[usr] I am fat. I feel ashame when I have to change clothes in the men locker room. [sys] That's too bad.  Have you given serious thought to trying to lose weight? [usr] I am trying but I never reach my goals. [qst] [None] [bhv] I'm in a positive mood, please congratulate me and praise me.
Hmmm.   I encourage you to keep trying.   Even if you don't ge tto your dieal weight, just getting halfway would show trememndous progress.
I am a little fat. I feel ashame when I have to change clothes in the men locker room.