[usr] My mother will be 85 in a few days. My sister planned a surprise party knowing the day, hour and location would be very difficult for me to attend. [sys] I hope you make it. Thats a big birthday. [usr] It is day after tomorrow and I am still not certain I can work it out. Sometimes people are very inconsiderate. [qst] [None] [bhv] [None]
That not good. Maybe she will understand if you just can't make it.
my sister planned a birthday party for our mother on a day and time in which it will create a huge hardship on me. She knew my schedule when she made the plan.