"But you used to love it!  Remember a few years ago, when you dressed in black all the time?  Practiced your laugh?  Started calling yourself "Schorl"?   You even darkened your mane.  It was so cu-...villainous and threatening; quite becoming for a young lady."  He heaved a little nostalgic sigh, getting a frown from her in the process.  "You were taking after me so closely; you hung on my every word.  What happened to all that?"