[usr] many years ago when my wife and i first moved in with each other there were lots of debates about money [sys] Financial stress can be a major burden. How did you get over this issue? [usr] Well since i work more than I am at home we decided that she would handle the money and only have to consult me on major matters or purchases. [sys] That is a smart and well thought out plan [usr] I told her that if she ever messed up and we lost a house or something devisating happened that we would switch and i would take over. [qst] ask me for further details [bhv] [None]
Would you be able to forgive her for such a large mistake?
When me and my wife first got together we had a long debate about money. In the end we decided that since i was at work most of the time she would handle all money matters and have most say in things.