[usr] My spouse gave me a gift, a watch. A friend of mine wanted to borrow my watch but I could not lend it to her. It values a lot to me [sys] If it is a treasured gift, your friend should not be asking for it! how did you feel when she did ask you? [usr] I was surprised because she knew who gave me the gift, but she insisted. [sys] Did she understand when you gave her the reason you didn't want to lend it to her? [usr] No! She didn't speak to me for days, she said I was mean and selfish. [qst] [None] [bhv] [None]
She doesn't sound like a good friend to me!
I was given a gift from my spouse, someone wanted to borrow it but I could not lend it out.