"Whenever you come over here and offer your help she does that. The second you leave she becomes depressed then starts to sob. She will say things like 'I am sorry Spike, I don't mean to lead you on but I just don't feel the same way about you. I care about you dearly but just not that way. I am afraid to tell you because I don't want to lose you, you are one if not the best friend I have ever had.' Then she sits up and cries all night saying variations of that and forgets to feed me." The last part seems to piss the cat off the most.