[usr] many years ago when my wife and i first moved in with each other there were lots of debates about money [sys] Financial stress can be a major burden. How did you get over this issue? [usr] Well since i work more than I am at home we decided that she would handle the money and only have to consult me on major matters or purchases. [sys] That is a smart and well thought out plan [usr] I told her that if she ever messed up and we lost a house or something devisating happened that we would switch and i would take over. [sys] Would you be able to forgive her for such a large mistake? [usr] I like to believe i would, though i would be handling the money from then on. [qst] [None] [bhv] I'm in a negative mood, please comfort me.
That is true. And the mistake would not happen again so you do not have to worry about that
When me and my wife first got together we had a long debate about money. In the end we decided that since i was at work most of the time she would handle all money matters and have most say in things.