 One possibility is to appeal to a Dworkinian hypothetical insurance scheme (Dworkin 2000) to establish a way of distributing personal relationship goods without violating state neutrality (see Bou-Habib 2013 for an application of this device to the question of individual access to the material resources needed for child-rearing). For this we should be able to determine what opportunities for personal relationship goods would the average person chose for herself, under conditions of perfect information and rationality.