 But friendship and promising, for example, are not like spatial position, i.e., it does not seem that the relevance of these relationships is a matter of the parties to them being best causally situated to provide aid. Even if a person who is wealthier than me is actually in a better position to aid my friend, it nonetheless seems to be the case that I have some reason to aid my friend that the person at least as well or better causally situated to do so does not have. She may have stronger agent-neutral reason to aid my friend, but she does not have the agent-relative reason arising from friendship that I have. 