll have what you need, especially lubes to ease the
way. 

 
 
Remember that foreplay
for your session can and should begin days before. Build the
 
 
anticipation with your
partner by texting him, or leaving him notes (where only  he 
will see
 
 
them!) Make sure that
your bedroom is equipped for your activities, and that the kids will
 
 
definitely be gone! 

 
 
Dominants should never
forget that their submissives require gentle, loving care after a
 
 
session. A properly
thoughtful and caring Dominant will be adored by their submissive
until
 
 
the end of time. 

 
 
Separate your BDSM life
from ‘real’ life – It doesn’t do to lead your
partner through the
 
 
supermarket with a
collar and leash in most parts of this country (though there are a
few
 
 
exceptions.)
 
 
 
 
 Exhibitionism 
 
 When the phone rang, Laura hurried
to answer it. Her heart quickened when she heard 
 
 
 Sir’s voice.  
 
 
 "Slut, you are to wear nothing
below your waist today – your pussy and ass are to be 
 
 
 completely unclothed and exposed, no
matter what happens – do you understand?"  
 
 
 "Yes...yes," Laura
replied, thinking quickly. God, what chores did she have? To her 
 
 
 relief, she had nothing that would
take her out of the house. She could obey her Master 
 
 
 easily. "Yes, sir," she
concluded, more firmly.  
 
 
 "Good, good," he replied.
"One other thing – you must masturbate once every hour,  
 
 
 but you may not have an orgasm. If
you cum, I will know, and will punish you severely."  
 
 
 Then he hung up on her.  
 
 
 "What an odd command,"
Laura thought, shrugging. She slipped off her slacks, then 
 
 
 her panties, enjoying the wicked
feel of her bottom and pussy being naked, while still 
 
 
 wearing her blouse. She set about
her chores. She was filling the kitchen sink with water to 
 
 
 begin on the dirty dishes, when she
heard the doorbell ring.  
 
 
 She went to the door. "Who is
it?" she called through the closed door.  
 
 
 "UPS, ma’am. Package."
 
 
 
 "Ohh...just leave it, okay?"
 
 
 
 To her relief, he replied, "Okay."
Imagine how horrible it would have been if he’d 
 
 
 needed a signature. And she didn’t
remember having a package on order. After she was sure 
 
 
 he was gone, she cracked open the
door. Seeing no one, she opened it and darted out onto 
 
 
 the porch to retrieve it –
unfortunately, it was on the top step, about four feet from the 
 
 
 door. Still if she was quick
enough...  
 
 
 She retrieved the package and was
returning to the door, which had closed behind her,  
 
 
 when she noticed the UPS driver next
door delivering there, and both he and her neighbor,  
 
 
 a young man of 22 or so, looking
over at her, their mouths agape.  
 
 
 "OHMIGOD!" Laura gasped,
running inside, slamming the door shut behind her. She 
 
 
 was breathing heavily, her pulse
racing. They had clearly seen her naked bottom, god 
 
 
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 "Um, with everything..."
he finished, his eyes locked on her pussy. Laura imagined 
 
 
 that he might even be able to smell
her heat, as her cream had been running down her 
 
 
 thighs for the last hour.  
 
 
 "Um, here you go," he
said, handing her the pizza box. "And ma’am, I get a lot
of 
 
 
 housewives coming on to me, but I’ve
got to say – you’re the hottest...ever. But my 
 
 
 girlfriend would kill me, so..."
 
 
 
 Laura didn’t know whether to
be offended or pleased. "Uh, thank you," was all she 
 
 
 could get out as his eyes stayed
fixed on her sex. She closed the door on him, still standing 
 
 
 there, and then took the pizza into
the kitchen. Only a minute later, she heard Sam’s car 
 
 
 pull into the driveway.  
 
 
 "Oh, thank god," she
thought." She raced to put on her panties and shorts. When Sam 
 
 
 came through the door, Laura nearly
raped him, her excitement overwhelming, her 
 
 
 orgasms complete and multiple, some
of the most exquisite that she’d ever experienced.  
 
 
 "I’ve never seen you so
grateful at not having to cook," Sam joked, between bouts of 
 
 
 lovemaking that went on far into the
night. "That was a great idea, you ordering pizza for 
 
 
 dinner."  
 
 
 Laura realized then that Sir had
been behind all the men "accidentally" seeing her 
 
 
 naked body, and felt the special,
private thrill from being forced into exhibitionism by her 
 
 
 Master.  
 
 
 Later, both Laura and Sam enjoyed
their cold pizza, after hours of hot sex.  
 
 
 A few weeks later, Laura and Sir
were seated at an outdoor cafe a few blocks from her 
 
 
 husband’s office. "Oh
god...I hope that one of my husband’s business friends doesn’t
pass 
 
 
 by," she fretted to herself.  
 
 
 "Are you enjoying your coffee,
my dear?" Sir asked her with a smile.  
 
 
 "Yes...yes," she
responded, a little more confidently on the second try. If Sir
suspected 
 
 
 that she was nervous about her
husband’s friends seeing her, he would embarrass her with 
 
 
 it, no doubt. To her chagrin, he was
quite aware of her fear, and intended to fully exploit it.  
 
 
 "Swivel in your seat a little,
to the right," he directed her. She did as ordered, noticing 
 
 
 that she was now facing a group of
college students nearby, chatting and sipping at their 
 
 
 own coffee drinks.  
 
 
 "Now, spread your legs apart –
quite wide – and begin inching up your skirt...ah, yes,  
 
 
 just like that, nice." Laura’s
face reddened as she realized what Sir was up to, but she also 
 
 
 felt a shock of pleasure course
through her at both her submission to his order, and the 
 
 
 thought that she was exhibiting the
most intimate part of her body to the collected group of 
 
 
 boys and girls nearby.  
 
 
 At first they didn’t notice
her, but then one of the boys who glanced her way nudged 
 
 
 the one next to him, and soon the
group of six, three boys and three girls, were pointedly 
 
 
 staring at Laura’s naked
crotch, her pink, wet pussy glistening with her pleasure and 
 
 
 excitement. The group was clearly
commenting on her, though she had no idea what exactly 
 
 
 they were saying, until one of the
boys pointedly brought his first two fingers of his right 
 
 
 hand up to his mouth, and waggled
his tongue in the angle of the "v" that they formed,  
 
 
 simulating cunnilingus, and the
group broke into gales of laughter.  
 
 
 To Laura’s immense relief,
they eventually turned away, and then left, though she felt 
 
 
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Asking him to
masturbate for you, or his asking you to play with yourself for him,
opens
 
 
you up and helps erase
the natural inhibitions that we all have. It helps to create the
greater
 
 
trust and communication
which is a hallmark of a loving BDSM relationship. 

 
 
Go with him to a
gentleman’s club in your area. There are many opportunities to
watch
 
 
others play, sans
clothing, and you may even want to let your partner get a lap dance
from a
 
 
dancer – you may
want to get one yourself! Why not? 

 
 
Taking voyeurism even
further can involve other couples, and you can investigate the
 
 
opportunities to watch
your partner do more than receive just a lap dance. Some women are
 
 
okay with that, others
say, "No way!" There’s absolutely nothing wrong with
you having a
 
 
position at either end
of that spectrum, or somewhere in between. BDSM is about trust AND
 
 
respect for partners.
If you’re interested, you can Google "swinging,"
"wife swapping," "open
 
 
relationships,"
etc. and find many dating sites for couples looking for other
couples. 

 
 
 
 
 Sensory Deprivation 
 
 When the doorbell rang the next
afternoon, a strange mixture of anticipation, excitement,  
 
 
 desire, and fear made her jump.
Laura plucked at the plain white blouse, and brushed her 
 
 
 gray skirt, hoping that Sir would
find it acceptable. She hurried to the door, and opened it 
 
 
 to see him smirking.  
 
 
 "You look so sophisticated and
confident, Laura," he said. "Yet we both know that 
 
 
 you’re a little girl who’s
dying to be a slutty whore, don’t we?" She felt her face
redden.  
 
 
 "Yes, Sir," she said, her
eyes cast down. He lifted up her face, his fingers under her 
 
 
 chin.  
 
 
 "I will make you proud of your
submissive nature, my dear, and glory in the delights 
 
 
 of being a man’s slave girl."
She shivered. She knew that she couldn’t stop whatever Sir 
 
 
 wanted to do to her, and worse, that
she didn’t  want  to stop him, no matter how much she 
 
 
 might protest.  
 
 
 "Now, show me to our bed,"
he said, his smile kindly.  
 
 
 "Could we maybe stay in the
living room and do.... whatever you want... on the sofa?"  
 
 
 Laura quavered, knowing already that
she was making a mistake. But she continued on 
 
 
 anyway, for lack of a better idea,
like just being quiet.  
 
 
 "It’s just that... you
make me so wet, that I think my husband suspects. The bed smells 
 
 
 like my sex."  
 
 
 "You should have thought of
that when you decided to fail your exam, you foolish slut.  
 
 
 Besides, sluts love to cuckold their
husbands because of their unfaithful nature when 
 
 
 married to weaklings. You belong to
me, now, not your husband."  
 
 
 Most women would have thrown out a
man who suggested that she cheat on her 
 
 
 husband, and flaunt her
unfaithfulness. But Laura found her obedience to the dominant 
 
 
 man irresistible. She was just
thankful that he didn’t summon in her husband, Sam, to 
 
 
 watch when she allowed Sir to
demean, torture and fuck her.  
 
 
 He laughed when he regarded the
bedroom that Laura shared with her husband. "It’s 
 
 
 rather pathetic," he said. "It
looks like you married someone as low on the social scale as 
 
 
 you, yourself. Maybe I’ll have
him turned out on the street after I’ve completely trained 
 
 
 you. I’m sure I can prosecute
some spurious legal claim to impoverish him."  
 
 
 "No, please," Laura
pleaded. "Whatever you want me to do, I’ll do...only,
please leave 
 
 
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 blanketed out any and all outside
sounds.  
 
 
 Laura lay naked on the bed, the
upper part of her head concealed by the black 
 
 
 blindfold and headphones, trembling
with anxiety, fear, the slight chill of the room, but 
 
 
 more overwhelmingly than anything
else, desire. Desire for her Master.  
 
 
 Sir took out a long feather, and
began tracing over Laura’s body with the soft tip,  
 
 
 light stroking concentrating on her
breasts, her sides, her stomach, down to her legs,  
 
 
 eventually narrowing down to her
thighs and vulva, then to her mons and upper thighs.  
 
 
 Laura giggled from his light touch,
the sensations more akin to a loving tickle than 
 
 
 anything else, and Laura felt a
surge of gratitude for her Master for his kindness to her, as 
 
 
 well as an outpouring of her vaginal
lubrication, with nearly every touch of the feather’s 
 
 
 tip sending sweet sensations of
pleasure through her hips straight to her clitoris.  
 
 
 She couldn’t hold back her
moans of pleasure at the light touch.  
 
 
 "Ohh, that feels so good,
you’re making me feel so good, so excited...you’re making 
 
 
 me wet..." she surprised
herself with her opening up to this man who by all rights should 
 
 
 still be a stranger to her, but he
was already far more – an intimate, a superior, even a 
 
 
 lover, but more than that...her
Master. She shuddered as light tendrils signaling an 
 
 
 imminent orgasm coursed through her
body.  
 
 
 Sir frowned. He did not want her to
cum. Her orgasm was up to  him , not to the 
 
 
 primitive urges of her undisciplined
slut body and mind. He reversed the feather, applying 
 
 
 the sharp end of the quill along her
body, the sharp edge creating white lines of pressure 
 
 
 as it traced over her, but not quite
breaking the skin. Laura shrieked at the unexpected 
 
 
 sensation, then sobbed from the
pain, similar to being cut with a thin knife, but with no 
 
 
 actual bleeding.  
 
 
 She writhed under his touch, the
sensation of pain deeper and more intense than the 
 
 
 sweet touch of the feather’s
soft tip had been, but then a strange transformation began 
 
 
 inside Laura’s body and mind.
She began to interpret the pain of the razor sharp quill as 
 
 
 being like the ecstasy of the
feather’s tip, and soon the electric pleasure she had felt 
 
 
 previously returned, but tripled or
quadrupled, and her orgasm quickly rushed at her, a 
 
 
 semi truck approaching a toddler on
a freeway at the speed limit, her body tensing with her 
 
 
 inner delight.  
 
 
 Master picked up her panties, the
gusset wet and strongly fragrant with her vaginal 
 
 
 cream. He waved it by her nose,
attracting her attention, her nose quivering as she inhaled 
 
 
 her body’s hot perfume. An
aroma which would have embarrassed her before meeting Sir,  
 
 
 soon became inextricably connected
in her mind with pleasure, and forever on, when she 
 
 
 smelled her own or another woman’s
pussy, would associate the sweet, musky perfume with 
 
 
 pleasure. Similarly, she was rapidly
learning to yearn for her Master’s infliction of pain on 
 
 
 her hot, feminine body as the height
of pleasure.  
 
 
 It was all too much for her, and the
flood of perverted pleasure broke through the dam 
 
 
 of her moral upbringing, a massive,
extended orgasm thrilling her entire body from tip to 
 
 
 toes, her dark universe filled with
indescribable beauty before her obstructed eyes, all of 
 
 
 her senses infused with the sweetest
and brightest of sensations. She cried out.  
 
 
 "Oh god, god, yesss, I’m
cumming! Fuck fuck fuck, please fuck me fuck me I love love 
 
 
 love you...oh god fuck..." her
voice trailed off, her body vibrating to an inner command,  
 
 
 her Master now inside her mind,
body, soul, never to be extirpated. There was no turning 
 
 
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you will probably want
the sound blocking type. 

 
 
Restraints are often
used in sensory deprivation, the better to keep your partner "in
the
 
 
dark." People miss
the use of their hands, and feel very uncomfortable mentally when
their
 
 
legs are spread wide,
their genitals exposed, or at least vulnerable. Handcuffs, leather,
and
 
 
padded restraints –
all are available on the internet and in adult novelty shops.
Homemade
 
 
restraints, i.e.,
neckties, scarves, or leather shoe laces, are initially used by many,
and add
 
 
interesting textures to
your play. 

 
 
Gags are also available
at commercial sources, but are probably for the more
 
 
experienced. Anything
that can restrict airflow is hazardous, so exercise caution. Homemade
 
 
gags are dangerous and
should be avoided. 

 
 
 
 
 Edging 
 
 Laura’s Master had told her to
go to the store and buy a package of condoms. "A small 
 
 
 package will be fine," he’d
said. She sat in her bedroom reading the instructions, but 
 
 
 wondered why he’d thought it
necessary – hopefully he wouldn’t be giving her to
another 
 
 
 man for sex, and she trusted Master
not to have any STDs. She also thought that pregnancy 
 
 
 was not an issue, since she was
still on the Pill.  
 
 
 "I shouldn’t be
questioning him – he’ll tell me what I need to know,"
she thought.  
 
 
 Just then her phone rang – it
was Him!  
 
 
 "Hello, slave," he said,
in a friendly voice. "Pull down your panties," he said, as 
 
 
 though asking her what the weather
was like there. She quickly complied, but didn’t say 
 
 
 anything, as he had not asked for
her thoughts.  
 
 
 "Now, open one of the packets,
take out the condom, then unroll it over your index and 
 
 
 middle fingers together."  
 
 
 "Yes, Sir," she replied.  
 
 
 When she picked up the phone again,
he spoke once more. "Now slide your two fingers 
 
 
 inside that tight pussy of yours
until they’re as deep as you can go. At the same time,  
 
 
 caress your clitoris with the thumb
of your other hand, but do not cum. You are not allowed 
 
 
 to cum until I grant you permission.
Tell me when you’re close – put the phone on speaker,  
 
 
 and begin."  
 
 
 Laura did as she was told, and began
pleasuring herself while sliding her fingers 
 
 
 inside. Her moans could be heard
through the phone.  
 
 
 "Fuck your fingers in and out
of your wet pussy, until I tell you to stop or until you 
 
 
 feel like you’re going to
cum."  
 
 
 Laura began fucking herself with the
condom, thinking about Master fucking her at 
 
 
 the same time, and soon felt that
the strong tension of an orgasm was approaching.  
 
 
 "I’m going to cum, Sir,"
she told her Master.  
 
 
 "Then stop, and lay still,"
he said. She did as he ordered, knowing that she would be 
 
 
 punished again if she had an orgasm.
The sweet tension was unbearable – her body was 
 
 
 used to greedily cumming when the
unbearable pleasure began to fill her clit and hips. It 
 
 
 was the hardest thing that she’d
ever done to avoid cumming. Finally, the sweet tension 
 
 
 dissipated inside her.  
 
 
 "I’m okay now, Master,"
she said.  
 
 
 "Good – and you didn’t
cum, did you." It was more a statement than a question.  
 
 
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 After she hung up, it occurred to
her that he hadn’t said when he would let her cum.  
 
 
 Tonight? Tomorrow? Next year? In his
own way, Master was continuing her punishment,  
 
 
 with no foreseeable hope of
absolution. She was really no better off than she had been 
 
 
 before he called, except that now
she would be masturbating all day, and still not being 
 
 
 allowed to cum!  
 
 
 Finally, just before she expected
her husband home, the phone rang. "You were a good 
 
 
 girl – you may cum now. Allow
your husband the pleasure of fucking you."  
 
 
 That night was one of the most
powerful, and numerous sets of orgasms she had ever 
 
 
 had with her husband. "If only
he were more like Master," she sighed, and then fell asleep 
 
 
 next to him.  
 
 
Edging is the sexual
technique of intentionally reaching and maintaining a high level of
 
 
sexual arousal, for an
extended period of time without reaching orgasm. It is often used as
a
 
 
dominance tactic with
submissives, whether in or out of restraints. A Dom, or Domme, will
 
 
bring the submissive
partner to a high level of arousal, and then deny the sub the
permission
 
 
that they need to
orgasm. It is a non-pain inducing technique, but by the high levels
of
 
 
frustration that can
accompany it in the submissive, is considered severe by the sub –
though
 
 
they often adore both
the tension, and the eventual subsequent release. 

 
 
 Things to keep in mind: 
 
 
Any method of sexual
stimulation is fair game by the Dom to maintain the sub’s
sexual
 
 
arousal – manual,
oral, intercourse, or with sex toys. 

 
 
Edging is also known as
peaking, and surfing. 

 
 
The submissive partner
can be brought to a very high level of arousal by varying the
 
 
intensity and speed of
stimulation. 

 
 
The process can be
repeated indefinitely, though at some point the urge to orgasm may be
 
 
irresistible to all but
the strongest of people. 

 
 
The orgasm that results
after edging is usually far stronger than normal, may result in
 
 
multiple orgasms, and
may allow for quicker recovery from orgasm and faster response
 
 
afterward. 

 
 
Remaining in the state
of sexual arousal may induce a euphoric state, even before any
 
 
orgasm. 

 
 
Masturbation is
probably the easiest way to edge a partner, as it is much easier to
apply
 
 
stimulus and judge the
approach to orgasm. 

 
 
Edging helps an
individual learn to control orgasms, and so approaches Tantric sex as
a
 
 
means of self-awareness
and sexual self control. 

 
 
 
 
 Wax Play 
 
 "I have a special treat for you
tonight," Master said, as Laura lay on her stomach on the 
 
 
 bed. She was naked, as Master
expected her to be. He had brought several different 
 
 
 colored candles for their tryst,
lighting them, and placing them on the bedside table. Laura 
 
 
 thought that strange, as usually
candles are placed throughout a room to set a romantic 
 
 
 mood. In any case, he was here with
her, and her husband was away on business – that was 
 
 
 all that she needed, and she was
satisfied.  
 
 
 "How would you like a nice oil
rub on your back?" he asked her, smiling.  
 
 
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you should check the
temperature of the wax before using to make sure it does not exceed
safe
 
 
and tolerable
temperatures. 

 
 
Tolerance for hot wax
depends on the individual, and where wax is applied. Nipples, 

 
 
areolae, cock, scrotum,
labia, clitoris, pussy and anus are very sensitive. Hot wax must
never
 
 
be applied anywhere
near the head and eyes. 

 
 
Wax can be very, very
difficult to remove from hair and fabrics. Applying mineral lotion
 
 
to a surface
beforehand, can make removing wax much easier. 

 
 
Visit
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wax_play and
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Waxing on
 
 
other safety concerns
and cautions. 

 
 
 Some important BDSM safety tips!  
 
 
As Christian Grey
termed them, basic rules of safety in BDSM are "fundamental
terms." 

 
 
 Things to Keep in Mind: 
 
 
Don’t use "Stop"
as your safe word, also do not use "No." 

 
 
You must, must, MUST
have an agreed upon safe word and gesture available to you. 

 
 
Most common among BDSM
practitioners are "banana," "pineapple," and
"red." 

 
 
A partner ignoring a
safe word or gesture is grounds for shutting down a session
 
 
IMMEDIATELY, and giving
the partner a severe verbal dressing down. 

 
 
Keep in mind that BDSM
sex is not in and of itself, going to prevent pregnancy or
 
 
transmission of
disease. Take the usual precautions necessary today, including
knowing your
 
 
partner. 

 
 
Toys and implements
should be scrupulously clean AND sanitized. Something that was
 
 
up a butt prior, can
cause an infection in the vagina or mouth/intestines after! 

 
 
Internet BDSM Shops
Thank goodness that technology and social mores have made
 
 
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 Toys for Men and Women 
 
 
Feathers, and dusters –
these are basic toys for any level of BDSM fun. 

 
 
Vibrators – these
come in a variety of sizes, shapes and functions, and can stimulate
any
 
 
part of the body. They
range in size from tiny butterflies that can be hidden in the palm of
 
 
your hand as you take a
short lunch break in a ladies room stall, to large, two handed
 
 
plug in vibrators for a
weekend of tantalizing, agonizing pleasure. 

 
 
Dildos –these
come in all shapes, sizes, colors, and functions (some even squirt),
and
 
 
are made of silicone,
latex, glass and other materials. Simulating and replacing the penis
 
 
when there’s not
enough to go around has never been easier. And these never go limp! 

 
 
Butt plugs –
these are safer than dildos for anal training and play, and they’re
really
 
 
needed if you and your
partner are interested in anal play. Again, made in a variety of
 
 
sizes, you’ll
probably want to start small, as the anus is sensitive to size,
especially in
 
 
men. Then you can get
into larger sizes if you like. Many are wearable during the day
 
 
and in many cases, butt
plugs can ready a lover for his or her partner’s attentions at
the
 
 
end of a long day.
These are great for edging you or your partner before your orgasmic
 
 
release together. 

 
 
Anal beads –
these are washable, hygienic beads on a string, and may be one size
or
 
 
range from small at one
end to quite large at the other. They’re fun to place inside
your
 
 
lover’s anus and
rectum, but even more fun to slowly pull out! 

 
 
Nipple clamps –
these come in a variety of colors, shapes, and most of all, effects.
Some
 
 
are only mildly
painful, while some can only be described as "excruciating,"
depending
 
 
on your interests and
desires. 

 
 
Pinwheels – these
are spiked wheels with a handle that roll over your partner’s
(or
 
 
your) body. Depending
on the pressure applied, and the sensitivity of the body part, these
 
 
can be outstanding
implements of pleasurable torture! 

 
 
 
 
 Toys for Women 
 Clit clamps – these are much like nipple clamps. They vary in colors and tension, 
 depending on your ability to accept the sensation. Be sure to pick out a pretty one! 
 Ben Wa balls - these are delightful, stainless steel balls that you place inside the vagina 
 and that remain inside throughout the work day. They have a long history, and have 
 probably pleased countless millions of women through the ages. Highly recommended! 
 
 
 
 Toys for Men 
 Cock rings – these are great for both straight as well as gay partners. These are perfect 
 for a Mistress to edge her male submissive, delaying his ability to orgasm, or by the man 
 himself to enhance his orgasmic pleasure. 
 Scrotum pleasure toys – this variety of male toys can stretch the scrotum, use as weights 
 to hang the scrotum down, and as clamps on the testicles – these reach a variety of tastes. 
 
 
 
 Online sources for pleasure toys 
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 your Mistress, Eva, on occasion to continue your training as a lesbian slut toy, and you 
 
 
 will certainly be fucked in as many embarrassingly public situations as I can think of. And 
 
 
 since we’re nearly ready for sleep, and I don’t want to get out the toys just now, I will 
 
 
 paddle your sweet bottom with my bare hand until you cry, and then fuck you – perhaps in 
 
 
 your tiny little asshole, depending on how painful I decide to make it."  
 
 
 "Oh god, yes, thank you, Sir," Laura moaned. "I’ve been so, so bad Master. I deserve 
 
 
 your wrath." With that, Sam, her husband no longer but her Master forever, took Laura 
 
 
 over his knee and gave her the spanking of a lifetime, and both Master and slave were 
 
 
 very, very happy for the rest of their lives (as was Mistress Eva.) 
 
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 One Last Thing... 
 When you turn the page, Kindle will give you the opportunity to rate the book and share your 
 thoughts on Facebook and Twitter. If you believe the book is worth sharing, would you take a 
 few seconds to let your friends know about it? If it turns out to make a difference in their love 
 lives, they'll be forever grateful to you. As I will. 
 Melinda Holmes 
 Copyright © 2012 Melinda Holmes 
 Images and Cover by Sensual Science Publishing 
 Atlanta, Georgia USA 
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