[usr] A few years ago, before we got married, my wife planned a party for me for my birthday completely without me knowing. [qst] [None] [bhv] I'm in a positive mood, please congratulate me and praise me.
That sounds like a pleasant surprise!
A few years ago I came home to an unexpected party for my birthday.  My wife (who was my girlfriend then) had planned it all with my friends without me knowing.