[usr] My wife just went out of town for school for 2 months.  I don't really know anyone here, so I don't know what I'm going to do while she's gone. [sys] It is an excellent opportunity, to know other people and places, to open up to the possibility, I assure you that it will go to you very well [usr] I'm sure it is great for her, but it makes me feel a little unsure of what to do with myself. [qst] [None] [bhv] I'm in a positive mood, please congratulate me and praise me.
You do the same thing ... the opportunity is for both
My wife went out of the country for 2 months, leaving me alone with the dogs.  We had just moved so I didn't really know anyone at the time.