She allows a moment of silence before continuing on a more serious note, “Anon, listen. Love comes with a responsibility that a simple friendship doesn’t. A good friend doesn’t require anything of you, but a lover does, and should. She’s your partner in life, she’s relying on you not just for support and affection, but for course corrections as well. You’re not just a wing for her to cry on, you have the responsibility to help her become the best version of herself that she can be.”