[usr] Hi friend. I feel very ashamed because I got cheated on. I feel very negative and just depleted of emotion. I trusted them. [sys] Well, that't not your fault at all. It's your scumbag significant other's fault. You shouldn't feel ashamed for the crummy thing he did - you did nothing wrong. [usr] Thank you I appreciate that. I just held him to such a high standard and he let me down. A lot. [qst] [None] [bhv] please give me some advices.
If he's not meeting your standard then it's time to find a new boyfriend - even if that's the hard thing to do. You shouldn't ever lower your standards.
I was very ashamed when I found out I got cheated on. It really just took all the energy and hope out of me.