"This little guy here is a friend and he wants me to see what I can to help. I am not here to say who is right or wrong. I am here just to hear your side and to see if there is anything I can do that can leave everyone happy that is all. I want to try to keep the peace." I just plainly say what I am here for. I figured if I am trying to get them to trust me enough to take me to their home I might as well trust them with my purpose. 